"YOU HAVE TO APPROACH GIRLS, THEY RARELY APPROACH YOU!
Good looking guys think that just because they are good looking they will get girls, and they can just wait rather than approach and possibly be rejected. The truth is you will wait forever to get a girlfriend this way. Trust me I know"
Being good looking worked against me. I can totally relate to what Joe the Homophobe says. Here's why.
I received a lot of attention from girls at a younger age. In my reality, girls pursued me and it wasn't the other way around. I had two long term relationships and in each one, the girl pursued me. Eventually the second long term relationship ended and after that, I had a loooooooooong dry spell. I hold the record for the longest dry spell for a good looking guy. Many below average girls wanted to hook up with me during my dry spell period but I paid no attention to them. Afterall, I was good looking and thought that a hottie would come knocking on my door. After years of waiting for that knock on my door that never occured , it finally hit me: I have to approach girls and make things happen. (by the way, i didn't realize this on my own but by accident; that's a different story in itself though and this is aleady getting too long)
My good looks actually worked against me because at a young age, I was conditioned not to pursue girls because they were already pursuing me. Young average guys who aren't pursued by girls learn at an early age what Joe the Homophobe has to say, "You have to approach the girls...yada yada" and thus that's the reason I believe the more average guys are more successful than the "hot" and "fine" guys. Average guys realize at a young age that their dream girl won't come knocking on their doors...and so they know to take action.
I already pointed out the main thing I had to say. But since I'm on a roll I'll continue.
I also hold the world record for most rejections earned by a "fine" "hot" guy (not to brag, but this is how many girls describe me). I started taking action since no one was knocking on my door. But I limited myself and tried to hook up only with girls I knew of through acquaintances (since I didn't know how to cold approach nor did I have the balls to do so). After a date or two, I would always get dropped. I was confused. "I'm a good looking guy," I thought, "Why am I getting more rejections than a smelly old nasty fart at an eighteen and over club." You may be a "hot" "fine" guy like me, but if you don't have the right attitude, you''ll only get below average / average girls.
Fast forward a few years, after literally going through hundreds of hours of dating/self-help material, I've improved myself greatly (that too is a totally different story in itself) I've stuck with certain schools of thought for a while (I don't want to advertise anyone's products).
After hanging out with this cutie for some time, she told me she was "mesmerized" by my looks when she first saw me. She said her first impression of me was that I was a big time player due to the good looks and slick attitude combination. She pointed out that it wasn't necessary for me to have been so "slick" and that I should have simply let my looks do the work for me. She may have been right, but would we have hooked up at all if I didn't approach her in the manner that I did? I wanted to find out. So I modified my way with girls. I started approaching girls with the mentality "have my looks work for me" and I dropped most of the techniques and methods I was using. Surprisingly, I had great success with that approach.
If you're a good looking guy, work on your body language, voice tone, and develop the right attitute. After you've improved in these areas, you can simply let your looks work for you to pull the girls. From my experience, it wasn't necessary to bust on women(although this works, but you'll come across as a big time player). Just improve on the areas mentioned and have your looks work for you.
Good looking guys think that just because they are good looking they will get girls, and they can just wait rather than approach and possibly be rejected. The truth is you will wait forever to get a girlfriend this way. Trust me I know"
Being good looking worked against me. I can totally relate to what Joe the Homophobe says. Here's why.
I received a lot of attention from girls at a younger age. In my reality, girls pursued me and it wasn't the other way around. I had two long term relationships and in each one, the girl pursued me. Eventually the second long term relationship ended and after that, I had a loooooooooong dry spell. I hold the record for the longest dry spell for a good looking guy. Many below average girls wanted to hook up with me during my dry spell period but I paid no attention to them. Afterall, I was good looking and thought that a hottie would come knocking on my door. After years of waiting for that knock on my door that never occured , it finally hit me: I have to approach girls and make things happen. (by the way, i didn't realize this on my own but by accident; that's a different story in itself though and this is aleady getting too long)
My good looks actually worked against me because at a young age, I was conditioned not to pursue girls because they were already pursuing me. Young average guys who aren't pursued by girls learn at an early age what Joe the Homophobe has to say, "You have to approach the girls...yada yada" and thus that's the reason I believe the more average guys are more successful than the "hot" and "fine" guys. Average guys realize at a young age that their dream girl won't come knocking on their doors...and so they know to take action.
I already pointed out the main thing I had to say. But since I'm on a roll I'll continue.
I also hold the world record for most rejections earned by a "fine" "hot" guy (not to brag, but this is how many girls describe me). I started taking action since no one was knocking on my door. But I limited myself and tried to hook up only with girls I knew of through acquaintances (since I didn't know how to cold approach nor did I have the balls to do so). After a date or two, I would always get dropped. I was confused. "I'm a good looking guy," I thought, "Why am I getting more rejections than a smelly old nasty fart at an eighteen and over club." You may be a "hot" "fine" guy like me, but if you don't have the right attitude, you''ll only get below average / average girls.
Fast forward a few years, after literally going through hundreds of hours of dating/self-help material, I've improved myself greatly (that too is a totally different story in itself) I've stuck with certain schools of thought for a while (I don't want to advertise anyone's products).
After hanging out with this cutie for some time, she told me she was "mesmerized" by my looks when she first saw me. She said her first impression of me was that I was a big time player due to the good looks and slick attitude combination. She pointed out that it wasn't necessary for me to have been so "slick" and that I should have simply let my looks do the work for me. She may have been right, but would we have hooked up at all if I didn't approach her in the manner that I did? I wanted to find out. So I modified my way with girls. I started approaching girls with the mentality "have my looks work for me" and I dropped most of the techniques and methods I was using. Surprisingly, I had great success with that approach.
If you're a good looking guy, work on your body language, voice tone, and develop the right attitute. After you've improved in these areas, you can simply let your looks work for you to pull the girls. From my experience, it wasn't necessary to bust on women(although this works, but you'll come across as a big time player). Just improve on the areas mentioned and have your looks work for you.
