DJinTraining06
Master Don Juan
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Just got engaged 2 weeks ago and everything was good. We did it the night i proposed and the next day and now its been about 12 days and we havent done it since. It's always something, she's tired and needs a nap in the afternoon or we get home on a sat night and she goes straight to bed even if its early, or she has to do her hair or put on makeup or she wont take her eyes off her laptop. How do i let her know this is unaccepatable.
I was thinking of either just exaggeratedly tryin to have sex every time i see her until she gets the drift and we do it 2-3 times a week (which is all im asking). Right now i only try about two or three times a week and i get some once. She never initiates and i hate being rejected when i ask so i limit it to 2 or 3. Maybe now ill just be super agressive and try 5-6 times a week and just act like there is no yes or no for her, girls like a guy taking charge in bed anyway right? basically im the guy and i wanna do it, i gave u a ring so that comes with the territory. So if i try 5 times and get it 2 or 3 then ill be happy. I just wanna make her understand that i wont put up with less than 2. The mistake i made was not nipping it in the bud early in the relationship. When we lived wioth our folks it was impposibel to do it more than once a week cuz our paretns were always home and we live far away and my work shedule was tough. But now weve lived together over a year and theres no excuse. I never made her unsterstanmd that im not ok with it. I hope its not too late.
My other idea was to just flat out say soemthing like this: Listen im a young guy in my 20's and im supposed to want to have sex with more girlfriend more than once a week. We never ever do it more than once a week and i dont think thats right. Why r u marrying soemone u dont want to sleep with?
Which idea is better? Ive had big arguments over this with her twice in the last 2 years and each time she starts cryign and denies it and says that we do do it a few times a week. She basically makes stuff up in her head which is really weird cuz we never do it more than once ever. Either that or she blames it on her period or something and i have to tell her im not talking about 4 days outta the month what about the other 26 days? I mean all i ask is twice a week maybe 3 once i a while buit twice would be fine. Its never twice and i feel like shes doing me some kind of favor doing it the one time a week. Its not supposed to be like that before ur marrie dwith kids am i right? Aside from the fact that im a yound man with needs, it also makes me feel like she doesnt want me and im basically just the guy whos allowing her to get to wear her white dres sand have her big day. Its just unbelievable, once we have kids in a few years the party is over, we wont ever do it. Ill be in my early to mid 30's and will basically never use my penis again.
I was thinking of either just exaggeratedly tryin to have sex every time i see her until she gets the drift and we do it 2-3 times a week (which is all im asking). Right now i only try about two or three times a week and i get some once. She never initiates and i hate being rejected when i ask so i limit it to 2 or 3. Maybe now ill just be super agressive and try 5-6 times a week and just act like there is no yes or no for her, girls like a guy taking charge in bed anyway right? basically im the guy and i wanna do it, i gave u a ring so that comes with the territory. So if i try 5 times and get it 2 or 3 then ill be happy. I just wanna make her understand that i wont put up with less than 2. The mistake i made was not nipping it in the bud early in the relationship. When we lived wioth our folks it was impposibel to do it more than once a week cuz our paretns were always home and we live far away and my work shedule was tough. But now weve lived together over a year and theres no excuse. I never made her unsterstanmd that im not ok with it. I hope its not too late.
My other idea was to just flat out say soemthing like this: Listen im a young guy in my 20's and im supposed to want to have sex with more girlfriend more than once a week. We never ever do it more than once a week and i dont think thats right. Why r u marrying soemone u dont want to sleep with?
Which idea is better? Ive had big arguments over this with her twice in the last 2 years and each time she starts cryign and denies it and says that we do do it a few times a week. She basically makes stuff up in her head which is really weird cuz we never do it more than once ever. Either that or she blames it on her period or something and i have to tell her im not talking about 4 days outta the month what about the other 26 days? I mean all i ask is twice a week maybe 3 once i a while buit twice would be fine. Its never twice and i feel like shes doing me some kind of favor doing it the one time a week. Its not supposed to be like that before ur marrie dwith kids am i right? Aside from the fact that im a yound man with needs, it also makes me feel like she doesnt want me and im basically just the guy whos allowing her to get to wear her white dres sand have her big day. Its just unbelievable, once we have kids in a few years the party is over, we wont ever do it. Ill be in my early to mid 30's and will basically never use my penis again.
