@AmsterdamAssassin just chiming in to say good stuff from you on this thread!
Especially your description of Borderline Personsality Disorder (BPD) which is a "personality" disorder versus Bipolar Disorder which is a "mood" disorder - a chemical imbalance in the brain and treated with meds depending on the severity (Bipolar 1 which is severe and Bipolar 2 which is less severe).
I also agree with the notion that we are all a bit crazy and emotional or can be. Both women and men, depending on the circumstances.
I've seen it from both genders, expressed in different ways.
Even on this forum!
we grow through struggle, we become stronger or we die, and experience and wisdom create better temperament.
Powerful quote!
Best of luck with the therapy.