Valentines Emergency Tent

[SW15]

This realization came to me a while back: many women say they don’t care about celebrating Valentine’s Day, but you’d be in trouble if you didn’t buy them something or make the day special. After all, their friends probably got something from their significant other. That being said, Valentine’s Day is a great opportunity to earn some brownie points with your mom, mother-in-law, sister, or even make your daughter’s day special with a small gesture—like buying some roses and chocolates for about 20 bucks. Don’t be stingy. If you’re talking to a girl, you can also buy her something and make it a lukewarm effort, just make sure her feelings toward you are reciprocated so you don’t look dumb.

Most girlfriends/wives have expectations for Valentine's Day.

The boyfriends are buying gifts and hoping to get laid as a result of buying gifts.

I went to the grocery store today to pick up some groceries, and on the way out, I stopped by the gift shop to buy some flowers, teddy bears, and chocolates. There was a huge line, and most of the people in it were men, mostly in their early 30s, though I saw men of all ages buying flowers.

The early 30s guys likely have similarly aged girlfriends/wives. A lot of those guys are feeling a lot of pressure. Women are putting pressure on them for a ring or wanting to have a baby soon. The guys don't want to mess up Valentine's Day because they are worried about lacking access to sex. Monogamous beta males in relationships live in a world of scarcity and fear about having to start new interactions.

 

[Clockwerk50]

Most girlfriends/wives have expectations for Valentine's Day.

The boyfriends are buying gifts and hoping to get laid as a result of buying gifts.



The early 30s guys likely have similarly aged girlfriends/wives. A lot of those guys are feeling a lot of pressure. Women are putting pressure on them for a ring or wanting to have a baby soon. The guys don't want to mess up Valentine's Day because they are worried about lacking access to sex. Monogamous beta males in relationships live in a world of scarcity and fear about having to start new interactions.

I don’t know if it is sex related, but they most likely don’t want the woman to bring up the fact that they didn’t bought anything for Valentine’s Day in the future during an argument as well.

Edit: or maybe they are genuinely in love and they are doing it from their heart…

 

[SW15]

I don’t know if it is sex related, but they most likely don’t want the woman to bring up the fact that they didn’t bought anything for Valentine’s Day in the future during an argument as well.

To me, that would be sex related. A future argument would reduce the chances for getting pussie.

 

[sevbucmash]

The boyfriends are buying gifts and hoping to get laid as a result of buying gifts.

Bruh. You saying it wrong. Boyfriend hopping to get laid? That don't sound right.

The act of giving attention and gifts is for the woman to feel good. It's her day today. Be it valentine's or march 8 if you living in other parts of the world. Getting laid has nothing to do with it.

 

[The_Sea_Wolf]

I have been straight the **** OUT of all of my DM's today, it has been total radio silence on my end, will be tomorrow and sunday as well.

I want them guessing what I have been up to, I want them wondering why I'm not responding.

The only acception to this are obviously with the woman who lives with me and the couple other women we are super tight with, any of the 'plates' who are not already on my roster will not hear from me all weekend even if I am bored.

This is because women are seeing men trying to leverage Valentines Day, you can kill it for yourself if you come off as trying to emotionally manipulate her when she is feeling lonely, why take a risk of ****ing it up if you can just do nothing and let her mind do the heavy lifting for you?

 

[SW15]

Bruh. You saying it wrong. Boyfriend hopping to get laid? That don't sound right.

In monogamous longer term relationships, boyfriends and husbands are often in a position where they are hoping to get laid from their girlfriends/wives.

Numerous boyfriends/husbands would like to have more sex in their relationships. That's a normal feeling in the world of Average Frustrated Chumps.

Their girlfriends/wives completely control their access to sex.

 

[The_Sea_Wolf]

In monogamous longer term relationships, boyfriends and husbands are often in a position where they are hoping to get laid from their girlfriends/wives.

Numerous boyfriends/husbands would have to have more sex in their relationships. That's a normal feeling in the world of Average Frustrated Chumps.

Their girlfriends/wives completely control their access to sex.

This is very true, which is why they mutter dumb **** like "It's cheaper to keep her" and "happy wife happy life" and so on.

 

[SW15]

This is very true, which is why they mutter dumb **** like "It's cheaper to keep her" and "happy wife happy life" and so on.

When guys like us have conversations with most boyfriends/husbands in these LTRs/marriages and actively listen to what they're saying, it becomes evident that their scarcity mentality exists.

The majority of men in these relationships have messed up power dynamics. These are guys who are chasing sex from women experiencing some degree of boredom and with lower levels of genuine desire.

 

[sevbucmash]

That's f-ed. It's like praying to the lawnmower so it starts up. Better get a new lawnmower.