Using the "WALK AWAY" method, STR8UP.

[ThunderMaverick]

Yeah I'll be treating flaky girls differently for now on. I'll like both of your adivce on the situation.

It's only going to make me stronger. Thanks you guys!

 

[Metro3pilot]

STR8UP

She doesn't "know you won't tolerate bullsh!t", she thinks you're weak because she was able to have so much of an impact on your world just because she "got drunk and forgot to call you, blah,blah".

She will NEVER own up to the fact that SHE fukked up, therefore you can't teach her anything. ANYTHING!

Amen Brother, life is a little easier with less stress and much less anger when you figure this tidbit out, don't you think ?

Hey Thunder ...people that don't care, well they just don't care ! ! ! trying to get even is a waste of one's time and brain space

 

[STR8UP]

STR8UP
Amen Brother, life is a little easier with less stress and much less anger when you figure this tidbit out, don't you think ?

Hey Thunder ...people that don't care, well they just don't care ! ! ! trying to get even is a waste of one's time and brain space

Guys seem to think that women are sitting there on the other side of the table feeling an equal but different emotion, but they AREN'T. They are going about their life as if nothing happened. So when you do or say something to let her know she did something wrong, it does NOTHING but lower any value you had with her. Why would you want to do that?

 

[MatureDJ]

I think the key is that you don't get dragged into "hanging out" at a place (and a time) in which you freely would not have gone there on your own. For example, had this chick invited you to join her and her friends at a live music event that you could have seen yourself going to by yourself, then it would be no big deal.

If the chick would have pulled the "our friends are leaving" BS, you just would have said, "I just arrived, and I want to see the show. How about we hook up after the show?" And if later she would get on you about how you weren't in a "cool, partying mood", you simply respond that it was rather rude for her to invite you somewhere, and then leave you. Then, the next time she would try to pull this BS, you simply respond that you don't feel like going somewhere by yourself, since an "invite" means just that.

As for the club scene angle. I agree - the club scene is tailor made for flaky, attention seeking women. The only way to deflect that is to simply refuse to go there. If she wants your time, you go somewhere that you like - or your pad.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

Yeah I mean I've dealt with flaky club women, but never this close as the one on Saturday. That is something I just cannot deal with. It goes by so fast, y'know? How can you really enjoy a person in that environment? Well it's the biggest thing for most people so there ya go. lol

I've tried it. Not for me. Now I know for sure.



I feel bad for doing what I did to her as well.


....feels like I stooped to her level. And the worst part about it is I know she doesn't care and I do.

Hahaha.

 

[decades]

*smacks forehead* I thought about that today. I thought about that last night too but I didn't care.

Yeah boys, she won. Now I only feel bad because she saw I made a slightly irrational move. Man. STR8 is right. I could totally see her saying that.

I still think I'm right in cutting contact though. If this was a problem yesterday, I wonder how much worse another situation involving her could be?

Two different lifestyles don't mix.



Edit: How ironic. I was truly in love with my ex. She dumped me for another dude, and she's still on my myspace. Something last night set me off. I just didn't want to be disrespected again.

in these situations leave her on your myspace because the more chicks you have the more social proof you have. deleting her does you no good. the other thing is you leave the door open for her to Crawl back through. Now you are in the power position if you draw her back in and you start playing on your terms. you were hurt but you really should have just rolled wit da punches. inaction is the way of the Tao. :yes:

 

[cordoncordon]

So PE you feel it's ok for someone to basically treat you like a piece of garbage and still leave her on a "friends" list?

I understand what you are trying to say, but at the same time NO WOMAN or pvssy is worth being that disrespected.

Grow a pair dude .

 

[decades]

So PE you feel it's ok for someone to basically treat you like a piece of garbage and still leave her on a "friends" list?

I understand what you are trying to say, but at the same time NO WOMAN or pvssy is worth being that disrespected.

Grow a pair dude .

He wasn't treated like garbage. he barely knew this person and had much more emotion on the line than she did. He overreacted. Having her on his list of friends gives her nothing. It gives him more social proof. This isn't about vindictiveness. It's about progressing in life.

 

[STR8UP]

He wasn't treated like garbage. he barely knew this person and had much more emotion on the line than she did. He overreacted. Having her on his list of friends gives her nothing. It gives him more social proof. This isn't about vindictiveness. It's about progressing in life.

That's it right there.

You gain nothing.

"I'll show her!" doesn't work, because the whole reason she flaked was because he has no leverage. You CAN'T "show her" anything. She fukked him to get her rocks off. She wasn't emotionally involved. If she were, things would be a little different.

So many times men come at women from a position of weakness, flailing their arms and yelling and crying foul, and the only purpose it serves is to weaken you MORE. Why would you do such a thing?

It's all about recognizing your emotional state. If you're emotional, you're WEAK. The only way to regain strength is to extricate yourself from the situation that is taking away your power.

 

[cordoncordon]

So leaving him standing there by himself at a club as soon as he got there, not inviting him to the other club, not calling him back after she said she would to hook up later, KNOWING HE WAS SITTING THERE WAITING FOR HER, all after SHE INVITED him to meet up that night...is not being treated like garbage??? Progressing in life means to me and above all else, having self respect. That is not having self respect if you get treated that way and then still want to look at her beotch azz face every time you open up your myspace account.

Wow. I would be very interested in just how much you are willing to put up with and take from the girls you date. I think you're afc for thinking he wasn't treated like a piece of sh1t, but that's me. Me? I would end all contact with her, delete delete delete, and never have a second thought about it. THE ONLY REASON to leave her on his my space is to possibly get with her again. And after the way she treated him that night? Why would any sane man want to?

 

[cordoncordon]

Sr8up you aren't showing her anything. You don't care about her. You could give a sh1t. You are just eliminating someone from your life that doesn't deserve to be in it. Doing what she did is NOT how you treat a friend. Therefore, she is not a friend and doesn't deserve a 2nd chance. Leaving her on the myspace, again, only PROVES to her that she can do whatever the F she wants to to him, and he'll still keep coming back for more.

Don't you get it? Most guys don't put girls on their friends list on myspace because they are friends. They do it because they want to F them. They are putting the pvssy on a pedestal. I could never be that desperate to want to F a chick who did that to me. She would be out of my life pronto.

 

[Mr.Positive]

If you are going to walk away, make sure you have a good set of walking boots...

My fav is Nike's "Indifference" brand, however, Adidas makes a good set "Apathy".

I've been looking at walking away like this..because I seem to be doing this a lot lately.

When you first met a gal, you are walking with her having fun, getting to know her, etc. better yet, you are walking with one foot in front, leading her.

If she does something disrespectful, you see her true colors, she keeps pulling power moves trying to lead, etc. you don't actually walk away..... You just stop walking.

You stop walking and start looking around you for other people to focus your time on.

She either continues walking and moves on with her life, OR, she turns around and goes WTF, looking all over for you, wondering where you are?

It shows her that she can not lead you, push you around, and also is one really great "man test" that we can use to guage her interest level.

I'm starting to learn that walking away is not a move, it's inaction coupled with not caring. That's what makes the walk away one of the few really great tools we have, as men, in our arsenal.

 

[jonwon]

A girl I met from my work (we don't work together anymore) and I went out last week and had a blast. Went to a club, danced, and had sex at her place afterwards. She's the second girl I've ever had sex with so it was something I needed just to sever those physical ties with my ex in a sense (for me personally, y'know?)

I told her I'd call her today a few days ago, but last night she invites me out to a club with her friends and tells me to be there around 11pm. I get off work at 12am get there, pay 15 bucks for parking and meet up with her outside. I should have called her actually before I showed up but I wanted to be kind of a surprise. Shot myself there, didn't I? The second I show up they say they're going to another club. I ask if I could ride with them since I paid 15 bucks for parking and they were coming back my way anyways. Her friend says they're only letting girls in the club at that time and invites me back to her friend's place when they were done. I try to kiss the girl I had sex with last week on the lips and she moved to make me kiss her cheek. (Don't you hate that sh!t?!?!)

I was like, "ookay what was that?" She said she was wearing lipstick and I said i didn't give a care. She complies but at that time the moment was over and feeling a little over aggressive I just said "it's ok" and kissed her other cheek. She said to call her at 1am, so here I am in Hollywood, with 45 minutes to kill. So what else could I do? I pick up my car that I just paid 15 bucks to park and drive around downtown like an ass hole, looking for something to do until 1am. I felt totally powerless. (I haven't felt that way in a long time)

I call around a little after 1 and she says she's still in the club. I asked what time she was leaving and sounding a bit annoyed with me she says "I don't know I'll call you. I can't hear you so I'll talk to you later." and immediately hangs up. She doesn't call.

I won't lie folks, I'm hurt. Here's a girl despite her telling me she's not going to be exclusive (which I'm fine with) act nice one minute and then blow me off the next. I'm scratching my head asking should I feel hurt because of this? I only allow myself to feel this way because I wouldn't write someone off the way she did. If I didn't feel that way I think I'd have less compassion for the whole human race. After all the world is what we make of it right?

Now I'm asking myself, what in the hell did I do to warrant that type of response from her? The fact is is that she's just a party girl who wants to have fun. She's living the fast life, and her attitude is "Oh I just hit that person with my car! Can't stop though! I'll just write them a note later." I really do expect a call from her today, but I'm not picking up. I'm not calling her back. I've deleted her from my facebook and myspace also. I figure this is better for me because I really can't deal with people like this anymore. I don't even care if she apologizes. The level of inconsideration surprised the hell out of me and you know what? What else would I have to deal with down the road?

My level of patience for inconsiderate people is incredibly low.


I'm not going to give her an explanation. I'm not giving her ultimatums. I'm not even going to give her a "FU<K YOU!" I'm just going to...

....WALK AWAY.


It's a shame. I felt pretty charming last week.

All the advice has already been given, this girl lacked alot of respect, she deserves a fast ticket out of ThunderMaverickVile.

But just to highlight the red flags and the tolerance this chick would have on some like myself.


number 1: "I should have called her actually before I showed up but I wanted to be kind of a surprise".

You was late, you SHOULD have called, lets not fully blame this chick just yet after all you accepted to meet up with her and her mates for ...............clubing.....................

which you state you hate clubbing.

Point One, you bent your ideals and agreed to do something you would not enjoy to please Puss* and not yourself.

Extra point: You where willing to do this with a women you know little about and her strangers has mates, not for anything but to please 'lust' desire.

so far......... I see a chump who chases the puss* on a string.


2. "Her friend says they're only letting girls in the club at that time and invites me back to her friend's place when they were done. I try to kiss the girl I had sex with last week on the lips and she moved to make me kiss her cheek".

You got REJECTED by her mates, i highly doubt the bouncers of this bar would have turned you away, her mates could have tried to get you in, but the did not even TRY, hence you was rejected there.

Second rejection, you went in for the kiss, AFTER the girls showed a lack of respect for you, no consideration for your circumstance, to you, in this interaction you seemed like an obstacle to get rid of! so they fobbed you off with some petty excuse, so what do you do? You try to REWARD this by giving the girl WHO INVITED YOU a kiss, bad move, me i would have been in the car there and then with a "see you around" and deleting her number there and then. she rewards your CHUMP actions with a peck on the cheek, so far Puss* on a string 3, thundermaverick 0 (this is what you get when you sacrifice self RESPECT for PUSS^)

We painfully go on.

Number 3. "I call around a little after 1 and she says she's still in the club".

You Actually, i MEAN ACTUALLY, I mean YOU FUC*ING ACTUALLY, STUCK AROUND! Till 1 0,clock, Dam i cant believe YOU ACTUALLY STUCK AROUND, my head is spinning at what i read here, i still fail to take it all in.

YOU STUCK AROUND, thats fuc*ed up, sorry but thats so Fuc*ed up its more then fuc*ed up, its behond fuc*ed up!

So she treats you like her priviliaged little wuss boy jack ass, tells you how it is, lets her mates diss you, stands by it, throws out some petty reward (peck on the cheek) and this makes you wait around for over 45minutes so you could get WHAT, get what exactly?

number 4. She says she is staying in the club and hangs up.

Now come on did this seem like a suprise to anyone reading this, i mean if she said she ran out of the club knickers in the air waving a condom, would we have been suprised then?

so do i blame the chick?

No not really, yeh she treated you like shi*, her mates treated you like shi*

but the worst part about it.

YOU LET EM< CHUMP.

so you got angry and deleted her details.

Good for you at least you did something right after, and i mean AFTER the Puss* WAS CUT FROM THE STRING AND ONLY 'AFTER'.

The Puss* was taken away that night, it was probably never there, the girl was on a power trip to probably increase EGO, and you made a great vessal for that, well done for being a chump, you even waited like a good little chump ass whislt she finally took the puss* away.

Must be hard being slave to puss* uh!

Well done for eventually seeing the light, its a shame it took a deeper level of wading through crap to have it stuffed down your throat until you could take no more and was choking on the cra* this girl was pouring down in.

I just wonder how much you would have tolerated, how much could she have milked it before she took puss* away.

How long exactly did YOU STICK AROUND WAITING FOR ANOTHER PHONE CALL.

If you want to be a chump, this is a good shopping list to work with.

A: Do what the girl wants to do, even if you dont like it.

B: Arrange so her mates are there just in case she does not like you at least that way when she blames the lack of interaction on YOU, you can be happy wan*ing at home that she at least is safe with her mates.

C: If at any stage she treats you like garbabge, keep going back for more.

D: Eventually if at any point after she gets bored of treating you like a piece of cra*, and she tells you in more ways then one 'this puss* aint yours chump' remember to throw some paddy fit, like it was a big suprise and blame her and tell the world just how fuc*ed up she is, so at least your ego will stay intacked after you sacrificed self respect for a girls golden puss*.

E: If all else fails go buy a willy wonka bar, maybe just maybe there is a a ticket in there giving you access to once in a life time adventure to the GOLDEN PUSS*, dont forget to leave self respect and self worth at the door.

 

[CGE333]

Didn't read all the replies but congrats on success here. You got laid which is a step in the right direction and helps to distance yourself from your ex. If you have not already, you will hear from this girl, if anything for her to boost her ego, by prooving to herself that you still desire her.

It is up to you whether you return her call, no way you should answer it when she calls. You could still end up laying her a few more times. If not oh well. This chick has shown what type of person she is and it is not one you should be in a relationship with. Not sure how old she is but she is probably one of those who will play around until she hits the wall (they all do) and then she will wonder why she can't meet a nice guy and settle down.

Again, congrats on some success, and keep at it.

 

[Colossus]

I cant believe this myspace/facebook debate has gone on this long...but im going to stretch it out 1 more post and concurr with STR8UP here.

Immediately nixing a girl from your friends list, in MOST cases, shows nothing more than you got emotionally razzled and, in a feeble attempt at retribution, you delete her from your profile. The ho that the OP hooked up with doesnt give two peanuts about him or his feelings, as her actions clearly displayed. He made several mistakes that night, but he recognized them. Immediately deleting her from his profile would only FURTHER show her that he got played. Let it go, and dont ever speak to her again.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

All the advice has already been given, this girl lacked alot of respect, she deserves a fast ticket out of ThunderMaverickVile.

But just to highlight the red flags and the tolerance this chick would have on some like myself.


number 1: "I should have called her actually before I showed up but I wanted to be kind of a surprise".

You was late, you SHOULD have called, lets not fully blame this chick just yet after all you accepted to meet up with her and her mates for ...............clubing.....................

which you state you hate clubbing.

Point One, you bent your ideals and agreed to do something you would not enjoy to please Puss* and not yourself.

Extra point: You where willing to do this with a women you know little about and her strangers has mates, not for anything but to please 'lust' desire.

so far......... I see a chump who chases the puss* on a string.


2. "Her friend says they're only letting girls in the club at that time and invites me back to her friend's place when they were done. I try to kiss the girl I had sex with last week on the lips and she moved to make me kiss her cheek".

You got REJECTED by her mates, i highly doubt the bouncers of this bar would have turned you away, her mates could have tried to get you in, but the did not even TRY, hence you was rejected there.

Second rejection, you went in for the kiss, AFTER the girls showed a lack of respect for you, no consideration for your circumstance, to you, in this interaction you seemed like an obstacle to get rid of! so they fobbed you off with some petty excuse, so what do you do? You try to REWARD this by giving the girl WHO INVITED YOU a kiss, bad move, me i would have been in the car there and then with a "see you around" and deleting her number there and then. she rewards your CHUMP actions with a peck on the cheek, so far Puss* on a string 3, thundermaverick 0 (this is what you get when you sacrifice self RESPECT for PUSS^)

We painfully go on.

Number 3. "I call around a little after 1 and she says she's still in the club".

You Actually, i MEAN ACTUALLY, I mean YOU FUC*ING ACTUALLY, STUCK AROUND! Till 1 0,clock, Dam i cant believe YOU ACTUALLY STUCK AROUND, my head is spinning at what i read here, i still fail to take it all in.

YOU STUCK AROUND, thats fuc*ed up, sorry but thats so Fuc*ed up its more then fuc*ed up, its behond fuc*ed up!

So she treats you like her priviliaged little wuss boy jack ass, tells you how it is, lets her mates diss you, stands by it, throws out some petty reward (peck on the cheek) and this makes you wait around for over 45minutes so you could get WHAT, get what exactly?

number 4. She says she is staying in the club and hangs up.

Now come on did this seem like a suprise to anyone reading this, i mean if she said she ran out of the club knickers in the air waving a condom, would we have been suprised then?

so do i blame the chick?

No not really, yeh she treated you like shi*, her mates treated you like shi*

but the worst part about it.

YOU LET EM< CHUMP.

so you got angry and deleted her details.

Good for you at least you did something right after, and i mean AFTER the Puss* WAS CUT FROM THE STRING AND ONLY 'AFTER'.

The Puss* was taken away that night, it was probably never there, the girl was on a power trip to probably increase EGO, and you made a great vessal for that, well done for being a chump, you even waited like a good little chump ass whislt she finally took the puss* away.

Must be hard being slave to puss* uh!

Well done for eventually seeing the light, its a shame it took a deeper level of wading through crap to have it stuffed down your throat until you could take no more and was choking on the cra* this girl was pouring down in.

I just wonder how much you would have tolerated, how much could she have milked it before she took puss* away.

How long exactly did YOU STICK AROUND WAITING FOR ANOTHER PHONE CALL.

If you want to be a chump, this is a good shopping list to work with.

A: Do what the girl wants to do, even if you dont like it.

B: Arrange so her mates are there just in case she does not like you at least that way when she blames the lack of interaction on YOU, you can be happy wan*ing at home that she at least is safe with her mates.

C: If at any stage she treats you like garbabge, keep going back for more.

D: Eventually if at any point after she gets bored of treating you like a piece of cra*, and she tells you in more ways then one 'this puss* aint yours chump' remember to throw some paddy fit, like it was a big suprise and blame her and tell the world just how fuc*ed up she is, so at least your ego will stay intacked after you sacrificed self respect for a girls golden puss*.

E: If all else fails go buy a willy wonka bar, maybe just maybe there is a a ticket in there giving you access to once in a life time adventure to the GOLDEN PUSS*, dont forget to leave self respect and self worth at the door.

Hahaha. I don't know if you read anything besides my first post, but it only took less than 2 hours to cut her out of my life completely, from the time she dissed me to the time I went home and deleted her from my myspace and facebook. I can understand the tough love thing, but there's no need to patronize me, even after doing SOMETHING right! lol Read the post over again to see what I did and what I've learned. You're a little late. =P

I did put the puss* on a pedestal that night because I thought I was going to get some! Actually I knew I could still have gotten some from her the next day afterwards. (She did call me back after all and apologized the next day. Still didn't return her call though.) I'm very attractive to her physically and we had fun. I made so many wrong moves that night, you're right. However that was the only time I fukked up and made up for it somewhat. It didn't take me a few days or a week to give her a second chance. I knew what she was all about after that night and decided to not pursue a flaky b!tch.



Yeah but I do agree with Cordon in a way. I can't imagine me dissing anyone with self respect and staying on their myspace. I'm trying to put myself in her shoes. What would I think if I blatantly had no regard for someone's feelings but thought they would put up with it and then they deleted me from my myspace. I wouldn't care, but at the same time if I WERE on their myspace I would think what I did was fine and they didn't care. Maybe I could disrespect them again. At least if I knew if I were off their myspace I would say "they don't like being disrespected and I hurt their feelings. What a chump." I wouldn't be allowed to talk to them again though. And I wouldn't even make an effort. It would be so blatantly obvious.


Edit: She came over and over again while we had sex. I mean I hardly made a move. I was just a penis to her. Hahahahaha. It's like how special are you really when ANY guy could make her *** over and over like that?


Edit 2: Oh, CGE333, she just turned 28.

 

[STR8UP]

Edit: She came over and over again while we had sex. I mean I hardly made a move. I was just a penis to her. Hahahahaha. It's like how special are you really when ANY guy could make her *** over and over like that?.

That's why she dissed you without a second thought, and that's why she has a bullet proof shield around her that makes her impervious to anything you throw her way.

I had one that did the same ting awhile back, except I managed to hit it more than once. in the end all I was to her was a walking dildo that bought her sushi and a couple of glasses of wine one night.

I feel used, haha

 

[jonwon]

Hahaha. I don't know if you read anything besides my first post, but it only took less than 2 hours to cut her out of my life completely, from the time she dissed me to the time I went home and deleted her from my myspace and facebook. I can understand the tough love thing, but there's no need to patronize me, even after doing SOMETHING right! lol Read the post over again to see what I did and what I've learned. You're a little late. =P

I did put the puss* on a pedestal that night because I thought I was going to get some! Actually I knew I could still have gotten some from her the next day afterwards. (She did call me back after all and apologized the next day. Still didn't return her call though.) I'm very attractive to her physically and we had fun. I made so many wrong moves that night, you're right. However that was the only time I fukked up and made up for it somewhat. It didn't take me a few days or a week to give her a second chance. I knew what she was all about after that night and decided to not pursue a flaky b!tch.



Yeah but I do agree with Cordon in a way. I can't imagine me dissing anyone with self respect and staying on their myspace. I'm trying to put myself in her shoes. What would I think if I blatantly had no regard for someone's feelings but thought they would put up with it and then they deleted me from my myspace. I wouldn't care, but at the same time if I WERE on their myspace I would think what I did was fine and they didn't care. Maybe I could disrespect them again. At least if I knew if I were off their myspace I would say "they don't like being disrespected and I hurt their feelings. What a chump." I wouldn't be allowed to talk to them again though. And I wouldn't even make an effort. It would be so blatantly obvious.


Edit: She came over and over again while we had sex. I mean I hardly made a move. I was just a penis to her. Hahahahaha. It's like how special are you really when ANY guy could make her *** over and over like that?


Edit 2: Oh, CGE333, she just turned 28.

You have wisen'd up some, this girl set you on a better path, you just dont know it yet or have not seen it.

Next time when a girl does something that shows a total lack of respect, i expect you to stand up for your values, either be nice and mock her back or walk, or tell her you dont play that way and give her a shot over her bow, which ever works for you.

What i hope you dont do, is keep going back for more, to reward bad behaviour from women.

women when they see a guy who is willing to walk over broken glass coated in dog do to score the *****, they loose alot of respect as a general rule, a guy who will tolerate there put downs, lack of respect and simply shi*tie attitudes, sorry to say that night YOU WAS THAT GUY.

Now the only reason i made that post was to highlight exactly the torment you put yourself through for the sake of ' i thought i had a sure thing'

Listen to me now, and i mean listen.

ITS NOT ABOUT YOU HAVING THE SURE THING

ITS ABOUT ALLOWING THE WOMEN THE FUC*ING HONOUR OF SUCKING YOUR DIC*.

This is where mine and your attitude changes, you operate on the fact a women does you a FAVOUR, you sacrifice values to try to 'get it', to stick around for the fables golden puss*.

Me.

I stick around only and i mean ONLY, when she has deserved the attention of my COC*, if she does not she is OUT of the door as i am not going to be manipulated by ming* which you are more then willing to do.

Yes i score often and i score frequently, but i dont tolerate bad behaviour from women AT ALL.

WOMEN WANT A MAN.

Not some little boy who get happy with a new toy, i.e puss* and begs and pleads to get in it, they want a MAN, who is going to stand up for his values, who is going to not tolerate her BS behaviour, who is going to make her feel like a women.

First off.

A man would not have said 'yes' when she asked you to do something you did not want to do, i.e clubbing.

Instead next time, what you will say is :

Naa i am not up for that, tell you what, lets hook up the day after, e.t.c.

I may seem to be harsh, but you need to learn this stuff, women dont want some guy who is going to jump through hoops to score puss* they want a man who has his own set of ideals and standards.

where are yours?

This women has set you on a better path, you will score more puss* when and only when you realize you have a dont have to beg for it, on the contrary women have to prove there good enough for the goods you have packed away, not the other way around.

*edit, i have read your follow up posts.

They still lack the message i am giving you above, in time you may understand.

Yes you cut her off after she took the puss* away (lets get REAL here, she TOOK the PUSS* away) you then counteracted that fact. It got to the stage where she had all the cards, to keep face you counteracted with the ONLY thing you could have done, do i congratulate you for it?

No not one BIT, you should have taken action a hell of alot sooner, this is where you need to LISTEN and take note.

NOT.

Well done you got a fuc*.

or

Well done for ditching her.

Because, your going to meet women again and again who will test you, who will shi* test you, who will push your buttons, who will step over the line to see your reaction, this is WHAT WOMEN DO.

To create attraction the MAN stands up for his VALUES, not bends and shapes is FORM TO SUIT the SHI* the women just happens to be pouring to him.

I suspect your last relationship your ex holded alot of POWER, she was the one wearing the trousers.

You know why i know this?

because your more then willing to sacrifice your self worth, respect and values to please a SURE THING.

Hence your still in Chumpsville, your just a more wiser one!

Your slowley digging yourself out of it though, but you still fail to 'get it'.

As for the myspace thing, this is how would handle it.

Sod her, there are plently more out there, she would be a distant memory.

but in all fairness if i was you.

she would be on my bed sucking my Coc*, since i would have seen she was FB material from the start.

So hence yeh your still a chump.

sorry just the way i see it, if you dont like it, well i am sure you'll live.

I maybe harsh, but at least this way i may get into your EGO and make an impression.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

Jonwon thanks. Although your post had a lot of hot wind and pure B.S. assumptions about me. (You have no idea what I'm about and how far I've come) you've pretty much said what everyone else has said.

I'm not going to argue with you on what I did wrong. It was a new experience and a new situation. The point I was trying to make is is that I didn't think I was chasing anything. I thought I already had it! (based on what happened last week). Hanging on like I did that night was bad and I cleaned it up.

Call me a chump if I call her again. (Which I won't be doing). Don't call me a chump because I didn't reward her bad behavior. If I did I would have called her and said "Oh it's okay! I know how it is when you're drunk and your sexing up your female friends on the dance floor!" =D


I mean sure you can go on about how your a better "DJ" than I am and rant about how much bigger your c0ck is than mine...


....but I don't see what the point would be in doing that.

 

[jonwon]

I'm not going to argue with you on what I did wrong. It was a new experience and a new situation. The point I was trying to make is is that I didn't think I was chasing anything. I thought I already had it!

This is your problem, you fail to see it, your problem!
Read my post again, but tell you what dont bother, i sense from the below your a waste of my 'advice'.


there is no argument, all i see is a chump validating a some really really bad moves and blaming EXTERNAL SOURCES!

Call me a chump if I call her again. (Which I won't be doing). Don't call me a chump because I didn't reward her bad behavior. If I did I would have called her and said "Oh it's okay! I know how it is when you're drunk and your sexing up your female friends on the dance floor!" =D

I never told you to call her.

you sound like a brat!

I mean sure you can go on about how your a better "DJ" than I am and rant about how much bigger your c0ck is than mine...


....but I don't see what the point would be in doing that.

It probably is bigger then yours.

It sees a hell of alot more action then yours does too, but carry on.

Chump.

you may get the rest of the guys on your side and be nice about your ideal, or what you achieved, to me your seem like a chump who is hungry for validation.

yeh you did alot of right moves.

But you still fail to see it.

That i pitty.

Get pis*ed get annoyed, blame me for exposing what i truly see.

but the fact of the matter.

you sacrficed self worth and self respect for a SURE THING.

you may get guys so ingrained in puss* tell you well done, well i get puss*, it not that important to me to congratulate you on sacrificing self worth for ming*, which ever way you look at is, its chump behavouir, i dont come here to congratulate chumps who cant see there mistakes.

Yes i have seen some replies.

But still your so, fuc*ing precious you fail to see the reason this turned out the way it did is totally and utterly YOUR FAULT

not the size of my dic*, your fault for allowing yourself to be controlled by puss*.

Wise up or this is going to be repeated.

If you dont start becoming the man who does not bend his values for a SURE THING< I can see you on the waste heap of AFC land with a controlling wife and you know what you would be happy as a pig in shi*, because at least you have a sure thing.

Dont even bother replying to my post, you make me laugh at your need to validate your actions, you really do.

This is how i post, this is what i am, i will spell out your faults, not please or cater to your precious little EGO.

You still fail to learn the true message of the post i made, or what happened in the situation.

I knew you would get annoyed at how i wrote my reply.

At least in some way you may have taken note.