Dante420 said:
I was really into this girl, first girl in awhile that I respected - it was like the rarest thing I've ever encountered. She could be really cute and adorable one second, really respectable and sexy - you could actually see her eyes change between cute to sexy. Some people you hang out with and leave feeling drained and de-energized, while being with her left me very happy, and energized. This is only over the course of maybe 4 weeks.
I can see you fell for the trap...like that beautiful flowers...fly sits on them and bam she is fvcked for life.
OK I get your point. She looked just like easy going girl who does not shyt test...pushes buttons to see which sets you off....
You should be always ready.
Anyway, last night she was trying to play games. Trying to play fight and get rough with me. I lightly slap her and just play fight stuff. Then a couple times she slapped me for real (because I said she wasn't tough probably) a couple times, like real ones multiple times.
You should learn how to block, man.
That I can understand since you were not ready.
Don't be a f@g
the feeling of a girl actually feeling I'm the type of guy that it's okay to just slap like that and completely disrespect me.
And you did let her bltch slap you,
What was worse is that it shocked me so much that I froze and couldn't react properly
Not ready. You started thinking how will you look like instead of taking action....thats your fragile ego playing games with you.
, I knew for the whole night I should of just left and I didn't - because the AFC in my mind was telling me "She doesn't deserve you just leaving on her like that" at first I was thinking .."Well that's what happens when I play" then I realized..no she's hitting me multiple times and then after apologizes and says "I'm sorry for hurting you", I'm like "You didn't hurt me but whatever helps you sleep at night". Thoughout my time of knowing her she's been telling me she's tough and actually beats up guys over petty reasons n her town... I'm basically like "Ya suuuure" I guess it irritated her that I don't find a 5 foot 1 100 pound girl tough
She was tougher than you
She is waiting for someone who she can't bltch slap.
So...back to the main issue.
I let the issue slide and kinda withheld myself from our normal cuddling but still let her cuddle me and kept a hand on her. She knew I was mad and I kept it below the surface which was totally AFC of me.
It is just your AFC ego fvcking with your brain....you shouldn't think that much.
How could I of handled this better?
I was pretty harsh on you here. Let me tel you I even had girls trying to kick me between my legs when they couldn't find any weak spot...emotionally and physically. And yes it set me off. How can she be so mean to me. Isn't she afraid of loosing me?
First girls are mean and they are just like little girls. Real little girls do hit their loved ones quite often....I call it Loyalty test...."If he will still like me after I slap him...he is loyal." But basically they are just pulling stunts because they see you are not a murderer, they are bored and a little evil
It is acceptable with kids but not so much with adults....so I always erase 7 points of ten on her score after stunt like that...she should have known better.
On the bright side...most times it is just their frustration speaking....they want to get with you physical
Like guys pushing girls....sheer frustration.
What do I do from here? I was so disappointed in the way I handled it, it actually hurt my chest not to mention my pride...I let the window of opportunity pass for a reaction and I now I have no idea what to do. She's such a good snuggler that I woke up happy
Don't think too much. Admit you are still a fragile ego pvssy and work from that...kill tha scared little boy inside you. Don't beat yourself about it.
Good luck.
