URGENT - The girl had the nerve to hit me multple times while "Play fighting"

[Igetit!]

I find it interesting how in your "Girl I like called me an alpha male" thread you say that you don't take sh!t from nobody,then just 4 days later,you make a thread talking about how some small,5 foot 1 girl slapped you in the face multiple times.


I can see you getting slapped once because of it coming out of nowhere,but how did she manage to slap you the 3rd,4th,and/or 5th times? What were you doing,standing there like a fool taking it?



And you said that you tried to hide the fact that you were angry?
What the fudge? I would have let loose and poured my anger all over her.
I understand the whole "being cool/not giving a reaction" thing,but that doesn't apply to every situation.



In scenarios where there is blatant,outright disrespect (such as being hit in the face),trying to be "cool and uneffected" is DUMB because women aren't stupid. You tried to be cool,but she knew what was up.


She knew you were angry. You not showing it just makes her think you were SCARED to express yourself.


Her slapping you harder shouldn't have been a surprise since you challenged her previous hits and called them weak,but hauling off and hitting you and hard as she could was crossing the line,and she knew it.



Still can't see how she got off multiple hits on you though,lol.

So then just now I get a message on Facebook saying

Im not calling you =P just liiiiiike your not calling me,butthead.

Question: How the hell would I respond to this?

Well if she messaged you about you not calling her,then she must have some interest in you. Either that,or she thinks you're still angry at her for slapping you.

I've read the whole DJ Bible multiple times since being 14 years old. I've read Gambler's book, I've read The Art of Seduction. WTF!!!

Well it's good that you've read all of that,but how much of it have you APPLIED to your interactions with girls?

Rant:
Last time I respect a girl before knowing her for 4 months. Until then no respect, no special treatment. I let myself sit around when I could be out in Cali by now just because I really liked her and she made me happy

So you say that because of what you went through with this girl,from now on you'll no longer respect a girl unless you've known her 4 months or longer,and no special treatment for girls.

Excuse me? Didn't you say that you've read the WHOLE dj bible,Gambler's pua book,and The Art of Seduction over and over again,multiple times since you were 14?



If you've read all that pua advice for the past four years,how is it NOW that you decided to stop treating girls "special" without first knowing them?




Wow,talk about field experience. In one night with one girl,you learned what 4 years of reading pua literature couldn't teach you,lol.

How would you handle this..or better yet how would any man with self-respect handle this

A man of self-respect wouldn't have to go and ask someone how to handle it.

 

[TizZle]

Usually if i have a girl slaps/hits me, if its playful, i ask her if her hand is ok(with a smile).

Anywhere in the face area tho is not cool in my book, even if she thinks its playful.

 

[Dante420]

I find it interesting how in your "Girl I like called me an alpha male" thread you say that you don't take sh!t from nobody,then just 4 days later,you make a thread talking about how some small,5 foot 1 girl slapped you in the face multiple times.


I can see you getting slapped once because of it coming out of nowhere,but how did she manage to slap you the 3rd,4th,and/or 5th times? What were you doing,standing there like a fool taking it?



And you said that you tried to hide the fact that you were angry?
What the fudge? I would have let loose and poured my anger all over her.
I understand the whole "being cool/not giving a reaction" thing,but that doesn't apply to every situation.



In scenarios where there is blatant,outright disrespect (such as being hit in the face),trying to be "cool and uneffected" is DUMB because women aren't stupid. You tried to be cool,but she knew what was up.


She knew you were angry. You not showing it just makes her think you were SCARED to express yourself.


Her slapping you harder shouldn't have been a surprise since you challenged her previous hits and called them weak,but hauling off and hitting you and hard as she could was crossing the line,and she knew it.



Still can't see how she got off multiple hits on you though,lol.





Well if she messaged you about you not calling her,then she must have some interest in you. Either that,or she thinks you're still angry at her for slapping you.


Well it's good that you've read all of that,but how much of it have you APPLIED to your interactions with girls?

So you say that because of what you went through with this girl,from now on you'll no longer respect a girl unless you've known her 4 months or longer,and no special treatment for girls.

Excuse me? Didn't you say that you've read the WHOLE dj bible,Gambler's pua book,and The Art of Seduction over and over again,multiple times since you were 14?



If you've read all that pua advice for the past four years,how is it NOW that you decided to stop treating girls "special" without first knowing them?




Wow,talk about field experience. In one night with one girl,you learned what 4 years of reading pua literature couldn't teach you,lol.




A man of self-respect wouldn't have to go and ask someone how to handle it.

I was laying on her bed. And I don't treat girls special no matter what breh, You'll see me on TV in a couple months and you'll know how I treat girls. You can see pics of some of the girls who don't get special treatment from me. Her on the other hand, she's well respected in her town - everyone loves her and I can see why. I couldn't even pull off "Cool and unaffected" I came off more like a quarterback who just threw 2 interceptions in the first quarter and already taken 3 sacks. I was rattled, not because it hurt but because it hurt my ego. That this girl who I was into thought it was okay to do this. Like I said I was in a relationship when I was younger where I did get hit often.

Usually if i have a girl slaps/hits me, if its playful, i ask her if her hand is ok(with a smile).

Anywhere in the face area tho is not cool in my book, even if she thinks its playful.

That's really good, your clearly pretty witty. Tizzle Drizzle Show kinda witty

 

[joe henny]

I was laying on her bed. And I don't treat girls special no matter what breh, You'll see me on TV in a couple months and you'll know how I treat girls. You can see pics of some of the girls who don't get special treatment from me. Her on the other hand, she's well respected in her town - everyone loves her and I can see why. I couldn't even pull off "Cool and unaffected" I came off more like a quarterback who just threw 2 interceptions in the first quarter and already taken 3 sacks. I was rattled, not because it hurt but because it hurt my ego. That this girl who I was into thought it was okay to do this. Like I said I was in a relationship when I was younger where I did get hit often.





That's really good, your clearly pretty witty. Tizzle Drizzle Show kinda witty

It doesn't matter who she is u went out like a bich in her eyes and every one elses eyes on the bord. good job weenie

 

[Radharc]

Jesus Christ, it´s not that big a deal, the OP got owned (by himself) but this is very salvageable, as long as he doesnt blow this hugley out of proportion and let it get under his skin. I´m sure he learned his lesson by now.

 

[Tesl]

Chris almighty, you make a thread like this and yet YOU were planning on starting a PUA business?? Thats right up there with snowdog writing his book.

To answer your question, I don't stand for violence and would have told in her in no uncertain terms that if she ever hits me again then I'm walking out for good, and that I don't stand for that. That usually prevents any repeats.

 

[f283000]

Chris almighty, you make a thread like this and yet YOU were planning on starting a PUA business?? Thats right up there with snowdog writing his book.

rofl! I hear Maxtro is planning to write a PUA book to sell it for $29.99

 

[Maxfarsigth]

Mayybeee...
The reason this has become a huuuge thread is because the Thread Starter havent sited, analysed, maned and mooved on.

This Is what I think about girls hitting boys:

Case 1: If a girl hits a man thats is definetly a GOOD THING. Why?, because it gives you a great oportunity to KINO. How? Grab her from the waist from the back, take her arms, smile at her, ask her something like "ohhh so you want to fight", tease her, grab her again.....blahblah... if you do it right you might end up having a hot session of rough sex. (And yes, it has happened to me twice or three times).. for some reason girls really like it and I have a lot of fun.

Case 2: It is very easy to see if shes hitting you for other reasons.. shes not smiling, her eyes are not relaxed, and when she crosses that line and none in CASE 1 seems to be working. Just Stop, Chill, and get out. (now, never been there, but there is no good reason for stayin with a chick who wants to fight...WTF).

So just MOVE OUT of the situation, I have felt similar and just forget about it. RESET YOURSELF. The more time and energy given to it, the less respect and growth.

 

[HypeR]

While playfighting, a little girl hit you. What do you do? Keep playfighting which will eventually turn into sex. Well, that is what she wanted you to do.

Disrespect? WTF?

 

[penkitten]

the old saying goes "if you can't handle the heat, get out of the kitchen."
chalk this one up as a learning experience. lesson learned that if you can not play fight with a little girl, don't start wrestling around and calling her weak.

you aren't supposed to let her smacking you end up pissing you off and making you feel ashamed or like less of a dude... it's supposed to be flirtatious and be light. if it results in anything worse, then it should be halted.

with that being said, live and learn.

 

[cablecow15]

If a 100 pound girl hit you hard enough to hurt you , and it wasn't in your nads , then you forfeit your man card

 

[doyex]

If a 100 pound girl hit you hard enough to hurt you , and it wasn't in your nads , then you forfeit your man card

This...

 

[todays_news]

with your left arm strike the into the neck in the adams apple area, with your right continue with the elbow to the jaw following right through for maximum power. And then POW!

 

[Berlex]

You should have given her Irish sunglasses.

 

[Someone Much cooler]

Maybe shes a hard ass cause her pops is a "big homie", ya know connected wit some gritty guys and no one would dare challenge daddies little girl. Girls beating guys in fights? Seriously? IDK WTF to tell you Ack. Okay 1st i personally wouldnt date a shawti who's pops is connected. 2nd I try not to let anyone one hit me. Play fighting is cool; pinching, wrestling, loft biting ect But if someone is trying to hurt me, why would i wanna be with them? I'm a small guy but im into contact sports (wrestling, boxing an Jeet kun do), so while she prolly wouldnt have really physically hurt me, out of principle I would make it a point to use technique, say a nice lil come along, bent arm bar, wrist lock ect to make my point. Make her say uncle. Ps a yellow pages delivers a pt alot better than wasting a good peice of bread. Wow are we really plotting to press a 100lb, 5'1 girl? Ur lucky u dont live out here in phili cause you would be food Ack.