Hey guys, I just wanted to share this with you, today I made 2 succesful cold approaches with e-mail close! Feel free to tell what I did wrong, I'll try telling in detail what happened.
First chick, I'd give 8.5-9, some kind of "hip-hop girl" if you know what I mean. SHe was cute and was getting talked to by some strange woman about jesus and that kind of stuff, and I kept giving the HB9 smiles and gloances, and she was giving them back, as she didn't listen to the crazy woman at all. Arriving at a station which wasn't mine, I saw she was going to get out of the train, and I had a choice to make. I told to myself "This ISN'T ****ing arriving again, I will NOT tolerate this!" ANd I decided to get out of the train at the same time as her, asking "Was that the first time that crazy woman talked to you?"
She was a bit shaken up, and told yes, and I started telling that I always see that woman in the subway and that she has told me her **** 4 times and that I still didn't understand what she meant! Anyways, I kinda elaborated for a minute about that, and when in the escalators, I asked what was her name, and told her mine. Her IL seemed a bit low, but I didn't care about it, I had made a cold approach!
She was about to put back her earbuds, and I asked her exactly this
"Maybe this is going to sound bizarre, but I'm a student in photography and will be needing models if the students strike can end !"(we've been on strike for a month)
She answered she wasn't sure, and I saw she was a bit tense, so I simply said to her to give me her e-mail and that I'd show her a link to my portfolio. She said ok, gave it to me and I said good bye. Walked around a bit before going back in the metro to go back home
Second girl is in the bus, has those really nice blue, piercing eyes that make me totally melt. I start getting all nervous, and say to myself again "Goddamnit not again, this **** will NOT be tolerated!" I decided to count to 3 and ask about the modeling thing again, couldn't do it after counting to three, decided to count to 5, and I did it after this try. She seemed way more interested than the first one and this gave me confidence, and it took me a good minute for her to write her e-mail frantically on my business card. We then chit-chatted about stuff for 5 minutes until I had to get out of the bus.
Now I'm wodnering how I should approach them via IM, or if I'm better off sending them a quick e-mail. I'm also wondering if it would be a C&F move to tell them I was kinda bull****ting them about the modeling thing, even tough I will need models in the future.
I feel great now! Guys, be angry at yourselves, don't tolerate pissing in your pants each time you see a HB, and you will be sucessful!
First chick, I'd give 8.5-9, some kind of "hip-hop girl" if you know what I mean. SHe was cute and was getting talked to by some strange woman about jesus and that kind of stuff, and I kept giving the HB9 smiles and gloances, and she was giving them back, as she didn't listen to the crazy woman at all. Arriving at a station which wasn't mine, I saw she was going to get out of the train, and I had a choice to make. I told to myself "This ISN'T ****ing arriving again, I will NOT tolerate this!" ANd I decided to get out of the train at the same time as her, asking "Was that the first time that crazy woman talked to you?"
She was a bit shaken up, and told yes, and I started telling that I always see that woman in the subway and that she has told me her **** 4 times and that I still didn't understand what she meant! Anyways, I kinda elaborated for a minute about that, and when in the escalators, I asked what was her name, and told her mine. Her IL seemed a bit low, but I didn't care about it, I had made a cold approach!
She was about to put back her earbuds, and I asked her exactly this
"Maybe this is going to sound bizarre, but I'm a student in photography and will be needing models if the students strike can end !"(we've been on strike for a month)
She answered she wasn't sure, and I saw she was a bit tense, so I simply said to her to give me her e-mail and that I'd show her a link to my portfolio. She said ok, gave it to me and I said good bye. Walked around a bit before going back in the metro to go back home
Second girl is in the bus, has those really nice blue, piercing eyes that make me totally melt. I start getting all nervous, and say to myself again "Goddamnit not again, this **** will NOT be tolerated!" I decided to count to 3 and ask about the modeling thing again, couldn't do it after counting to three, decided to count to 5, and I did it after this try. She seemed way more interested than the first one and this gave me confidence, and it took me a good minute for her to write her e-mail frantically on my business card. We then chit-chatted about stuff for 5 minutes until I had to get out of the bus.
Now I'm wodnering how I should approach them via IM, or if I'm better off sending them a quick e-mail. I'm also wondering if it would be a C&F move to tell them I was kinda bull****ting them about the modeling thing, even tough I will need models in the future.
I feel great now! Guys, be angry at yourselves, don't tolerate pissing in your pants each time you see a HB, and you will be sucessful!
