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[Rollo Tomassi]

Wyldfire only got banned because as a woman, and the state this place is in, she was attacked attacked attacked, and wouldn't back down, with NO ASSISTANCE. Back in the day I was always assisted when someone would flame on me solely for being female. These days, I have to sugar coat most of what I say, and just back down after I've properly cyber backhanded a few people.

Wyldfire was banned for the same reason you should be banned. I had a great deal of respect for her up until her last few months and the reason I lost that for her was because everything she posted was only contrarian for the sake of being contradictory. Exactly like you. Back in the day you started some pretty decent threads with some very good insight, but if you're complaining about the current tone of this board I'd suggest looking to yourself first. Since your "return" (which oddly enough coincides with Wylds departure) the only point you've managed to pound on is how anything any male on this site posts is biased and wrong for no other reason than the poster must hate women because he's posting here. When one of your sycophants (again see Wyld) chimes in to back you up you still don't progress to anything more than contradicting the OP - and again for no other reason than the guy is male.

Beyond that you suck up attention as a catharsis in exactly the same way Wyld did. Your profile puts you at "mid 20s" yet the content of your older threads make you out as much older than this.

Put simply, I have my doubts about you. Guys come to this forum to break away from an AFC world, but like one more crab in the barrel you're right there to pull him back in again.

 

[iqqi]

Wyldfire was banned for the same reason you should be banned. I had a great deal of respect for her up until her last few months and the reason I lost that for her was because everything she posted was only contrarian for the sake of being contradictory. Exactly like you. Back in the day you started some pretty decent threads with some very good insight, but if you're complaining about the current tone of this board I'd suggest looking to yourself first. Since your "return" (which oddly enough coincides with Wylds departure) the only point you've managed to pound on is how anything any male on this site posts is biased and wrong for no other reason than the poster must hate women because he's posting here. When one of your sycophants (again see Wyld) chimes in to back you up you still don't progress to anything more than contradicting the OP - and again for no other reason than the guy is male.

Beyond that you suck up attention as a catharsis in exactly the same way Wyld did. Your profile puts you at "mid 20s" yet the content of your older threads make you out as much older than this.

Put simply, I have my doubts about you. Guys come to this forum to break away from an AFC world, but like one more crab in the barrel you're right there to pull him back in again.

Nah, fool. I only disagree with certain peoples repeatly, and you be's one of them.

Funny even after hopefully learning your lesson, you still seem to want to paint some paranoid picture that I am Wyldfire.

There isn't one single post where I contradict someone solely because they are male, AND that doesn't even make sense.

If I was contradicting people based on gender, I'd be contradicting EVERYONE here. And there are only a few posters here I find myself almost always disagreeing with.

My profile doesn't say mid 20s. I am more creative than that.

 

[BlackWidow]

With users having or possibly having, additional aliases, I gotta ask: do you people have an actual life outside SS?

I mean, I find it very hard to find the time outside my daily schedule to participate in this forum's discussion sometimes. How in God's name do people have two or three?! I'd like to contribute and I plan to, I've got some threads cookin' upstairs, but sheesh. I just don't see how it's done unless they just don't do anything but sit at home all day.

For chrissake, join a gym, mentor, be a big brother big sister, SOMETHING!

 

[Desdinova]

Are we going to ban FINGZ now that we know two of his alter egos have been banned?

Trust me, there's more than two.

John 467 was a good contributer, and so was Gerald. Many have been banned in the past, and came back a little wiser and less offensive. Those last ID's shouldn't have been banned based on old sh!t.

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. Fool me 11+ times.....

Are we going to ban FINGZ now that we know two of his alter egos have been banned?

Trust me, there's more than just two. Also, that's not my decision. It's Allen's.

 

[BlackWidow]

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. Fool me 11+ times.....

Hee hee!

 

[Señor Fingers]

@BlackWidow,

If you must know the truth, I got hooked on this place in spurts. I would show up for a while and then vanish once I realized I was lagging behind in the real world. Dunno if anyone can relate, but that was my experience.

@Rollo Tomassi vs Iqqi Feud

I'm surprised to see a moderator step out of line like this. These types of things are usually handled by PM, no? Aren't moderators supposed to be impartial, and not dragging conflicts with other users into other threads?

It's not my business at all, but I didnt expect to see Rollo fly off the handle like this. Publishing her private info wasn't too suave either.

Seems I'm not the only one who could use a slice of humble pie here.

@My potential banning

It's in your hands folks, I wont stay if I am not wanted.

 

[WesCottII]

@My potential banning

It's in your hands folks, I wont stay if I am not wanted.

Y'know....your posts helped me man, they really did. But can I honestly say that I believe they wern't all completly fabricated? Not after your revelations today.

It was better for everyone I think, to not know this, now your good advice might be doubted, the same way I doubt pooks, if that blog is him. Kinda tainted.

Was it better that you stayed away and created an air of mystery/mystique? IMO, yes. You became a legend, like pook, and that meant something to aim for. "wow, I want to do a pick up like fingz!" - now who knows?

On the flip side, I remember Gio had a alter ego he used to bring out to flame people outside his moderater guise, and personally, I've had 4 because I kept forgetting my damn password and changing e-mails, so ban me aswell, i'd welcome the cutting of the apron strings. And I really don't think what you've done is bannable at all, IF you can assure us that all the stories are legit.

The real drama here is the death of what people used to look upto.

Looks like bondjamesbond just became my favourite poster.

 

[iqqi]

I know Fingz has more than two or three, lol. Mr. Fingers, duh, is one that everyone knows about.

It isn't AGAINST THE RULES.

If Allen banned Fingz, like he banned Wyldfire, that would be two bible contributors who are banned, and THAT would be sad. At least you can say Wyldfire was banned for being a woman (which is sad in itself), but Fingz has contributed waaaaay more than ANYONE even Pook.

Fingz walks men through the finer aspects of seduction, whereas Pook was a philosopher.

And YES, Fingz' lessons are real, can't you tell that he is completely charismatic? I LOVE Fingz, in real life. He is one of my favorite people in the world, and I do know quite a few good people in real life (remember how we pretty much all agreed here on this board that you are lucky to meet one or two of those in a lifetime).

 

[WesCottII]

And YES, Fingz' lessons are real, can't you tell that he is completely charismatic? I LOVE Fingz, in real life. He is one of my favorite people in the world, and I do know quite a few good people in real life (remember how we pretty much all agreed here on this board that you are lucky to meet one or two of those in a lifetime).

I agree with ya babe He's the man.

But who knows who's telling the truth over the net? He might be your account, he might be my account, gio and pen might be the same person, who knows?

My point is, it's a sad day when we have to doubt stuff like this.

 

[Señor Fingers]

@Wescott

I realize I deserve some heat here and your honesty, while painful is appreciated. Sorry to have sullied your ideal with doubts.

 

[WesCottII]

@Wescott

I realize I deserve some heat here and your honesty, while painful is appreciated. Sorry to have sullied your ideal with doubts.

Ah, I'm willing to draw a line under it dude, you helped me pick up my share of girls, and more importantly be a man around them. Fabricated or not, the stuff worked. If it's worth anything, I hope you don't get banned, and if you do, maybe it'll be a slap in the face for me to go out and experience life.

 

[thefonz]

Hey Fingaz, you wrote Weapons of Mass Seduction single-handedly.

If you wanted to teabag my uncle while watching "Queer Eye for the Straight Guy" I'd still forgive you.

But I do agree that the whole "matrix" analogy is used waay to much on this site. The point is motivation to get you to change your life for the better, not to act like a smug douche when you walk around talking to other people. It's not saying that there is the greater reality beyond the media and conventional thinking, it's about sculpting your own reality anyway you want.

I've also changed alot since 2004 when I came here much like you. I accepted all the dj bible posts as truth while trying to change the things I didn't like about myself. I changed somethings then changed them back to the way they were originally because I learned for myself that some posts were just not true ie. Dominate Always, always ask for home phone number, get some tattos, take on EVERY challenge that comes your way.

The seduction community is only a few years old and it's always interesting to see how many "gurus" from 4-7 years ago have completely changed their minds on seduction. Almost all.

 

[iqqi]

The seduction community is only a few years old and it's always interesting to see how many "gurus" from 4-7 years ago have completely changed their minds on seduction. Almost all.

Even Pook. But for the worse.

I hope he comes back. Maybe I can change him! Me! I can be Captain Save a Pook!















I kid, I kid.

 

[Last Man Standing]

In a nutshell, I've posted here under various screen names.

I'm sure some of you will remember a certain Don Ronny and his highly unorthodox advice (and consistent b!tch slapping).. yeah..that was my own brand of shock therapy, trying to wake you guys out of your slumber and shake up your rigid mindsets.

How about that Crotch-Sniffer fellow? Always cracking jokes and making inappropriate comments.. basically trying to get you tightwads to lighten up and have a good laugh. Sometimes I got carried away but it was all in good fun.

I had a couple others but those two were definitely the most memorable.

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Haha, Crotch Sniffer and Don Ronny - you, crotch, are the one who was the inspiration for the greatest thread on this site as written by me..with your "Sexuality = Duality that creates life" quote.. The Natural Order of Things thread...http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=50480

 

[iqqi]

I CALLED it!!!

See responses 18 and 19...

I am the SH!T.

 

[SinJester]

This is strange. Senor Fingers was just that great DJ long since gone that changed my life. He was like Pook, only different. Now he's a person. It's like the stage when you finally realize your parents are people and have flaws

But in this he is teaching us another lesson. All

If you wanted to teabag my uncle while watching "Queer Eye for the Straight Guy" I'd still forgive you.

LOL!

But I do agree that the whole "matrix" analogy is used waay to much on this site. The point is motivation to get you to change your life for the better, not to act like a smug douche when you walk around talking to other people.

Haha true.

The seduction community is only a few years old and it's always interesting to see how many "gurus" from 4-7 years ago have completely changed their minds on seduction. Almost all.

Yep, makes me think, because I'm not at that stage. Nowhere near it. But I'm young. Still I'm sure that if they did not travel through this pass they would not be who they are today, would not be where they are today. Like with KillaPeteHog's new post, if he accepted 'just be yourself' when he started out he probably wouldn't be as good as a person as he is now. If you see what I mean. As an AFC you can't 'just be yourself' and get girls and be happy. Generally because at that point you view getting girls as making you happy. And I am of the view that you can change who you are.

I think the notion of "the matrix" has manifested itself into a misogynistic attitude that a lot of posters carry, even if they don't realize or admit it at all. I think the matrix has also contributed to just a lot of angry posters in general.

Right on MikeYikes. I'm not buying into it. Not totally. Why? I would rather be happily married and ignorant than a guy who sits a home playing video games all day because w0mel\l @re Teh Dev!l and thinking he is winning a life. He then proceeds to update his blog and go online to forums complaining about how women suck. Are some of US turning into this? Is this Pook now? Perhaps.

People falling and love and getting together is a normal and healthy part as life as far as I am concerned. The thing is there is plenty of contradicting material on how to be a DJ and what a DJ really is. I agree with Pook that we shouldn't have to follow 'The Way' but one day I want to get married and have kids. I can't see my life being complete without it. You can't keep sarging forever, when you are 80 trying to pick up 20 year olds in a bar. If you are 80 and playing video games wouldn't you have some regrets? Still that does't mean I don't plan to follow my passions.

That's my view on the DJ way and life. To be honest I'm not too interested in forum politcis because I really don't know a lot of these people you are talking about. I'm not an old timer of the forums even though I have been around for a few years. Flame wars, however, are a waste of life.

 

[Last Man Standing]

I just wanted to add that I do think ego is a problem on here as well. But the biggest problem, in my opinion, is the obsession this message board has with "the matrix".

I just wish people would be a little more light-hearted and laid back about things on here.

You are too uptight kid - wake-up and open your eyes, The Matrix has you!!!!

 

[iqqi]

You are too uptight kid - wake-up and open your eyes, The Matrix has you!!!!

The Matix within the Matrix has too many of YOU.

 

[MikeYikes122]

You are too uptight kid - wake-up and open your eyes, The Matrix has you!!!!

The Matrix? I'm not worried about that.

I'm actually worried about getting tempted into a career path where I'm lured unknowingly by the devil, who tempts me with promises of vanity and fame if I agree to defend the guilty. Though, I can't get too comfortable with where I'm at LMS because life can be like an out of control bus that blows up if you go slower than 30 miles per hour. You have to live life on a whim and be willing to even travel through time in a telephone booth with your best friend if he asks you to.

These are metaphors for life lessons.

 

[Aboleo]

The Matrix? I'm not worried about that.

I'm actually worried about getting tempted into a career path where I'm lured unknowingly by the devil, who tempts me with promises of vanity and fame if I agree to defend the guilty. Though, I can't get too comfortable with where I'm at LMS because life can be like an out of control bus that blows up if you go slower than 30 miles per hour. You have to live life on a whim and be willing to even travel through time in a telephone booth with your best friend if he asks you to.

"Woah".