One more.....
Well i dont know if the exuse was BS or what but i do feel good which is strange. Called up a girl ive seen 2 times before to set up a 3rd date and she said sorry id love to but im meeting a real estate agent to look at a house tommorow night.. So taking an educated guess if this chick was still interested she would have named a date she was free.. so time for me to move on. I have began to notice that when you act like a man its hard not to smile, i have slowly developed the attitude as of late that the world is full of chicks and none of them are special.
>>> I would say , personally, try once more and see how she seems on the phone. Any sign of fishiness or wavering or whatever and I would figure she's not interested any longer . Don't try beyond once more if you try again at all. One thing I've learned from my own dating experiences is, when this happens, DON'T start doing what psychologists call "mind-reading". It's a type of cognitive dissonance, i.e. , a thought error which , if left uncorrected every time it crops up, will begin to corrupt your overall attitude and outlook. By mind reading I mean don't even begin to attempt to figure out "why" she' s no longer interested. You can't read minds, so don't attempt to, is the lesson of it basically. I only say this to you because mind reading, imagining she's thinking things which she most likely isn't, is what I would usually start to do in your situation and I still have to work actively to check that inclination. ~D
