Now I'm far from being a DJ, but I'm getting to the stage where I'm beginning to see some good results, so I'll share some of my thoughts. I have learnt most of this stuff by doing the wrong things, then fixing it up (The good ol' hard way
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1. Try and live a healthy life by eating good and getting regular exercise. Now I'm not talking about becoming a health freak or anything like that, just cut out as much crap food as you can and relace it with good stuff and go for a jog or hit the gym 3 days a week. It will give your mind and body a good kickstart and it shows on the outside through good skin tone, non-stinky breath and bright eyes. (I have photo's of before and after I did this and the difference is very noticable)
2. Make sure you look after your health, because if you don't it can take you out of the game for a long period of time. As an example, when I started exercising I developed a bit of chaffing in my groin. I just put up with it and it got infected, I still left it, it became a serious rash that took months to get rid of with medication and it developed a really bad stench (so I lost about 7 months of possible dating time) I learnt that lesson the hard way as well.
3. Be nice to every person you meet and try and take a genuine interest in what they have to say. You never know who they are friends with and it is just a respectful thing to do. As previous posters have mentioned, respect is very inportant, you get it by giving it to others first. Just be a true gentleman at every possible moment.
4. Keep your emotions in check. NEVER, EVER get angry and abuse a girl, no matter what they do or how much it hurts, just turn and walk away. The same goes for any emotion, if you are really in love with someone, try and remain cool about it. Women are very receptive about how you feel, if you are head over heels in love but you keep a cool head about it, they are more likely to act like a love struck schoolgirl to make up for your calmness.
5. Give yourself rules and boundries and stick to them! If you decide that you will only call a girl 2 times a week, then stick to it. (unless it is an emergency of course) I have a rule of talking on the phone for no longer than 20 mins when I first meet a girl. I'm constantly saying "Look I don't have time to sit and talk for hours on the phone, we can talk about everything when we go out at the end of the week" Oh and I always make sure I set up a date the first time I call them in the week, that way I can use that line in later convo's.
6. Be interesting and give yourself plenty of opportunity to display that you are a fun guy. Just last night I took a girl for a walk along the beach at night, JUST so I could use the opportunity to pole dance on a street light and play on some playground equipment (It is the 4th time I have done it with as many girls and it always gets the right reaction)
7. (I borrowed this from somewhere, so credit to the original person, whoever they are) Approach life and women the same way you would approach gambling in a casino where you didn't have to use your own money, but you got to keep anything you win. Bet big and take risks because if you lose the money, meh!, plenty more where that came from. Play all the games and the tables even if you don't know the rules because it will be the best way of learning and the learning will be fun. To improve the experience, invite people into your world and give them the same opportunity to gamble risk-free along with you, when you all win TOGETHER the experience is magnified 10X.
I'll edit and add if I think of anything, right now I'm going to sleep (equally as important as any of the above)
