Desdinova
Master Don Juan
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- Nov 15, 2004
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The only thing I'm seeing here is this woman gives a damn about you, wants to spend time with you, and has been consistently concerned about your drinking problem - to the point where it has been getting on her nerves.
When I was married, my biggest problem was that my wife wouldn't spend any time with me. I tried reasoning with the woman, planning things to do together, and constantly made the effort to do things together. Every time, I got shot down because she had more important things to do with her friends. It was so bad that my friends and even her friends were talking about it. Eventually, I got tired and worn out from fighting a battle that I was never going to win. I gave up. The marriage ended just a few months later, and according to her I was the one at fault because I was the cause of our loveless marriage.
Is that what you want? Do you want this woman to give up on you? Do you want her to stop giving a 5hit about you? Do you want her to stop putting in effort to spend time with you? Do you want her to quit trying to point out a problem she repeatedly sees in the marriage?
Eventually, she will get tired of fighting a never-winning battle and kick your ass out of her life. Is that what you want?
This isn't about the beach nor is it about spending time with you. It's about the hopefull progress toward ending a problem in the marriage, and you just shattered that hope. You fvcked it up. She's not the one who's a piece of 5hit, and I think you should pack up your stubbornness and apologize to her for that remark. You should NEVER kick someone down for giving a damn about you.
When I was married, my biggest problem was that my wife wouldn't spend any time with me. I tried reasoning with the woman, planning things to do together, and constantly made the effort to do things together. Every time, I got shot down because she had more important things to do with her friends. It was so bad that my friends and even her friends were talking about it. Eventually, I got tired and worn out from fighting a battle that I was never going to win. I gave up. The marriage ended just a few months later, and according to her I was the one at fault because I was the cause of our loveless marriage.
Is that what you want? Do you want this woman to give up on you? Do you want her to stop giving a 5hit about you? Do you want her to stop putting in effort to spend time with you? Do you want her to quit trying to point out a problem she repeatedly sees in the marriage?
Eventually, she will get tired of fighting a never-winning battle and kick your ass out of her life. Is that what you want?
This isn't about the beach nor is it about spending time with you. It's about the hopefull progress toward ending a problem in the marriage, and you just shattered that hope. You fvcked it up. She's not the one who's a piece of 5hit, and I think you should pack up your stubbornness and apologize to her for that remark. You should NEVER kick someone down for giving a damn about you.