i never said anything about having sex with ugly girls. i never said anything about not having confidence or boosting fake confidence by doing undesirable girls.
i meant, stop having false expectations. be realistic.
i think if some of us turned the ego down a notch, we'd be getting laid a lot more. too much ego makes you think you're too good for some girls who you wouldn't notice at first glance, but at second glance, they're still cute...maybe not perfect, but cute. of those two pics...obviously some of you find the first one quite attractive. she's one, that imo, wouldn't really check her out if i saw her on the street...she looks slightly above average to me. i don't know where the whole idea of ugly girls came from.
...maybe won't make your head spin when you see them on the street, but at second glance, they look good.
what i'm saying is, go for girls that you know are already attracted to you. it's easier.
now, if uglies are the only girls that you know are already attracted to you, then you need to work on yourself a bit.
we all have weaknesses, so it's stupid to deny them. i'm saying, i'm not expecting to get play from cheerleaders knowing i'm not in such great shape. petty stuff like confidence and not having approach anxiety has nothing to do with this, i'm past that. but realistically, if she's not attracted to me physically, then why bother...why even try. i'd rather go for the cute girl (who may not have a killer body), but does find me attractive. physical attraction is big. it really is a big part of it...if any of you've gotten with a girl that already found you physically attractive right off the bat you know how easy that is. you don't have to worry about low IL, high IL, signals and all that. she wants you, period.
until you improve yourself to top-notch, it doesn't make sense to think you deserve the best. and if you want, you can keep thinking that way...i think that's one of the reasons a lot of you don't get laid that often. i don't know about you, but i'd rather be getting laid a few times a month by different girls rather than once or twice a month. actually, i've had it with getting laid once or twice a month, and that's why i'm going with this now.
how about RAISE YOUR GAME
sure, raise your game. but depends what you call game too. is game being a man, or is using c&f and being able to smooth talk and get a girl hot for you, when you still live with your mom and you got a beer belly. i'm not saying you, or anyone in particular, or myself, i'm just saying...
c&f and negs and all that you guys use are because you want to create the impression that you're knocking a girl off her pedestal. well, what if the girl already puts you higher than herself. like i said, if you only see ugly girls seeing you this way, then maybe you have work to do.
if game is putting effort into making seduction your part time job, count me out. sure, i still like to read up on some of that stuff, and some mystery's stuff, etc, but i am pretty busy with other things too. i think going for girls that are already submitting to my level of game and physical attractiveness without me even trying...now that's what i call easy as pie. and i don't mind it. i just thought some should also take heed, that was my point.
