Went to Super Wal-Mart late today. Made 2 approaches that went nowhere fast, but the chicks were only OKish. There was one hot girl who kept walking fast and I didn't act fast enough so I never opened her. I had one shot in the cookie aisle and I literally had the proverbial 3s but waited 4s and it was too late. Damn. This is my #1 sticking point. I need to keep on point with the 3s rule...
Tihash's Daytime Approach Journal
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Approach #73
This is at a Starbucks today. See a hot girl sitting alone. I sit at the table next to her, and foolishly, say nothing. Now, 3 minutes hence, it is awkward (in my mind, at least) to just belt something out to her verbally. To my delight, she breaks out one of those electronic cigarette thingys. I open her on that. It is hard to hear her because a bus or truck is passing by, so I just go sit at her table. In retrospect, I think that is a money move in a cafe setting. We talk 5-10 minutes, I tell her I have to run, and go for the digits. She complies, then tells me she has a bf. NEXT!
This is at a Starbucks today. See a hot girl sitting alone. I sit at the table next to her, and foolishly, say nothing. Now, 3 minutes hence, it is awkward (in my mind, at least) to just belt something out to her verbally. To my delight, she breaks out one of those electronic cigarette thingys. I open her on that. It is hard to hear her because a bus or truck is passing by, so I just go sit at her table. In retrospect, I think that is a money move in a cafe setting. We talk 5-10 minutes, I tell her I have to run, and go for the digits. She complies, then tells me she has a bf. NEXT!
Approach #74
This is at Sam's Club. See a cute girl in the food section. I never know what to say! To my surprise, she has Myoplex in her cart and I use that myself. I open her. She is kinda weird as she talked really quietly and didn't make much eye contact. Either weird or shy. I close and she thinks about it! While the little wheels are turning in her bird brain, I say, "We can just meet up for coffee..." She forks over the number. I texted her once or twice since then and she answered one time. Feels like a flake, but who knows.
This is at Sam's Club. See a cute girl in the food section. I never know what to say! To my surprise, she has Myoplex in her cart and I use that myself. I open her. She is kinda weird as she talked really quietly and didn't make much eye contact. Either weird or shy. I close and she thinks about it! While the little wheels are turning in her bird brain, I say, "We can just meet up for coffee..." She forks over the number. I texted her once or twice since then and she answered one time. Feels like a flake, but who knows.
Approach #75
This is at Borders. Only one to talk to is older than I would date (mid to late 30's), but a nice body and is showing cleavage out the wazoo and the boobs look fake. So I open her with my magazine opener. Nice 5 minute convo, I close and she asks for my number instead. I give it to her and don't care if she calls or not, really. I mean, I do care, I'd hit it, but I wouldn't date her so no biggie.
This is at Borders. Only one to talk to is older than I would date (mid to late 30's), but a nice body and is showing cleavage out the wazoo and the boobs look fake. So I open her with my magazine opener. Nice 5 minute convo, I close and she asks for my number instead. I give it to her and don't care if she calls or not, really. I mean, I do care, I'd hit it, but I wouldn't date her so no biggie.
Approach #76
This is the last of my 4-in-a-row today. Super Target. I open her on the so-called "organic" sheets Target now sells. She laughs and I notice a wedding ring. I eject. I have enough trouble with flakes that I choose not to pursue taken women. NEXT!
This is the last of my 4-in-a-row today. Super Target. I open her on the so-called "organic" sheets Target now sells. She laughs and I notice a wedding ring. I eject. I have enough trouble with flakes that I choose not to pursue taken women. NEXT!
A rough last month!
#42 got mad b/c I had to reschedule her, so she is no longer seeing me. Oh, well. Now I am only banging one chick.
I had such great success in April, and very little success in May. What a crazy roller coaster turn of events!
I have logged more approaches and gotten more numbers over the last month but my date, BJ, and lay figures have remained static. Grrr.
Looking at the stats, it still holds that if I can get the chick to hang out it is likely she will put out. But it is getting the digits and, even harder, getting the date that is the hard part!
Here is to hoping that June is more like April than May!
Stats since i started the re-numbering in 9/2009:
Cold Approaches: 76
Phone Numbers: 21
Email Addresses: 2
Dates: 7 (only count once even if multiple dates same girl)
BJs: 1 (do not count if got BJ and lay, only count as lay)
Lays: 5
#42 got mad b/c I had to reschedule her, so she is no longer seeing me. Oh, well. Now I am only banging one chick.
I had such great success in April, and very little success in May. What a crazy roller coaster turn of events!
I have logged more approaches and gotten more numbers over the last month but my date, BJ, and lay figures have remained static. Grrr.
Looking at the stats, it still holds that if I can get the chick to hang out it is likely she will put out. But it is getting the digits and, even harder, getting the date that is the hard part!
Here is to hoping that June is more like April than May!
Stats since i started the re-numbering in 9/2009:
Cold Approaches: 76
Phone Numbers: 21
Email Addresses: 2
Dates: 7 (only count once even if multiple dates same girl)
BJs: 1 (do not count if got BJ and lay, only count as lay)
Lays: 5
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Nice journal stats. I just noticed your journal as of to date. I will read the whole thing when I get some time free.
I love to read entertaining and encouraging journals, it keeps me motivated.
Thanks man!
Why you have only 76 approaches in 5 years? Is that right?
In noticed you do a lot of bookstore sarging, this is one of my weakness. I'm more into mall and street sargings.
I love to read entertaining and encouraging journals, it keeps me motivated.
Thanks man!
Why you have only 76 approaches in 5 years? Is that right?
In noticed you do a lot of bookstore sarging, this is one of my weakness. I'm more into mall and street sargings.
Approach #77
This is at the food court at the mall today. Had to exchange something at JC Penny, so got some Chik Fil A at the food court. Looked around, no lone wolves to approach. Eat my lunch, get up to leave, and see a super-duper hottie by herself, dressed professionally, in heels, eating and typing away on her phone. I sit far away and have to talk myself into it! I finally approach, and I know I was nervous, and as such talked too quickly and not loudly enough. I don't do the Super Direct approach often enough to be comfortable with it.
I told her I was on my way out and noticed her, and that she was the prettiest girl I had seen all day, and just had to meet her. We exchange names, I talked to her for 20 seconds or so, then ask if she is single. She says she is dating someone, so I walk off.
I sat down at her table when I approached like it was normal and saw no resistance from her to that.
I know asking if they are single is lame, but I was flustered and couldn't think of anything else to say.
Next!
PS-- it feels much, much, much better to go home after having had a girl tell you she has a BF than to go home and say, "Damn, I wish I had approached that girl..."
This is at the food court at the mall today. Had to exchange something at JC Penny, so got some Chik Fil A at the food court. Looked around, no lone wolves to approach. Eat my lunch, get up to leave, and see a super-duper hottie by herself, dressed professionally, in heels, eating and typing away on her phone. I sit far away and have to talk myself into it! I finally approach, and I know I was nervous, and as such talked too quickly and not loudly enough. I don't do the Super Direct approach often enough to be comfortable with it.
I told her I was on my way out and noticed her, and that she was the prettiest girl I had seen all day, and just had to meet her. We exchange names, I talked to her for 20 seconds or so, then ask if she is single. She says she is dating someone, so I walk off.
I sat down at her table when I approached like it was normal and saw no resistance from her to that.
I know asking if they are single is lame, but I was flustered and couldn't think of anything else to say.
Next!
PS-- it feels much, much, much better to go home after having had a girl tell you she has a BF than to go home and say, "Damn, I wish I had approached that girl..."
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I think asking if "you are single" is not a bad question. It's how you can carry the conversation after you ask the question that matters. Very inspiring journal!
Approach #78
This is at Ross Dress for Less today. haha. That name cracks me up.
An uber-hottie was there, but was on her damn phone the WHOLE time. So she didn't get the gift of meeting me.
Second choice was a cute girl looking at paintings in the back. Opened her on the housewarming gift, successfully transitioned to some personal talk, asked her name, then at the end of about 5 min closed and suggested we get together for coffee sometime. She had a bf. Oh, well. Nexxxxxt!
This is at Ross Dress for Less today. haha. That name cracks me up.
An uber-hottie was there, but was on her damn phone the WHOLE time. So she didn't get the gift of meeting me.
Second choice was a cute girl looking at paintings in the back. Opened her on the housewarming gift, successfully transitioned to some personal talk, asked her name, then at the end of about 5 min closed and suggested we get together for coffee sometime. She had a bf. Oh, well. Nexxxxxt!
Approach #79
At Ross today. Open a hot Russian, but she mentions a husband. I know they don't necessarily wear rings in other cultures, so I eject.
Haven't been apporaching much and won't be until at least Wednesday of next week. My mother is going through a health scare and family comes first. Hopefully she gets a clean bill of health on Wednesday.
At Ross today. Open a hot Russian, but she mentions a husband. I know they don't necessarily wear rings in other cultures, so I eject.
Haven't been apporaching much and won't be until at least Wednesday of next week. My mother is going through a health scare and family comes first. Hopefully she gets a clean bill of health on Wednesday.
Approach #80
At Target today. Approach an ok-ish girl in health and beauty aides. Keep the convo going about 3 min, then she rudely declares, "I need to go!" and walks off. Very odd. One of the oddest responses of all time. NEXT, *****!
At Target today. Approach an ok-ish girl in health and beauty aides. Keep the convo going about 3 min, then she rudely declares, "I need to go!" and walks off. Very odd. One of the oddest responses of all time. NEXT, *****!
Approach #82
This is at the mall food court also on my lunch break. See a cute girl sitting by herself on one of those long, counter-like tables that strangers can all sit at.
I sit across from her, and one seat off.
I open her on her food. We have a mildly normal conversation about 10- minutes or so. She is a college grad, can'T find a job, it's her first day working at a mall store as a take-anything kind of job, blah blah. I finish my lunch, nice meeting you, ask if she wants to join me for a drink sometime, and... "No thanks." lol That's better than her giving me her # and then flaking. No problem: NEXT!
This is at the mall food court also on my lunch break. See a cute girl sitting by herself on one of those long, counter-like tables that strangers can all sit at.
I sit across from her, and one seat off.
I open her on her food. We have a mildly normal conversation about 10- minutes or so. She is a college grad, can'T find a job, it's her first day working at a mall store as a take-anything kind of job, blah blah. I finish my lunch, nice meeting you, ask if she wants to join me for a drink sometime, and... "No thanks." lol That's better than her giving me her # and then flaking. No problem: NEXT!
Peace and Quiet
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
Approach #83
Wal-Mart today after work. I am feeling self-conscious about the young girls (21-24) because I keep getting turned down. lol. I know it's just a phase. So for the heck of it I open a girl clearly in her 30's. Ask for advice on a housewarming gift. She doesn't have a ring on. Somewhat nice, albeit short (4 min approx) convo, lots of smiles from her. She appeared to be blushing a bit. Not used to getting PU'd at the Wal-Mart, I suppose! When I close, I ask if she wants to join me for coffee sometime.
#83: "Well, I actually don't drink coffee."
Me: "Me neither. But Starbucks has lots of things... iced tea, lemonade, even smoothies."
#83: "Well, not at this time."
LMAO. "Not at this time"? lol
NEXXXXXXXXXXXXXXT....
Wal-Mart today after work. I am feeling self-conscious about the young girls (21-24) because I keep getting turned down. lol. I know it's just a phase. So for the heck of it I open a girl clearly in her 30's. Ask for advice on a housewarming gift. She doesn't have a ring on. Somewhat nice, albeit short (4 min approx) convo, lots of smiles from her. She appeared to be blushing a bit. Not used to getting PU'd at the Wal-Mart, I suppose! When I close, I ask if she wants to join me for coffee sometime.
#83: "Well, I actually don't drink coffee."
Me: "Me neither. But Starbucks has lots of things... iced tea, lemonade, even smoothies."
#83: "Well, not at this time."
LMAO. "Not at this time"? lol
NEXXXXXXXXXXXXXXT....
Approach #84
This is at Barnes and Noble today. See a cute, older (30's) girl in the magazines. I open her with my std. magazine opener. Nice convo, we are going strong at the 10-minute mark, so I tell her I have to jet. "We should get coffee sometime" I say. She readily supplies her number. She is not really my type, but I'd hit it for fun. Nice to get a new number finally...
This is at Barnes and Noble today. See a cute, older (30's) girl in the magazines. I open her with my std. magazine opener. Nice convo, we are going strong at the 10-minute mark, so I tell her I have to jet. "We should get coffee sometime" I say. She readily supplies her number. She is not really my type, but I'd hit it for fun. Nice to get a new number finally...
Composite Approach #85
I go to Burlington Coat Factory. Hot girl comes in as I am getting ready to leave, so i abort and go to handbangs with her. Open her on whether a hangbag or jewelry is a better gift for a friend. She answers, big smile, but then walks away.
I have a similar experience at Ross later on. Open a girl on her opinion on a housewarming gift, she gives her opinion (abt. 2 min), then walks off.
I think I need to be more aggressive in these non-bookstore, non-coffee shop places. I need to open with an indirect opener if possible, then quickly transition to direct (i.e., pretend to all of a sudden notice they are pretty, say as much, then ask them to join me for a drink sometime). I will field test this and let you know!
I go to Burlington Coat Factory. Hot girl comes in as I am getting ready to leave, so i abort and go to handbangs with her. Open her on whether a hangbag or jewelry is a better gift for a friend. She answers, big smile, but then walks away.
I have a similar experience at Ross later on. Open a girl on her opinion on a housewarming gift, she gives her opinion (abt. 2 min), then walks off.
I think I need to be more aggressive in these non-bookstore, non-coffee shop places. I need to open with an indirect opener if possible, then quickly transition to direct (i.e., pretend to all of a sudden notice they are pretty, say as much, then ask them to join me for a drink sometime). I will field test this and let you know!
Approach #86
This is at Marshall's. See a very hot babe, pretty face, gorgeous butt, etc. She is looking at women's shoes. Think about going super direct, but just can't must the nuts to do it. She eventually makes her way to the junk in the back, and I hover numerous times. Shame on me! I finally open with my housewarming gift opener. She takes me on a field trip to where the mirrors are. She mentions she sees lots of houses and is a realtor. I start talking real estate with her, and successfully transition away from the opener. I then switch to direct, and tell her she is cute and ask her name. I close, she gives me her card with her cell on it, but tells me she has a bf-- and he is there in the store with her! lol. What a damn shame...
STICKING POINTS:
a. I wait too frickin' long to open.
b. I don't talk loud enough when in set.
c. I need to be more flirty, more c&f.
This is at Marshall's. See a very hot babe, pretty face, gorgeous butt, etc. She is looking at women's shoes. Think about going super direct, but just can't must the nuts to do it. She eventually makes her way to the junk in the back, and I hover numerous times. Shame on me! I finally open with my housewarming gift opener. She takes me on a field trip to where the mirrors are. She mentions she sees lots of houses and is a realtor. I start talking real estate with her, and successfully transition away from the opener. I then switch to direct, and tell her she is cute and ask her name. I close, she gives me her card with her cell on it, but tells me she has a bf-- and he is there in the store with her! lol. What a damn shame...
STICKING POINTS:
a. I wait too frickin' long to open.
b. I don't talk loud enough when in set.
c. I need to be more flirty, more c&f.
Peace and Quiet
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.