Approach #17
This is actually 2 on 2 different days that I am giving myself half-credit for. This was about 7-10 days ago and of course the details are a little sketchy now.
The first one is in Barnes and Noble. I see the hottest (and really only hot) girl in the place in the travel section. I get in her aisle and violate the 3s rule by about 2 minutes. This is dumb because the anxiety just builds up and I swear that the chicks can feel it somehow.
I open her on where is she going, etc. We talk just briefly, I allow a lull, and the convo dies. She then says it was nice talking to me (after a 30 second lull) and leaves.
Something I have noticed, though. The hotter the girl, the more likely she is to smile at me and be into being talked to (hope that makes sense). The more average girls seem somewhat less likely, as a whole, to be into being gamed.
The second one for half-credit is I am at a Books-a-Million and some girl I met like 6 months ago through my ex opens me and asks, "Are you tihash?" Blah blah, I keep the convo going, try to be C+F, I get the number from her. We text for a day or two and I try to set up a coffee meeting/date and she flakes. Next.
Approach #18
This is in a restaurant. I am there with my friend and we are out of town. The waitress is (I later find out) Russian and has an accent. I talk to her about it, etc. She is not too much into being talked to, but I close at the end of the meal anyhow. She claims to be married (no ring). Mail order bride? lol. Next.
Approach #19
Out of town again with my friend. People seem much friendlier in this other town. At a bar and watching a football game. See a blonde girl looking unhappy. She is up and down and in and out of her seat. She lands outside. I pretend to have a cell call, go outside, then open her on the game. We have a nice convo for 3 minutes or so. I said I have to get back to my friend, go for the number, and she claims to have an out of town bf (She is there just for the weekend from another city). Next.
Approach #20
Same bar. I am standing up, leaning forward on my bar stool. This turns out to be important because the bar is busy, and there are no seats, but it is hard to get out of the bar stool to approach. A 3-set comes in. The cutest, a 24-ish year old blonde, is standing nearest me about 3 feet away. I open her on whether she is here to watch the UF or FSU game. We talk about college, football, etc for about 5 min. I get her laughing and whatnot. It is funny how you can tell if someone is interested in you. Approach #19 really wasn't all that much, but this one was. She asked me where I was from, and a bunch of other questions. When I asked her name, her face lit up and she wanted to know mine, too. Some girls don't give a sh!t. Anyhow, her friends get a table while we are talking and she eventually says she needs to get back to them. I go for the number, and she says she has a bf. Her bf, ironically, lives in the town I am from (1.5 hrs away). She even volunteers it's not the best situation being so far apart. I wonder if I could have pulled her if I lived locally. Oh, well. It made me feel good to talk to a girl who liked talking to me. Next.
This is actually 2 on 2 different days that I am giving myself half-credit for. This was about 7-10 days ago and of course the details are a little sketchy now.
The first one is in Barnes and Noble. I see the hottest (and really only hot) girl in the place in the travel section. I get in her aisle and violate the 3s rule by about 2 minutes. This is dumb because the anxiety just builds up and I swear that the chicks can feel it somehow.
I open her on where is she going, etc. We talk just briefly, I allow a lull, and the convo dies. She then says it was nice talking to me (after a 30 second lull) and leaves.
Something I have noticed, though. The hotter the girl, the more likely she is to smile at me and be into being talked to (hope that makes sense). The more average girls seem somewhat less likely, as a whole, to be into being gamed.
The second one for half-credit is I am at a Books-a-Million and some girl I met like 6 months ago through my ex opens me and asks, "Are you tihash?" Blah blah, I keep the convo going, try to be C+F, I get the number from her. We text for a day or two and I try to set up a coffee meeting/date and she flakes. Next.
Approach #18
This is in a restaurant. I am there with my friend and we are out of town. The waitress is (I later find out) Russian and has an accent. I talk to her about it, etc. She is not too much into being talked to, but I close at the end of the meal anyhow. She claims to be married (no ring). Mail order bride? lol. Next.
Approach #19
Out of town again with my friend. People seem much friendlier in this other town. At a bar and watching a football game. See a blonde girl looking unhappy. She is up and down and in and out of her seat. She lands outside. I pretend to have a cell call, go outside, then open her on the game. We have a nice convo for 3 minutes or so. I said I have to get back to my friend, go for the number, and she claims to have an out of town bf (She is there just for the weekend from another city). Next.
Approach #20
Same bar. I am standing up, leaning forward on my bar stool. This turns out to be important because the bar is busy, and there are no seats, but it is hard to get out of the bar stool to approach. A 3-set comes in. The cutest, a 24-ish year old blonde, is standing nearest me about 3 feet away. I open her on whether she is here to watch the UF or FSU game. We talk about college, football, etc for about 5 min. I get her laughing and whatnot. It is funny how you can tell if someone is interested in you. Approach #19 really wasn't all that much, but this one was. She asked me where I was from, and a bunch of other questions. When I asked her name, her face lit up and she wanted to know mine, too. Some girls don't give a sh!t. Anyhow, her friends get a table while we are talking and she eventually says she needs to get back to them. I go for the number, and she says she has a bf. Her bf, ironically, lives in the town I am from (1.5 hrs away). She even volunteers it's not the best situation being so far apart. I wonder if I could have pulled her if I lived locally. Oh, well. It made me feel good to talk to a girl who liked talking to me. Next.
