In my previous thread I mentioned how I sent a message to a random girl on Myspace.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=151373
The real reason I did it was to see how a much younger woman would initially respond to me, as an older guy, who is showing interest in her. I was testing the waters albeit not very smoothly. It's not that I had interest in the 18 year old I sent the message to, and I'm not specifically looking to date THAT young. The thing is I see good looking younger women in my every day life and the question is always in the back of my mind when I see some younger women and I want flirt with them, how will they take it if I do?
Now we all know that YES, older men can hook up with younger women. However, I think that it works best when the guy establishes value FIRST. The woman then becomes more receptive to a High Value, Mature guy and the Age Gap Shield (AGS) goes down.
However, as an older guy, should I even bother flirting with a younger woman if I haven't established value first? Wouldn't the Age Gap Shied (AGS) immediately go up?
Here is an example....today I was at my local shopping mall. I went in the entrance and there were a few girls from the hair salon standing outside the entrance smoking and they were all in their 20's. Now I would have loved to flirt with them....maybe a smile....maybe a hello...whatever. However, I didn't say anything because like with the Myspace example, why would I bother showing interest when I haven't established VALUE first and the Age Gap Shield (AGS) would more than likely go up??
This same kind of situation happens to me often when I'm out on the bike trail and I see a good looking woman walking by. I never know if it I should even say hi or what because I think the AGS (I'm coining this, it's mine :yes will automatically go up because I'm just some random older guy showing interest in her.
Anyway, what do you guys think?
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=151373
The real reason I did it was to see how a much younger woman would initially respond to me, as an older guy, who is showing interest in her. I was testing the waters albeit not very smoothly. It's not that I had interest in the 18 year old I sent the message to, and I'm not specifically looking to date THAT young. The thing is I see good looking younger women in my every day life and the question is always in the back of my mind when I see some younger women and I want flirt with them, how will they take it if I do?
Now we all know that YES, older men can hook up with younger women. However, I think that it works best when the guy establishes value FIRST. The woman then becomes more receptive to a High Value, Mature guy and the Age Gap Shield (AGS) goes down.
However, as an older guy, should I even bother flirting with a younger woman if I haven't established value first? Wouldn't the Age Gap Shied (AGS) immediately go up?
Here is an example....today I was at my local shopping mall. I went in the entrance and there were a few girls from the hair salon standing outside the entrance smoking and they were all in their 20's. Now I would have loved to flirt with them....maybe a smile....maybe a hello...whatever. However, I didn't say anything because like with the Myspace example, why would I bother showing interest when I haven't established VALUE first and the Age Gap Shield (AGS) would more than likely go up??
This same kind of situation happens to me often when I'm out on the bike trail and I see a good looking woman walking by. I never know if it I should even say hi or what because I think the AGS (I'm coining this, it's mine :yes will automatically go up because I'm just some random older guy showing interest in her.
Anyway, what do you guys think?