This sh**'s getting old (pun intended)

[Clockwerk50]

You've still got a lot of work to do

His work is getting laid, and he is probably going ball deeps right now lmao /s

 

[BaronOfHair]

His work is getting laid, and he is probably going ball deeps right now lmao /s

For his sake, I hope so

 

[Solomon]

You give off the vibes of the guy who lives at home because of your age, and where you’re hanging out. It’s not like it’s thanksgiving and you’re home seeing college buddies hitting the old spots. You need to get your life together.

I totally agree with this, having your own spot, even with a roommate, is very freeing. A lot of OP's issues with women stem from the fact that he doesn't have his own place. I get it, he's saving tons of dough doing it. However, once you get to a certain age (usually 30+) to a lot of women, this is going to be a turn-off and hamper your ability to keep around hot or quality women long term. An average or subpar woman won't mind, but let's be real, that's not what OP wants

In regards to college game speaking from personal experience going to bars/clubs are a waste of time. Yes you can pull of a ONS but honestly the effort isn't worth it. Yes OP is ripped but college game is all about proximity, social circle, and who is who for the most part. You need to find a connect i.e. fraternity guy or party promotor etc,. Who can get you in exclusive parties and events. I'm not keyboard jockeying here as I have done this myself when I was 30.

In my opinion, OP you would be better of saving 30K minimum and moving. The older you get the more living at home will be a strike against you.

 

[BPH]

His work is getting laid, and he is probably going ball deeps right now lmao /s

Unfortunately not. Date went well. We messed around a little in the car and I thought she was going to invite me in but she said she wanted to "make me wait". She enjoyed herself and wants to see me again tonight.

For his sake, I hope so

You can go back to not helping. It's what you were doing before and I certainly did not miss you.

I totally agree with this, having your own spot, even with a roommate, is very freeing. A lot of OP's issues with women stem from the fact that he doesn't have his own place. I get it, he's saving tons of dough doing it. However, once you get to a certain age (usually 30+) to a lot of women, this is going to be a turn-off and hamper your ability to keep around hot or quality women long term. An average or subpar woman won't mind, but let's be real, that's not what OP wants

In regards to college game speaking from personal experience going to bars/clubs are a waste of time. Yes you can pull of a ONS but honestly the effort isn't worth it. Yes OP is ripped but college game is all about proximity, social circle, and who is who for the most part. You need to find a connect i.e. fraternity guy or party promotor etc,. Who can get you in exclusive parties and events. I'm not keyboard jockeying here as I have done this myself when I was 30.

In my opinion, OP you would be better of saving 30K minimum and moving. The older you get the more living at home will be a strike against you.

Yep, I understand and agree. Just working with what I've got since I don't want the time between now and $30k to move out to be one massive dry spell.

 

[BaronOfHair]

You can go back to not helping. It's what you were doing before and I certainly did not miss you

Not even slightly, eh?

 

[BPH]

@Clockwerk50 date 2 was a different story. Will post that FR when I get some time.

 

[SW15]

A lot of OP's issues with women stem from the fact that he doesn't have his own place.

once you get to a certain age (usually 30+) to a lot of women, this is going to be a turn-off and hamper your ability to keep around hot or quality women long term. against you.

I think the age where women start judging you negatively for living with your parents is closer to 25 than it is to 30.

The negative judgment makes both initial attraction and retention more difficult.

having your own spot, even with a roommate, is very freeing.

Yes, it is. There's even a certain point where women judge a man negatively for having a roommate.