I want to pinpoint Social Leper and Guru's recent responses as they breakdown what I think the other side debating me has been missing throughout this thread.
Social_Leper said:
Tenacity, I agree with you that the majority of women are sh*tty.
guru1000 said:
Gentlemen, relationships are not forever. Fact.
You guys respond saying you disagree with me because my tone is "negative," yet you are repeating the same points that I've been making all this time. You are repeating my Thesis Statement.
I have said since Day one, the majority of the market of women are shyt and that the chance of having a "happily ever after/forever" marriage or relationship is very slim. I also reiterated that this doesn't mean that there isn't ANY decency left, it's just that it's a very small percentage remaining and the majority is bullshyt.
I said as a result of this, here's recommendation X, Y and Z going forward that you should take under consideration. I also have been saying that if you want to get married and make children, DO SO, but understand the situation occurring in the market from a "Macro" perspective that does indeed affect us on a "Micro" perspective. These market forces will make it difficult to sustain such relationship going forward in a "happily ever after/forever" context.
This has been my consistent stance, since DAY ONE. Yet, you guys are all over the place. You say you disagree with me and that I'm too negative, too cynical, and that I need to cheer the hell up and look on the bright side of life. THEN you turn right around and REPEAT my sayings that the market is shyt and relationships don't last forever, which is what the hell I have been saying lol?
Social_Leper said:
But as Taaiyu and others have said people are still making a success of relationships. Men are still finding attractive good quality women. So the problem really is as simple acknowledging that if you aren't getting what you want you either aren't good enough or you aren't trying hard enough.
You just admitted that the majority of the market was shyt, period. It's irrelevant that there are people within this shyt market having success, they are the exceptions, are they not? Understand when you say the market is shyt, that means the majority of the players aren't QUALITY, doesn't mean they all aren't quality, but as a whole they are shyt.
Based on your logic, the majority of households in the country do not have $5 million in assets, but there's 1.5 million households in the country that do, so you would scold the majority households saying they aren't "trying hard enough" to get $5 million in assets when the economic system as a whole does NOT ALLOW for the majority to acquire $5 million in assets. It does not ALLOW this, I broke that down earlier. Just like with the dating market, the market is shyt, the majority of guys just WILL NOT find a decent woman that will love him "happily ever after" no matter how hard he tries. Call that negative or cynical all you want those are the facts of a fvcked up Market when you have a very low amount of quality.
guru1000 said:
Gentlemen, relationships are not forever. Fact. Irrespectively, it doesn't mean one has to have a negative cynicism toward relationships.
Engage, enjoy them, and give--but expect nothing in return.
Check this out, so why should a guy expect nothing in return from a relationship Guru? Could it be that he shouldn't expect anything because there's a LOW CHANCE of him receiving anything worthwhile? Wouldn't this mean that the market of women as a whole aren't providing much worthwhile, thus, don't expect to receive it but IF it comes, throw a party?
guru1000 said:
Herein is the "positive energy" I refer to. If and when they dissipate, no hard feelings. Just as you are born, live, and die; it's a part of life. Enjoy the process; don't focus on dying.
I don't know what Positive Energy has to do with that statement. You talk about there being no hard feelings if the relationship goes sour, okay, go tell that to the hundreds of thousands of guys that just went through financial bankruptcy in the Family Court. Tell that to the guys who are good Fathers that can only see their kids 4 times a month. Tell that to the guys who WERE good husbands and still got shytted on. Tell that to the guys like Brian Banks, who had a chick lie on him and send him to prison for a number of years on false rape. Tell that to the Duke Lacrosse Team. Tell that to Robin Williams who killed himself over his ex-wives burning him dry.
No hard feelings? It's just life? Just "man up" and "move on" right? Just look on the BRIGHT side and stay Positive right?
Nope, doesn't work that way buddy. If you are not AWARE of what the hell is going on in this market of women today, your LIFE could be fvcked up beyond repair
where there IS nothing to move on to.
You think a lot of these ex-husbands committing suicide are doing so just because they are weak men? Or, maybe everything they worked for and built, has been taken away from them, and they have no more fight left to go and rebuild everything all over again WHILE paying excessive child support and excessive alimony and sleeping in cheap motels because they can't afford a studio apartment....thus....they say fvck it and check out.