THIS is exactly how to overcome fear of approaching women!!

[skip2mylou781]

Oh man I have made yet another breakthough and I think we all know this but we never think about it.

Just like gunwitch teaches you to restrain from masturbation to come into a sexual state so the fear of approaching women is gone, my tip here might work EVEN BETTER than gunwitch!!

So, for any of you guys who feel like you let opportunities to talk to hot women slip day after day whenever you see them anywhere, this is for YOU.

Any guys who feel fear when thinking about talking to a random girl, THIS IS FOR YOU.

Any guy who ever has any hesitation in general when it comes to talking to girls....this is for YOU.

Here is this breakthrough tip - MAKE YOUR LIFE BORING!

Thats right.....w/e you do during your day thats not a necessity - STOP DOING IT.

stop doing the following RIGHT NOW -

1)masturbating
2)watching tv
3)surfing internet
4)chatting on the phone with friendes
5)just hanging out with friends (might be a stretch)

stop doing anythign and everything that isnt necessary for your survival.

Basically, stop doing anything that you would do for fun....and sit back, relax, and GET BORED.

YOu are a MAN though, so I gaurantee you, I GAURA-DAMN-TEE you, that within 24 hours of you sittin there being bored, with these newly placed restrictions, YOU WILL WANT TO GO OUT AND TALK TO GIRLS......because that is the only thing you have to allow yourself to be free from boredom.

Did you read that right? YOU WILL WANT TO GO OUT AND TALK TO GIRLS......because that is the only thing you have to allow yourself to be free from boredom....

put these limits on yourself and don't give in to be tempted to turn the TV on or go whack it.....if you can do that, then you will naturally want to let go of the boredom and fvckin go and talk to some people!!!

combining boredom AND gunwitch (no masturbating WILL put u in a sexual state), you will be incling to talk to basically every hot girl you see, because face it, ITS EITHER TALK TO GIRLS, OR BE BORED FOREVER - instill that within you and your fear of talkin to girls will be gone.



PS - i realized all this when I was sooo bored at a concert the other day, and I realized that my slight fear of talkin to hot girls was overcome by boredom, thus making me much MUCH more willing to just go and talk to girls so I could at least kill my boredom



guys does this make sense or what? it all seems kinda genius to me, its like a second form of gunwitch!

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I get what you are trying to do but to go out sarging just because there's nothing better to do is a bit strange. I'm of the mindset that a guy should do things purposely, he chooses what he wants to do as opposed to defaulting to something just because there's nothing better.

I've seen too many guys go that route in other areas and ended up just going through the motions and doing a half @ssed job, a waste of time in my opinion. Choose to do something and then do it to your best ability. Just my 2 cents....

 

[i am me]

no thanks but it mite work for some people

 

[Docs]

Haha, if I was bored and had nothing to do for a day, I'd sleep.
After I woke up, I'd be more then ready to sarge, unbored of course.

If I'm bored, I won't have the incentive to sarge. Not a great tip..maybe..it could work, but yeah..

 

[Jariel]

No offence, but this isn't necessary.

Get Gunwitch off your mind. His method teaches you how to get laid and nothing more and there are MUCH easier ways to do that. Go to a club, dance with a drunk chick then make your moves. If you're too scared, get drunk.

As long as you look presentable (not essential though, depending on alcohol consumpton) you'll find one who accepts before too long. It's THAT easy!

 

[Visceral]

I agree. Boredom just leads to sleep. I've gone to bed as early as 8pm because I had no reason to stay up.
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Boredom is the path of least resistance, that's why so many men take it. That's why masturbating, TV, and computers are all so popular; they're easy - cheap thrills and even cheaper filler: killing time waiting to die because we don't want to - or can't - deal with anything harder. The power of the path of least resistance is such that even when you bring the benefits of a harder path or the consequences of an easier path into account, most men still chose the easy way.

With this in mind, the only thing that's going to get you, me, and anyone else off our asses and out living life is desire strong enough to desensitize us to pain. This is why any discussion of masculinity invariably turns to hardship, sacrifice, and pain ... the ability and willingness to endure them in order to get what you want, or better yet, the drive to seek them out and fight through them in order to become stronger, is the only thing that makes it possible to get off the path of least resistance, since you can see that the goal is never enough to lead us down a path we aren't comfortable taking.

 

[ntssv]

I see what the point the poster is implying.

If you make yourself bored at home, you will go out and find things to do. I don't think it will automatically make you go look for girls (other than the non-masturbating part), but you will get out of the house and find new things to do which can eventually result in a peice of A$$.

It's basically changing your routine. It just so happens this is the tip given on sosauve's homepage right now.

 

[young_gun]

I see where you're going with this bro, but I can't say I'm going to go ahead and do this. I'm sure if I did this, I'd find something else to occupy my time with, and I spend time with my close friends every day, so I don't see why cutting back time with them would help me any.

My motivation to go out and approach girls was the fact that I haven't had sex since I broke up with my gf a little over a month ago. I was getting sick of beating my meat twice a day and then feeling all moody and sh*t when I woke up the next morning. I haven't wanked it for about a week now, and I've been going up to the gym a lot lately. I feel great.

 

[typical]

Actually the exact opposite ideals worked for me, I went out and just done tonnes of things went to the gym more often, studied more often, hung out with m8s almost every friggen day.

Right now I'd rather be talking to m8s then typing this, but its 8am and this lecture sucks, and we have free wireless at campus. But yea I havnt watched T.V since I joined this forum, been to the movies almost everyweek, but that was normally just a start to the night out with the boys.

You start doing things you like and suddenly everything just falls into place, you see a hot girl and the never miss a chance posts pop into your head and you just walk up and talk to the girl. Yea most of the time withen 5 minutes they say or do something that turns you off. But your better knowing that HB 9 is dumb as bricks then sitting there for the rest of the day wondering about her. Hell at the end of the week its funny catching up with friends and talking about all this crap.

p.s why the hell does engineering maths have to be so damn boring and hard, f*ck at least he could try not to have a monotone. * hint dont do engineering sh!t sucks*

 

[komplex]

making your life boring is not the answer.. yeah you'll bore your ass and talk to a woman, but your game may really suffer. If I am entertained, it is very EASY to entertain others. If I saw something great on TV, I'm more likely to have a better convo with a girl I just met.

Obviously Watching TOO MUCH TV is destructive.. or surfing the net too much is destructive. If it wasn't for surfing the net I would have never found out stuff about innergame and how to be successful with women and dating.

I will definately have to DISAGREE with chatting on the phone with friends.

Whenever I go out to my pick up spots, I keep my cellphone handy to warm up by talking to a few friends on the cell.. and if we talk about something great.. it can be much easier to open groups concerning the topic.

I do AGREE with the just hanging out with friends part.

I'm not saying to leave your friends forever, but I used to "hang with friends" during the times where I could have been doing a pickup.. the friends make you too comfortable with them and you don't wanna leave the group and go meet others.

 

[PeterNorthisawesome]

Oh man I have made yet another breakthough and I think we all know this but we never think about it.

Just like gunwitch teaches you to restrain from masturbation to come into a sexual state so the fear of approaching women is gone, my tip here might work EVEN BETTER than gunwitch!!

So, for any of you guys who feel like you let opportunities to talk to hot women slip day after day whenever you see them anywhere, this is for YOU.

Any guys who feel fear when thinking about talking to a random girl, THIS IS FOR YOU.

Any guy who ever has any hesitation in general when it comes to talking to girls....this is for YOU.

Here is this breakthrough tip - MAKE YOUR LIFE BORING!

Thats right.....w/e you do during your day thats not a necessity - STOP DOING IT.

stop doing the following RIGHT NOW -

1)masturbating
2)watching tv
3)surfing internet
4)chatting on the phone with friendes
5)just hanging out with friends (might be a stretch)

stop doing anythign and everything that isnt necessary for your survival.

Basically, stop doing anything that you would do for fun....and sit back, relax, and GET BORED.

YOu are a MAN though, so I gaurantee you, I GAURA-DAMN-TEE you, that within 24 hours of you sittin there being bored, with these newly placed restrictions, YOU WILL WANT TO GO OUT AND TALK TO GIRLS......because that is the only thing you have to allow yourself to be free from boredom.

Did you read that right? YOU WILL WANT TO GO OUT AND TALK TO GIRLS......because that is the only thing you have to allow yourself to be free from boredom....

put these limits on yourself and don't give in to be tempted to turn the TV on or go whack it.....if you can do that, then you will naturally want to let go of the boredom and fvckin go and talk to some people!!!

combining boredom AND gunwitch (no masturbating WILL put u in a sexual state), you will be incling to talk to basically every hot girl you see, because face it, ITS EITHER TALK TO GIRLS, OR BE BORED FOREVER - instill that within you and your fear of talkin to girls will be gone.



PS - i realized all this when I was sooo bored at a concert the other day, and I realized that my slight fear of talkin to hot girls was overcome by boredom, thus making me much MUCH more willing to just go and talk to girls so I could at least kill my boredom



guys does this make sense or what? it all seems kinda genius to me, its like a second form of gunwitch!

Psh NO do what I did go streaking naked and wave to girls and talk them. BEST WAY EVER! Once you get balls to do these kind of things you'll get the confidence to do anything.

 

[Bourne]

Goddamnit, every time I see this thread on tips I open it just to remember it SUCKS. Let this thread DIE.

It was on top when I replied to this, sooo.....

 

[bbestar]

I think this idea has a point.

Look at it this way, back in the old days. There wasn't any tv, or internet. There was no need for these types of help approaching women, CAUSE that was the only interesting and fun thing to do back then.

You were forced to approach or else be bored out of your mind by default. Hard labor was necessary for survival, and that work ethic is what make a man a Alpha. There were probably more Alphas back then, then now

 

[killbill]

I will try this, thanks man.

 

[MVP]

so for those of you who tried this tip, what were the results?

 

[white cloud 8]

I agree. Boredom just leads to sleep. I've gone to bed as early as 8pm because I had no reason to stay up.
______________________________________________________________________________________

Boredom is the path of least resistance, that's why so many men take it. That's why masturbating, TV, and computers are all so popular; they're easy - cheap thrills and even cheaper filler: killing time waiting to die because we don't want to - or can't - deal with anything harder. The power of the path of least resistance is such that even when you bring the benefits of a harder path or the consequences of an easier path into account, most men still chose the easy way.

With this in mind, the only thing that's going to get you, me, and anyone else off our asses and out living life is desire strong enough to desensitize us to pain. This is why any discussion of masculinity invariably turns to hardship, sacrifice, and pain ... the ability and willingness to endure them in order to get what you want, or better yet, the drive to seek them out and fight through them in order to become stronger, is the only thing that makes it possible to get off the path of least resistance, since you can see that the goal is never enough to lead us down a path we aren't comfortable taking.

bravo..this makes so much sense..people are afraid of experiencing pain, experiencing life...

 

[Boschy]

Is this thread for real? I can't believe I'm even bothering to respond.

 

[piterx]

thank you ..but that way is noy my way ^_^

 

[Boschy]

What the original poster really means is having better time management.

 

[skip2mylou781]

Is this thread for real? I can't believe I'm even bothering to respond.

This thread is for extreme AFCs who are afraid to go out, and this peice of advise is to help them!! obviously if ur pimp then u dont need to make life boring.....think of this as a push in the rite direction for guys who FEAR approaching.......with nothing else to entertain them, theywill want to go out and approach just for the hell of it - this is only for guys who FEAR apprachinggirls, lots of them out there ya kno