This is a true story. Most guys would probably be embarrassed to admit this even on the web. But I'm brave. Here it goes:
Basically, I'm married to a Chinese wife, and we have a happy life together. The main problem is, I'm not exactly a stud in bed. First of all, I'm very fast, ejaculating within 5 minutes of our sex. And once I've ejaculated, I can never do it again for the whole night; I have to wait until the next morning before my penis gets the energy again. I'm also never very good about getting women excited, like in the foreplay and all. Actually, I tend to get so horny that I keep the foreplay very short and then cut to the chase. My wife has never had a real orgasm with me. On top of that, I tend to be sort of self-centered in bed, and I'm, well, not exactly very handsome. I'm a bit more on the hefty side.
Well, one night in our apartment, my wife and I could hear our neighbors getting it on in the apartment next door. The woman was having very loud orgasms, and we could hear their bed frame pounding against the wall. This would go off and on throughout the night. The woman had such loud orgasms, it sounded like it was the best sex she ever had. The sounds of their sex made my wife and I horny. My wife and I started having sex. Because I was so horny, I skipped the foreplay, and like usual, I had a premature ejaculation. After ejaculating into the condom, I withdrew and said, "Sorry honey, I'm already finished." My wife laughed and said, "You're done already? That's the fastest you've ever done it!"
Then, after our sex, I was exhausted and layed down on the bed. Then suddenly, our neighbors were getting it on again, with the woman's loud orgasms echoing through the ventilation vents. In fact, they kept doing this off and on for another couple hours. I was sort of envious of the guy next door, thinking, "How does this guy last so long? And how does he get his honey to have such orgasms? I wish I had his penis." Basically, the sex I had with my wife was only a tiny fraction of the time I had sex with mine, not to mention that mine didn't have anything remotely close to an orgasm. My wife, who didn't have much previous sexual experience before she met me, asked "How can they do it this long? Doesn't the guy's penis get tired?"
I admitted to her that some guys are studs in bed, and some are not. I was very honest with my wife and myself saying that the guy next door is better at sex than me. I couldn't begin to compare with him. My wife then commented, "Hmmm, I wonder what he looks like."
If you saw her picture and my picture, you would probably think, "Why does such a beautiful Chinese girl stay with a guy like that?"
That's pretty much the story. And this story is 100% true. Is there any hope of me getting pass this problem. I would really like to know. Thanks
Basically, I'm married to a Chinese wife, and we have a happy life together. The main problem is, I'm not exactly a stud in bed. First of all, I'm very fast, ejaculating within 5 minutes of our sex. And once I've ejaculated, I can never do it again for the whole night; I have to wait until the next morning before my penis gets the energy again. I'm also never very good about getting women excited, like in the foreplay and all. Actually, I tend to get so horny that I keep the foreplay very short and then cut to the chase. My wife has never had a real orgasm with me. On top of that, I tend to be sort of self-centered in bed, and I'm, well, not exactly very handsome. I'm a bit more on the hefty side.
Well, one night in our apartment, my wife and I could hear our neighbors getting it on in the apartment next door. The woman was having very loud orgasms, and we could hear their bed frame pounding against the wall. This would go off and on throughout the night. The woman had such loud orgasms, it sounded like it was the best sex she ever had. The sounds of their sex made my wife and I horny. My wife and I started having sex. Because I was so horny, I skipped the foreplay, and like usual, I had a premature ejaculation. After ejaculating into the condom, I withdrew and said, "Sorry honey, I'm already finished." My wife laughed and said, "You're done already? That's the fastest you've ever done it!"
Then, after our sex, I was exhausted and layed down on the bed. Then suddenly, our neighbors were getting it on again, with the woman's loud orgasms echoing through the ventilation vents. In fact, they kept doing this off and on for another couple hours. I was sort of envious of the guy next door, thinking, "How does this guy last so long? And how does he get his honey to have such orgasms? I wish I had his penis." Basically, the sex I had with my wife was only a tiny fraction of the time I had sex with mine, not to mention that mine didn't have anything remotely close to an orgasm. My wife, who didn't have much previous sexual experience before she met me, asked "How can they do it this long? Doesn't the guy's penis get tired?"
I admitted to her that some guys are studs in bed, and some are not. I was very honest with my wife and myself saying that the guy next door is better at sex than me. I couldn't begin to compare with him. My wife then commented, "Hmmm, I wonder what he looks like."
If you saw her picture and my picture, you would probably think, "Why does such a beautiful Chinese girl stay with a guy like that?"
That's pretty much the story. And this story is 100% true. Is there any hope of me getting pass this problem. I would really like to know. Thanks