Actually I ****ed 18 women from that site. It's actually pretty good and I ****ed more from there than any other place on the Internet besides maybe Yahoo Messenger (probably about tied give or take a couple).
Yahoo Messenger used to be really good before the chat room were full of spammers, you can still find people on there but it's too much effort nowdays. POF is still good. I met a few off there this year.
A lot of women on POF are looking to get laid, not really looking for softies, although some of the single moms might try to use one if they think he's dumb enough. It's been years since I used match, so take this for what it is worth, but back in the day it seemed those women were much more relationship oriented. There were also some problems with match paying women to go out with members, and I actually suspect this could have been the case with one I met. I could be confusing paid shills with relationship oriented. I also only met a couple of women from match so might have been bad luck. I tried one other one recommendation by David M and it was crap, forgot the name, but simply was not enough members.
I dont want to see the video but from what has been said he sounds like a softie. I think he'd be better off on match or just meeting people through his social circle. The fat, fun guy or the deaf, fun guy and so on is a stereotype that certain women will go for. It's not great as the total numbers will always be low, but I've seen such guys get some pretty nice girls that way, at least kind of, except sometimes the women kept ****ing other people lol