Went out with a 9 recently after I hit it off with her at a party. We hit it off and she was pretty down to earth.....first actual Date went ok. Ask her out five days later
“You free this weekend? Wanted to grab food somewhere low key and grab drinks. Turn the hot tub on..you feel me”
Her “that last part is forward”
Me “well I feel like you feel safe with me. And I feel like it would be better to conversate than a bar. I’m a big scary dude I get it your dad would probably have a heart attack if he saw a guy my size with you so I’ll leave it up to you .If I don’t see you this weekend I’m going to Laguna beach with my friends”. (She lives at home and her dad is super involved in her life...knows everything)
Her “Or your just trying to have a conversation with me while I’m in a bathing suit”
(At this point I’m legitimatley getting turned off and ignore her because I feel like I’m talking to a high school chick. A girl turning 26 should know how to play the game. Yes honey we both know I am trying to **** you but after I act like I genuinely want to just talk with you your supposed to play along with it and act dumb”
She gets impatient me ignoring her and hits
Me with
“But, I’m doing a juice cleanse all weekend preparing for my birthday. Have fun with your friends”
Me “a juice cleanse? You can still come over”
Her “I don’t eat for four days and I want to look good on my birthday””
Me “I think you look good now. FYI I’m more interested in seeing if you can actually throw a football with me than how much you weigh lol. I’m more interested in a chicks personality. Your boxing classes on Tuesdays...talk about that stuff I like it. Basicly a princess who can get down and dirty”
I realized I may of dissed her with that last text but all she legitimate does is talk about her weight and it’s annoying as **** because her body is perfect. I mean.... What chick goes on a 4day fast for her 26th birthday? I mean your wedding I get it but your birthday!?
I still want to bang her...but I feel like shes so hot that legitimately doesn’t know how to seduce a man because she probably never had to...probably bad in bed....
Also don’t want to rule out....Do you think I have a possible Virgin here? Her response of “or your just trying to have a conversation with me in a bathing suit” was off....I’ve been around the block and that’s nothing a sexually experienced 26 year old not interested in a man says. Sounds like a 19 year old that likes a guy but is making excuses trying to avoid a situation where possible penetration may occur.
Another clue she told me a while ago when talking about sex and stuff
“I’m on birth control. But not because I have sex, but because I’m paranoid”. And when I told her about some of my past she goes “I don’t have **** buddies or anything. I don’t move from one relationship to the next easily and I don’t like to rush things”
She also said she’s “indifferent when it comes to relationships and that her friends are always worried about what to text guys and she legitimately doesn’t care or won’t go out of her way to text a guy”
I’m thinking either a full blown narcissist or a Virgin. One or the other
“You free this weekend? Wanted to grab food somewhere low key and grab drinks. Turn the hot tub on..you feel me”
Her “that last part is forward”
Me “well I feel like you feel safe with me. And I feel like it would be better to conversate than a bar. I’m a big scary dude I get it your dad would probably have a heart attack if he saw a guy my size with you so I’ll leave it up to you .If I don’t see you this weekend I’m going to Laguna beach with my friends”. (She lives at home and her dad is super involved in her life...knows everything)
Her “Or your just trying to have a conversation with me while I’m in a bathing suit”
(At this point I’m legitimatley getting turned off and ignore her because I feel like I’m talking to a high school chick. A girl turning 26 should know how to play the game. Yes honey we both know I am trying to **** you but after I act like I genuinely want to just talk with you your supposed to play along with it and act dumb”
She gets impatient me ignoring her and hits
Me with
“But, I’m doing a juice cleanse all weekend preparing for my birthday. Have fun with your friends”
Me “a juice cleanse? You can still come over”
Her “I don’t eat for four days and I want to look good on my birthday””
Me “I think you look good now. FYI I’m more interested in seeing if you can actually throw a football with me than how much you weigh lol. I’m more interested in a chicks personality. Your boxing classes on Tuesdays...talk about that stuff I like it. Basicly a princess who can get down and dirty”
I realized I may of dissed her with that last text but all she legitimate does is talk about her weight and it’s annoying as **** because her body is perfect. I mean.... What chick goes on a 4day fast for her 26th birthday? I mean your wedding I get it but your birthday!?
I still want to bang her...but I feel like shes so hot that legitimately doesn’t know how to seduce a man because she probably never had to...probably bad in bed....
Also don’t want to rule out....Do you think I have a possible Virgin here? Her response of “or your just trying to have a conversation with me in a bathing suit” was off....I’ve been around the block and that’s nothing a sexually experienced 26 year old not interested in a man says. Sounds like a 19 year old that likes a guy but is making excuses trying to avoid a situation where possible penetration may occur.
Another clue she told me a while ago when talking about sex and stuff
“I’m on birth control. But not because I have sex, but because I’m paranoid”. And when I told her about some of my past she goes “I don’t have **** buddies or anything. I don’t move from one relationship to the next easily and I don’t like to rush things”
She also said she’s “indifferent when it comes to relationships and that her friends are always worried about what to text guys and she legitimately doesn’t care or won’t go out of her way to text a guy”
I’m thinking either a full blown narcissist or a Virgin. One or the other
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