This 9/10 chick sucks so far

[devilkingx2]

“You free this weekend? Wanted to grab food somewhere low key and grab drinks. Turn the hot tub on..you feel me”

Her “that last part is forward”

Me “well I feel like you feel safe with me. And I feel like it would be better to conversate than a bar. I’m a big scary dude I get it your dad would probably have a heart attack if he saw a guy my size with you so I’ll leave it up to you .If I don’t see you this weekend I’m going to Laguna beach with my friends”. (She lives at home and her dad is super involved in her life...knows everything)

Her “Or your just trying to have a conversation with me while I’m in a bathing suit”

Do girls who want to fvck have a problem with a guy who's trying to fvck them?

She gets impatient me ignoring her and hits
Me with
“But, I’m doing a juice cleanse all weekend preparing for my birthday. Have fun with your friends”

Me “a juice cleanse? You can still come over”

Her “I don’t eat for four days and I want to look good on my birthday””

Do girls who want to fvck usually make excuses about why they can't fvck?

“I’m on birth control. But not because I have sex, but because I’m paranoid”. And when I told her about some of my past she goes “I don’t have **** buddies or anything. I don’t move from one relationship to the next easily and I don’t like to rush things”

That's the kind of things slvts tell to guys they don't want to fvck

If she wanted to fvck you, she'd be talking about how she's not opposed to anal on the first date

She also said she’s “indifferent when it comes to relationships and that her friends are always worried about what to text guys and she legitimately doesn’t care or won’t go out of her way to text a guy”

She sounds frigid

 

[captain55]

Do girls who want to fvck have a problem with a guy who's trying to fvck them?



Do girls who want to fvck usually make excuses about why they can't fvck?



That's the kind of things slvts tell to guys they don't want to fvck

Either your an idiot or you misunderstood my posts. She said this to me prior to the first date, not after.....prior to the date she was blowing up my phone with a million texts, calling me in the back of an uber on her way home on a friday night from the club at 12 asking me to talk on the phone, sending me sexy videos of her. Drunk texting me how excited she was to go out with me. Sending me videos of her in her underwear. I told her to wear her hair up for me, and she immediately sends me a video of her with her underwear and bra on with her hair up. She then asked me if I wanted her to wear her hair up on the date for me. I said yes and she did the next day.

If she wanted to fvck you, she'd be talking about how she's not opposed to anal on the first date


She sounds frigid

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

“Jealous” lol. And because you’re 225 and 7% bf you have to walk around narcissistically? Obviously it isn’t helping your frame at all

He’s definitely not 7% haha

 

[mrgoodstuff]

OK here’s my opinion on the subject because I’ve been every size....190 pounds 200 pounds...220 pounds....230..... in my experience you will be most successful with women 190 to 210 pounds this is the look most women find attractive when lean... now occasionally some women will be into very large guys the bigger the better in most cases these women are often exceptionally attractive because exceptionally attractive women have a tendency to go for hyper masculine traits. Would I be more successful with women overall if I lost 20 pounds? Most likely yes. But I have gotten some 9’s to go out with me because they liked the freak look...so it’s tough to say.

And yes money should be your first priority. Both is ideal

Captain. You 6-6'2"? 190-210 is a perfect player weight on that height.

 

[Solomon]

Curious OP

1. How do you meet women 2. How fast do you smash 3 Are these women around for long or short term 4. Do women flake less for you

 

[sazc]

Its a daily occurrence that someone here comments "she rides the c0ck carousel, what a slvt"

This chick has explained that she doesn't ride the c0ck carousel.

Now, because she isn't into getting stranger d1ck stuck inside of her, she's a b1tch that won't get with the program.

Oy vey

 

[sazc]

This is what I’m gonna do. I’m gonna leave her alone for a few weeks...then ask her to something casual like a movie or hiking

I really think this one is "over" for you. Your best bet is to move on and see if she reaches out. I also think you should learn to agree and amplify. Some of those suggested responses probably would have led to a better outcome

 

[devilkingx2]

Its a daily occurrence that someone here comments "she rides the c0ck carousel, what a slvt"

This chick has explained that she doesn't ride the c0ck carousel.

Now, because she isn't into getting stranger d1ck stuck inside of her, she's a b1tch that won't get with the program.

Oy vey

the c0ck carousel is bad because it involves other guys, we want to get laid but we don't want other guys banging our girl, the paradox is that you're not the protagonist of real life, it's extremely unlikely that whatever reason she fvcks you won't apply to anyone else, or that whatever reason she doesn't bang anyone else won't also apply to you

it's exactly like how girls want guys to commit but the kind of guys they like are the least likely to commit and have the least reason to commit

 

[D.Savage]

Actually, she has game bro lol, she knows what your trying to do so shes giving you a hard time about it by not playing your game, which is getting you frustrated, everything she told you was just her way of making you think you have no chance in hell in ****ing her, the hot girls will always give you a hard time unless she sees you as cooler than she is, all that **** about "i dont do this, i dont do that ect is her way of making you doubt yourself, she was testing your confidence,

Its the equivalent of a girl acting aloof towards a guy who approaches just to test his confidence,

At this point i think its over for you, Leave her alone, no contact, focus on other ****, if shes interested she will come to you.. no big deal, the fact you were able to even get this far with a 9 means you can do it again, forget about this girl and go get another 9

 

[Murk]

Agree with Savage, you kind of failed on the needy messages post "juice cleanse". Just keep it moving and focus on others.

Also - don't be so overt next time, the whole Jacuzzi bar was lame af.

 

[captain55]

Well guys I sent her a text saying “I’m taking out when I get back from Florida. We have unfinished business”. She laughed and agreed to it. I know this is crazy but I’ve had more success with women saying whatever the hell comes to mind than trying to say the “right thing”.

 

[captain55]

Curious OP

1. How do you meet women 2. How fast do you smash 3 Are these women around for long or short term 4. Do women flake less for you

At the gym, at the club, or when I’m out. I don’t do online dating at all, I like the thrill of cold approaching it’s fun to me.

As for how quickly I smash usually I escalate very quickly and the chick does stick around in most cases unless I do some really degrading **** with her then she’s so ashamed of what she did she disappears for a few months but always comes back.

If your gonna go out with women that hot you just need to accept the fact that your not going to have a 100% success rate. It took my years however to work up to this...I don’t believe a random guy that has had one hot gf his whole life can suddenly start playing the field. I think for a man to develop true confidence with 9’s, it takes going out with at least five or six 9’s....at least that is how it was for me. Even after I banged my first two 9’s I still had no game with them

 

[captain55]

Captain. You 6-6'2"? 190-210 is a perfect player weight on that height.

Yeah I agree with that. Plus your face is more attractive when leaner. I got more attention at 210ish than I do now but my cold Approach game is better now

 

[Soflobro#3]

What has happened to this forum

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Yeah I agree with that. Plus your face is more attractive when leaner. I got more attention at 210ish than I do now but my cold Approach game is better now

I make it simple. Sprinters, d backs, nba point guards are about that lean and male strippers. Women are attracted to that .