mrksmpsn124
Don Juan
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- Dec 29, 2012
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I think I took this whole Don Juan thing a little far. This girl and I had a thing for about 9 months. About a month ago she told me she was bored with us which scared me. After doing some googling about how to keep her from getting bored I eventually found this website and started applying the advice I was reading on here.
However, I think I took the whole being a Don Juan thing a little far. I don't know if I misunderstood it or what, but I tried doing things like not always being available for her, or when she cancelled on hanging out I would tell her I was busy till later in the week. At first I thought it was working when she would complain about how I was acting differently and that it frustrated her. I think the problem may have been that a lot of this advice is when you're still trying to get the girl, not when she's already told you she loves you.
I say this because today she told me she was exhausted and stressed from us always arguing and that she's not happy with us anymore and so she asked if we could take a break from things until she figured out what she wanted. I tried my best to refrain from trying to convince her otherwise as I read on here that it doesn't work. So instead I told her I couldn't talk to her anymore if we were taking any sort of break.
I'm worried that me trying to act like a Don Juan is what ended this. She cited my acting differently in the last month as a big reason as to why she's been unhappy. Is there anything I can do? What should I do?
However, I think I took the whole being a Don Juan thing a little far. I don't know if I misunderstood it or what, but I tried doing things like not always being available for her, or when she cancelled on hanging out I would tell her I was busy till later in the week. At first I thought it was working when she would complain about how I was acting differently and that it frustrated her. I think the problem may have been that a lot of this advice is when you're still trying to get the girl, not when she's already told you she loves you.
I say this because today she told me she was exhausted and stressed from us always arguing and that she's not happy with us anymore and so she asked if we could take a break from things until she figured out what she wanted. I tried my best to refrain from trying to convince her otherwise as I read on here that it doesn't work. So instead I told her I couldn't talk to her anymore if we were taking any sort of break.
I'm worried that me trying to act like a Don Juan is what ended this. She cited my acting differently in the last month as a big reason as to why she's been unhappy. Is there anything I can do? What should I do?