mrksmpsn124 said:
This girl and I had a thing for about 9 months. About a month ago she told me she was bored with us which scared me.
I would reply "Come help me out at work."
However, I think I took the whole being a Don Juan thing a little far. I don't know if I misunderstood it or what, but I tried doing things like not always being available for her, or when she cancelled on hanging out I would tell her I was busy till later in the week. At first I thought it was working when she would complain about how I was acting differently and that it frustrated her. I think the problem may have been that a lot of this advice is when you're still trying to get the girl, not when she's already told you she loves you.
Exactly. That's where guys get confused, when they have girl they think they have to act all distant and unavailable to turn her on even more, and it doesn't work.
I say this because today she told me she was exhausted and stressed from us always arguing and that she's not happy with us anymore and so she asked if we could take a break from things until she figured out what she wanted.
Said it before, as soon as girl suggests taking a break, say "OK, let me know who will replace you and who I should have sex with while we are on a break."
I'm worried that me trying to act like a Don Juan is what ended this. She cited my acting differently in the last month as a big reason as to why she's been unhappy. Is there anything I can do? What should I do?
Yeah some people take this DonJuan too far. There is not much you can do bro, as long as she doesn't put you down or insult you, go with the break. Otherwise you'll be a brother begging for some action, which isn't sexy.