There's two types of "guys freinds"..The "Replacement BF" and the "Mangina".

[Tha Realnezz]

You can be a Male "freind" but really you're just a replacement boyfreind.You're backup,you're a bootycall and a boytoy or....

..her *****.

Every other guy you see her with is her "chopo"(pronounced Show-Poes) her male manservant.

If you are dismissed the second the other guy comes around,the guys she always seem to be talking about along with her boyfreind..then you are the "chopo".

If you are quickly and quietley and respectfully introduced to the BF as a co-worker,classmate,thirdparty freind with a wink of her eye visible only to you..but never around her when she is with him.You're the "soon to be boyfreind".

See if you are a male and you're in the companionship of women,you'll be smashing that pretty soon or you'll never,ever,ever,smash it.No in betweens most of the time.

"Replacement boyfreinds"...are literally....replacement boyfreinds.When he's out of town you'll be getting his phone calls.When he's late for a movie,you'll be watching half a movie with her head on your shoulder.When she's feeling "bored" ..you're gonna be the one sucking that ****..When he fawks up you're gonna be the one getting the angry sex.You're the one her girlfreinds actually like(and wanna fawk ..bad).Eventually you will replace her boyfriend.


Now "Chopos"...are ......he b!tches.Literally...you're the one that gets the greif from something the boyfreind did..You're the one that gets to hear all the cool things she sees in her "Replacement boyfreind".You're the one that calls the "Replacement BF" when the real BF is late for the movie and has to get up when he comes in and sits in the back by yourself.You get the emotional menstruations,the actual menstrual moodswings,you're the "chopo" of her freinds also!

More importantly..if something goes wrong with her and men in her life in general...you're the one that gets yelled at.


Which one are you?

 

[oakraiderz2]

So if im friends with a girl im EITHER her servant or a replacement bf???? Think about how illogical that sounds. This is dumb.

 

[Serialized3]

Yeah dude, that's garbage. If you can't have friends, even *GASP* -FEMALE- friends, just for the sake of having a friend, you're a ****ed up person.

If you're friends with a girl but you arent a needy, chumpy wuss, and you're an attractive, healthy, fun guy, she'll often feel attraction towards you. Often times you can hook up or even get into a relationship, if you want to, with female friends. A lot of times she'll wonder why you don't hit on her like every other guy who's been her friend before and she'll start chasing YOU.

Girls that you already gamed and failed with that tell you "lets just be friends", that's another story. You have almost no chance at all with them. Maybe if you two were the last people on earth...maybe...

 

[Serialized3]

I think the guys on this forum just need to get more platonic female friends. Having more friends kicks ass, plus it increases your social circle, plus it greatly increases your experience and understanding of women, plus sometimes you can get some ass.

MAKE MORE FRIENDS.

 

[oakraiderz2]

I think the guys on this forum just need to get more platonic female friends. Having more friends kicks ass, plus it increases your social circle, plus it greatly increases your experience and understanding of women, plus sometimes you can get some ass.

MAKE MORE FRIENDS.

I couldnt agree more. Female friends will help you out and hook you up with their friends...its what they do.

 

[Jariel]

I think the guys on this forum just need to get more platonic female friends. Having more friends kicks ass, plus it increases your social circle, plus it greatly increases your experience and understanding of women, plus sometimes you can get some ass.

MAKE MORE FRIENDS.

I agree completely! Many of my girlfriends have started out as friends and others I've met via these female friends. Plus it's really great to have a large mixed social group and can help put you at ease around females.

A lot of guys here have problems with women basically because they're not used to being in female company. This is easily overcome with female friends.

However, I agree with the original poster in the case of trying to be friends with a girl if it's with ulterior motives - i.e. befriending her in the hope that she will see the great, caring guy you are and fall for you. It rarely works that way. If you want a sexual relationship with a girl, your sexuality must shine and you mustn't hide your true motives.

 

[Vince]

I think the guys on this forum just need to get more platonic female friends. Having more friends kicks ass, plus it increases your social circle, plus it greatly increases your experience and understanding of women, plus sometimes you can get some ass.

MAKE MORE FRIENDS.

I agree 100%...it works!!!

 

[henrydreamx]

I think the guys on this forum just need to get more platonic female friends. Having more friends kicks ass, plus it increases your social circle, plus it greatly increases your experience and understanding of women, plus sometimes you can get some ass.

MAKE MORE FRIENDS.

Well most of us guys are losers,so fear friendship or not very social but you defintely right us losers need to make FRIENDS!

 

[( . )( . )]

What a surprise seeing you spouting touchy feely politically correct new age B.S yet again Jariel....crab.

I could really give a fukk about most of the women I meet, even most of the ones I end up fukking. They are lame, boring, kind of stupid, and usually lacking in any kind of original thought. They are utterly self-important, self centered and basically wait around for the man in their life to give them some kind of purpose outside of school/job/or whatever sport they engage in.

Another thing that annoys me is that a lot of guys fall into the delusion of getting into "platonic relationships" with girls... what a crock of shyt!! Girls really have nothing to contribute to hanging out with the boys other than as a conduit to meeting other, hotter girls..... other than that, females are pretty worthless to men. Most men just don't have the balls to admit it to themselves.

Therefore, gentlemen, simplify your lives thusly. So: regarding Girls: - if you're not fukkin' them - drop 'em... unless she has hot friends. Other than that - they are utterly worthless to you.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=20965

 

[Jariel]

What a surprise seeing you spouting touchy feely politically correct new age B.S yet again Jariel....crab.

I am?

What I wrote there was plain common sense - the best way to understand and feel comfortable with women is to spend time with them. And you disagree I suppose?

You sound more and more clueless every time you post. This is a site where guys learn how to get women, because we like women. Why do you have such a problem with that?

I suspect you're one of those miserable lonely guys who tries to drag everyone down to his level. Try being more positive and you might get laid one day!

 

[oakraiderz2]

What a surprise seeing you spouting touchy feely politically correct new age B.S yet again Jariel....crab.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=20965

About the stuff you quoted; how can you honestly believe that? The point of knowing and hanging out with girls could be for many reasons. As long as you arent being a p*ssy about anything then its cool. You should hang out with girls to widen you social circle, just as you do with guys. Doesnt this site talk about social proof? Being seeing talking to other girls? How are you gonna do that if youre against having girls as friends? Jariel makes perfect sense. I dont see how anything he said was touchy feely. People who dont ever hang out around girls wont magically transform into pimps overnight without every being in the company of women.

 

[DarkChaos]

Is there no way to have a best friend in a woman before trying to enter a relationship with her? Is it only meeting others as strangers that one can do anything?

 

[Juan_Man]

Being friends with a girl that you are attracted to is slow and painful torture. Nuff said.

 

[Cowhead418]

The way I see it, trying to have a "platonic relationship" with a girl you are attracted to would not be worth the trouble because the sex part will always be in the way. The only way having female friends works is if:

1. You do not find her attractive

or

2. You are going out with or banging someone hotter than she is

 

[DarkChaos]

Being friends with a girl that you are attracted to is slow and painful torture. Nuff said.

Yes, I know. The problem is I don't become attracted to someone until after I've been friends with them for a long time. For instance, I've been friends with this one girl for over two years; we're practically best friends, and I'm just realizing I want something more.

 

[Serialized3]

The way I see it, trying to have a "platonic relationship" with a girl you are attracted to would not be worth the trouble because the sex part will always be in the way. The only way having female friends works is if:

1. You do not find her attractive

or

2. You are going out with or banging someone hotter than she is

or

3. You get over the "sex part" and just try to enjoy the company of another human being.

It seems that only people that put sex on a pedestal or aren't getting any are the ones that have hangups about that stuff.

 

[typical]

Yeah dude, that's garbage. If you can't have friends, even *GASP* -FEMALE- friends, just for the sake of having a friend, you're a ****ed up person.

Second that part, not every girl you meet you want to nail, sometimes having a friend to go out with is cool, you must have issues with girls, I have chick m8s who I just hang oiut with thats all I didnt get placed into the LJBF slot just went in with no intentions of nailing them, they might want it but they wont get it. Girls that try to LJBF me are cut out.

 

[( . )( . )]

I dont see how anything he said was touchy feely. People who dont ever hang out around girls wont magically transform into pimps overnight without every being in the company of women.

Apples and oranges.

Being comfortable and approachable around chicks has nothing to do with jariels pleasure in shopping for shoes etc and shaming others who find it boring.

I'll let you in on a secret. Want to really expand your social circle and fvck chicks? Befriend men who already do.

And its touchy feely new age sh!t simply because men have been boning a variety of women for thousands of years without the social pressure to "hangout" with them believe it or not.

What? ..The last 30 years give or take fags and AFCs started this new trend wasnt it? Fags first then a sea of AFC's thinking that must be how you get tail.

Btw read Diesel's post.

 

[Jariel]

Apples and oranges.

Being comfortable and approachable around chicks has nothing to do with jariels pleasure in shopping for shoes etc and shaming others who find it boring.

What are you talking about?! Who said anything about shopping for shoes? It looks like you are just disagreeing for the hell of it.

 

[( . )( . )]

What are you talking about?! Who said anything about shopping for shoes?

Braiding each others hair? whatever.