I had a date last night with a hot Iranian girl that I met on Facebook Dating. I met her on there weeks ago but when we had talked about meeting up, it ended up not happening because of a celebration for one of her roommates that got a job offer. I had just chalked it up as low interest. But, she ended up texting me and when I didn't respond, she messaged me on Facebook Dating. She was chasing so I decided to respond and set up a date.
We met at the bar I normally use for dates. She showed up looking way better then her pictures. I would say shes a HB8.5-HB9. She had a sexy accent when she talked. Conversation went good and I made sure to make plenty of eye contact. We walked around the outdoor mall for a little bit afterwards. I wasn't able to pull her back home, but that didn't surprise me. She doesn't seem very easy. She said that we should hangout next weekend and suggested we go bowling. I walked her to her car and we kissed before she got in. Around 30 mins after she left, she sent me a text telling me she had a good time and thanked me for the date. I'm pretty sure there will be another date, especially since she sent that text. I've never dated a girl from Iran before, so this is new territory for me.
After the date, it wasn't very late so I went and met the boys at the club. It was really lit because of Halloween. I did some approaches and winged my guys. Some of the girls I talked to had boyfriends that ended up being at the club. Later in the night, we were on the patio sitting at this table and there was a cell phone that someone must have lost that was on the table. It rang and my friend answered it. It was a friend of the girl who lost the phone. We held onto to it and they came and picked it up. They ended up being these two cute white girls. The one who lost the phone seemed to be really into me. She was talking a lot and really receptive. When they were going to leave, her friend told her to get my number. So, I exchanged numbers with the girl. I don't like taking numbers at clubs anymore, but this seemed like a solid one to take.
The whole time I was at the club, my on and off/ex gf was blowing up my phone with calls and texts. She is the one who said not to contact her again or she would put a restraining order on me. She contacted me 2 days after saying that and I have been stupidly seeing her here and there since then. I told her that I had a lot of homework this weekend and wouldn't be able to see her (which is somewhat true). I wouldn't answer and she drove to my place. I finally text her back and she was really angry because I went out when I said I had too much homework this weekend. She sat outside my place and refused to leave. I ended up leaving the club around 1am and went home. She was there and argued with me and was crying, saying she would never have lied to me, and would never had did this to me. I feel kind of bad about it. But, I didn't tell her to drive to my place and wait there. She ended up finally leaving. Things are probably done for good this time (I've said this before). But, now she no longer trusts me.
I'm really confused. I want to date/bang other girls and I've cheated on her some many times (she doesn't know). I have a hard time letting this girl go. She is really hard to deal with, not understanding, and gets mad easily. But, she is loyal, faithful, and would do anything for me. This is really hard.
