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The wall just got softer again...(55 y.o Lucy Liu)

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looks great for her age and if you told me she was 30 i'd probably believe you, but personally i'm not attracted to her at all.
But then I wasn't especially attracted to her in her prime either, tbh! Personal preference
I don't know why guys (not saying you) seem to get offended when you don't rate the same girls as them. (saw some funny arguments in the 'post your 10' thread haha)

But yeah, i'm sure a TONNE of guys wouldn't turn that down despite her age
 
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What's the source of this picture?

She looks way younger here than what I'm seeing online, not to mention the fact that she looks SIGNIFICANTLY more busty here than I've ever seen.
I got this from another forum.


This one is from Google images (10).jpeg
 

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First, the wall has always been a cope. There is always a market for physically attractive women well into their 50s. The same can be said of men. It goes both ways. But the whole "women hitting the wall by 40 and are no longer desired" thing has always been something said in the manosphere to make men who weren't getting any feel better about themselves.

However, that brings up the second point regarding Lucy Liu or any other celebrity (man or woman). They are generally not going to be good litmus tests for how the natural aging process works. They have access to much more money than the average person and can pay for procedures to be done to combat aging. For instance, take Lucy Liu for example. She clearly is aging very well (probably a good diet and good exercise regime), but a boob job and professional makeup never hurt either -- and that is what you are seeing in that first photo.
 

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First, the wall has always been a cope. There is always a market for physically attractive women well into their 50s. The same can be said of men. It goes both ways. But the whole "women hitting the wall by 40 and are no longer desired" thing has always been something said in the manosphere to make men who weren't getting any feel better about themselves.

However, that brings up the second point regarding Lucy Liu or any other celebrity (man or woman). They are generally not going to be good litmus tests for how the natural aging process works. They have access to much more money than the average person and can pay for procedures to be done to combat aging. For instance, take Lucy Liu for example. She clearly is aging very well (probably a good diet and good exercise regime), but a boob job and professional makeup never hurt either -- and that is what you are seeing in that first photo.
All of those things are also available for "the normal peasant ". Make up is something a 55 y.o women been doing her entire life. The gym is 20 bucks per month. A boobjob is a vacation to the other side of the world.

To clarify: I see more and more older looking women and people in general who are attractive at an older age.

Imo it might be time that we have realistic conversations about the modern wall. The latter not just because of how " far" we can take it when putting a maximum age on partners, but also because I can GUARANTEE that common problems men face will continue much longer than they did let's say 20/30 years ago .
 

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Here's a recent pic of her from a movie premier.

lucy-liu-wears-gold-to-red-one-new-york-premiere-13.jpg
 

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There is no wall!
Politely disagree. A lot (not all) of the hottest girls In my social circle before high school (who wouldnt give me the time of day back In those days) have absolutely hit the wall.

The roles have been reversed In that they have become sexually invisible to me While Im having success with younger/hotter/better girls than them.
But somehow men saying there Is a wall Is a cope or something. Yeah right

Saying a woman has hit the wall Is just a way of expressing you used to find her attractive but thats no longer the case (usually because she turned into a land whale or something). But thats not a cope, It just something that happens.
 
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Politely disagree. A lot (not all) of the hottest girls In my social circle before high school (who wouldnt give me the time of day back In those days) have absolutely hit the wall.

The roles have been reversed In that they have become sexually invisible to me While Im having success with younger/hotter/better girls than them.
But somehow men saying there Is a wall Is a cope or something. Yeah right
I think any human that puts in the work can avoid the wall barring non crappy genetics. There's always men and women that look like busted pilsbury can biscuits after high school.
 

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Asians tend to age well, but to be honest, I've never found Lucy Lui attractive. Not that I think she's unattractive either, I just have never been drawn to her.

There was a study on here awhile back that said that men of all races find Asian women the most attractive. I can't disagree with that.
 

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Asians tend to age well, but to be honest, I've never found Lucy Lui attractive. Not that I think she's unattractive either, I just have never been drawn to her.

There was a study on here awhile back that said that men of all races find Asian women the most attractive. I can't disagree with that.
I've always though the opposite.

Leaving that aside, somehow I've never found Lucy Lui attractive either.
 

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There is no wall!
I think there is a wall for women - it's called the menopause.

Now, that happens at different ages for different women and its effects are more or less severe for different women. But, ultimately that's when women cease to be fertile - and that's central to to their value and appeal, whether we like it or not.

A man's sexual appeal also fades over time but the decline is normally more gradual. For many women, it's like night and say when they go through 'the change' and, whilst HRT can fend off the worst ravages of the menopause, it can't restore a woman's fertility.

Now cue somebody posting photos of Liz Hurley or J Lo in their 50s looking hot. Yes, but first, for these women, looking good is a full-time job. Second, these photos are airbrushed. Third, they're still not as desirable as they were 20 years ago. When they were young and fertile.
 
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