After I had sex with this chick, I dropped her off...Told her to call me tonight. She didn't. So I didn't call her. The next day I called her once in the afternoon, no answer. Didn't call her again. She hasn't called me back. I am having a urge to call her again but I'm forcing myself not too. Is she playing mind games or what? I'm thinking of not calling but then who's to know if she'll call me again. Should I just keep fighting it and not call her or do I just wait another day or two to call again? The only problem is that eventually I'll want to meet up with her and have sex again so I really want to keep in touch.
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I'm assuming that you have no desire to pursue a relationship with this woman?
Mind games aside if she was into you she would have called.
As far as FWB, give her a call in a few days. If she doesn't call back its pretty obvious you got dumped. Move on. You don't need that ****.
Mind games aside if she was into you she would have called.
As far as FWB, give her a call in a few days. If she doesn't call back its pretty obvious you got dumped. Move on. You don't need that ****.
Whenever possible, AVOID telling a woman to call you. They usually won't do it
If you already tried calling her once, then she knows you're not just being an assh0le who won't call. Wait at least a week before trying again. And look for more chicks in the meantime.
And yeah, chances are she's blown you off. She's a hor; what do you expect? You can't have any serious dealings with a prostitute.
If you already tried calling her once, then she knows you're not just being an assh0le who won't call. Wait at least a week before trying again. And look for more chicks in the meantime.
And yeah, chances are she's blown you off. She's a hor; what do you expect? You can't have any serious dealings with a prostitute.
Yeah, next time tell her that you'll call her, keep the ball in your court. Otherwise you'll be like you are; waiting for her call, which gives her the upper hand.
I'd go on with life for the next target, maybe call in a week.
Let us know how it goes!
I'd go on with life for the next target, maybe call in a week.
Let us know how it goes!
At least I learned something today... The reason I told her to call me is so that I don't look bad when I end up not calling her. But you guys are right. Just like how I'm the one who asks for her number (not give my number) I will be in control when I say "I'll call you tomorrow" or something.
But since she's a wh0re....If we don't talk for like a week or two, and I end up calling I still think she'd be down to kick it and inevitably fvcking again.
i always thought if you call you are weaker cause you are catering to her...so it makes you seem like you always are calling.
But since she's a wh0re....If we don't talk for like a week or two, and I end up calling I still think she'd be down to kick it and inevitably fvcking again.
i always thought if you call you are weaker cause you are catering to her...so it makes you seem like you always are calling.
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GRR I just told a girl to CALL ME last week....Fvck why didnt you make this thread earlier!!!!!! I'll call her tomorrow and set something up if she makes up something to get out of it again then fvck the b1tch but at least I know now. Thanks for the tip.
DJing 101 - NEVER expect the girl to be the aggressor.
By telling HER to call YOU, she has to become the aggressor. Chicks don't dig that and what you'll find is that they never will call. Experienced PUA's have a thing that sets them aside from AFC's - PATIENCE. By jumping the gun, you have set yourself up for disappointment. Here's my advice: DON'T DO THAT!! Grow a pair and learn to wait it out. Right now you're in bad shape by telling her this and furthermore, when she gave you the message that she wasn't into you by not calling you back - YOU WENT AHEAD AND CALLED HER. That was begging, a no nonsense tactic toward ending things between the two of you. Dude, it's game over - find another one.
By telling HER to call YOU, she has to become the aggressor. Chicks don't dig that and what you'll find is that they never will call. Experienced PUA's have a thing that sets them aside from AFC's - PATIENCE. By jumping the gun, you have set yourself up for disappointment. Here's my advice: DON'T DO THAT!! Grow a pair and learn to wait it out. Right now you're in bad shape by telling her this and furthermore, when she gave you the message that she wasn't into you by not calling you back - YOU WENT AHEAD AND CALLED HER. That was begging, a no nonsense tactic toward ending things between the two of you. Dude, it's game over - find another one.
Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.
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