THE TRUTH: Female Friends

[The Piano Master]

Some of you guys don't really understand how it works.

Any decent womanizer knows that the "ugly/fat/not-as-hot" girl always has at least 5 or 6 friends that are not only bang-able, but sometimes just gorgeous.

It's your job as a male to give this girl, the "connector" as I call her, not only a lot of attention, in front of her friends, but to also become her "good-friend". If you do that it is perfectly acceptable to bang one of each of her friends every six months.

The trick is to find a "connector" within several different cliques of women, and to basically rotate seasonly between them, all the while having a totally platonic relationship with the connector.

Banging every girl you know is just stupid. It's a good way to piss off a lot of people, women included, hurt your work (the connector typically knows a lot of people, because she has a great personality), and it could get you beat up.

 

[Maxtro]

How would you do that if you've never met her friends and when you hang out it's only the two of you?

 

[bigneil]

The problem is, once a woman "calls" a man - i.e., fatty tells hottie she likes you, then hottie knows that she will have to Nuke her relationship forever with fatty to ever date you.

 

[comic_relief]

Almost all relationships that I have had been introduced to me by female friends. Four out of five relationships is pretty good for just knowing a small group of friends. The newest one, I met a while ago but stopped talking to her years ago. now I am catching up :rockon:

- comic_relief

 

[Maxtro]

Is there some trick to get female friends to introduce you to their friends?

 

[I'm in the Mood]

Some of you guys don't really understand how it works.

Any decent womanizer knows that the "ugly/fat/not-as-hot" girl always has at least 5 or 6 friends that are not only bang-able, but sometimes just gorgeous.

It's your job as a male to give this girl, the "connector" as I call her, not only a lot of attention, in front of her friends, but to also become her "good-friend". If you do that it is perfectly acceptable to bang one of each of her friends every six months.

The trick is to find a "connector" within several different cliques of women, and to basically rotate seasonly between them, all the while having a totally platonic relationship with the connector.

Banging every girl you know is just stupid. It's a good way to piss off a lot of people, women included, hurt your work (the connector typically knows a lot of people, because she has a great personality), and it could get you beat up.

The best way to meet people is to be interested in meeting people. Why have we been brainwashed to care so much about looks anyway...

 

[The Piano Master]

The best way to meet people is to be interested in meeting people. Why have we been brainwashed to care so much about looks anyway...

uhh...if you say so, bro. :nono: :nono: :nono:

 

[Tortendieb]

Is there some trick to get female friends to introduce you to their friends?

Yeah, just ask them to. Actually if you're in the friendzone they'll try to hook you up with their friends... Either way if they're real friends they'll help you because that's what friends do.

I was at this party with my mate and his GF, and there was also this girl I fancied but she was kinda trying to play me and I didn't really get anywhere. So my friend's GF suddenly starts flirting with me (while the other is watching). I'm like what is this? Later she disappears together with the other girl and suddenly comes back and the girl(my target) is ALL OVER me. I didn't understand what happened - but I was drunk and the night had a happy ending

So yeah, REAL female friends will help you by
a) introducing you to friends
b) increasing your status by making other girls jealous

 

[Maxtro]

Ah, so the key is real friends.

That's probably why it never happened. Though I never did ask them to introduce me to anybody.

BTW, that was a cool story (no sarcasm)

 

[The Piano Master]

Yeah, just ask them to. Actually if you're in the friendzone they'll try to hook you up with their friends... Either way if they're real friends they'll help you because that's what friends do.

I was at this party with my mate and his GF, and there was also this girl I fancied but she was kinda trying to play me and I didn't really get anywhere. So my friend's GF suddenly starts flirting with me (while the other is watching). I'm like what is this? Later she disappears together with the other girl and suddenly comes back and the girl(my target) is ALL OVER me. I didn't understand what happened - but I was drunk and the night had a happy ending

So yeah, REAL female friends will help you by
a) introducing you to friends
b) increasing your status by making other girls jealous

Not bad. :rockon: :yes: :rock: :woo:

 

[DMSR76]

Some of you guys don't really understand how it works.

Any decent womanizer knows that the "ugly/fat/not-as-hot" girl always has at least 5 or 6 friends that are not only bang-able, but sometimes just gorgeous.

It's your job as a male to give this girl, the "connector" as I call her, not only a lot of attention, in front of her friends, but to also become her "good-friend". If you do that it is perfectly acceptable to bang one of each of her friends every six months.

The trick is to find a "connector" within several different cliques of women, and to basically rotate seasonly between them, all the while having a totally platonic relationship with the connector.

Banging every girl you know is just stupid. It's a good way to piss off a lot of people, women included, hurt your work (the connector typically knows a lot of people, because she has a great personality), and it could get you beat up.

Excellent post. Concise, and very true. Social-proof hookups are easiest way to collect plates.

 

[DJDamage]

Yeah, just ask them to. Actually if you're in the friendzone they'll try to hook you up with their friends... Either way if they're real friends they'll help you because that's what friends do.

Never put yourself in a situation where a girl is going to LJBF's you.

Most of the female friends/acquaintances I have (and by female friends I mean girls I hang out with in groups that includes mutual guy friends, almost never 1 on 1) came as a result of them wanting to be with me but I never made a move on them because they didn't meet my high standards.

Therefore in a way I LJBF's them and kept those girls at arms length and telling them to give me a shout sometimes if they are doing anything interesting with a group of people (never ask them to hook you up straight up, they will often introduce you to their less attractive friends with personality instead of the hot slutty friend whom you really want to meet ) thus still keeping my suave persona and not becoming an orbitor.

In my early years I was an orbitor and the women friends (whom I wanted) always kept me 1-1 without introducing me to their hot friends, now in order for the women friends to see me (I don't want them, but they still want me) they must introduce me to their social circle in which I have the oppertuinty to go after their hot female friends.

 

[trrush]

alot of people on this board claim to know the truth. It's becoming rather stupid, so much thinking and very little doing.

 

[Maxtro]

Therefore in a way I LJBF's them and kept those girls at arms length and telling them to give me a shout sometimes if they are doing anything interesting with a group of people (never ask them to hook you up straight up, they will often introduce you to their less attractive friends with personality instead of the hot slutty friend whom you really want to meet ) thus still keeping my suave persona and not becoming an orbitor.

Oh, that's pretty interesting. So you LJBF them, and they come to you when they have stuff they want to invite you to. Or if they want to introduce you to somebody.

In my early years I was an orbitor and the women friends (whom I wanted) always kept me 1-1 without introducing me to their hot friends, now in order for the women friends to see me (I don't want them, but they still want me) they must introduce me to their social circle in which I have the oppertuinty to go after their hot female friends.

That's the problem I kept going though.

Man, there is so much I need to learn about social circle game. But I can't find a reliable source of info.

 

[SandHawk]

Maxtro: The key is not real friends, but just direction the relationship you have with this girl into one where you hang out with her friends. Like, tell her to go clubbing and then inform her to bring some of her friends.

Or, have a movie night. Get some movies with said chick friend, and then tell her "Hey, let's get some friends over. Get some of your girlfriends in here, I'll bring some of my friends and we can have a fun night!"

It's not that difficult, you just have to actively guide the friendship that way. You're a man, therefore you should learn to lead.

 

[backbreaker]

it does't work like that

if you have a female friend that you liked, and she won't date you, then she isn't going to just go out of her way to introduce you to her friends, because min her mind, you aren't a catch. if it's not good enough for her it's not good enough for her hot friends either. Not only that, more than likely she has talked mad **** about you to her friends too, she's not just going to up and say "okay yeah such and such wants to met you" and even if she did by chance, the seed of this guy isn't a catch has already been planted.

then, on the other hand, if she likes YOU and you don't like her, she's not going to introduce you to her friends.. are you going to introduce her to your friends if you want to **** lol? hell ****ing no. and even if you did, the know what the deal is, and you don't come before the friends do.

this is why female friends are ****ing stupid to have if you are hoping to "hook u" with her friends. It never happens. and if it does, by chance, it's never worth it because f the fallout.

 

[Maxtro]

OK, so basically if you want anything from her, it's not going to work.

In the past, when I made a female friend, I did so because I wanted her. Her friends were never the goal. But of course I wouldn't mind being introduced to them.

Even though I've since abandoned the friends first route, its good to finally see why I never met their friends either.

That's one less mystery for me.

 

[Tortendieb]

Yeah when I said "real" friends I meant rather a girl with whom you are on the same level. For example a friend's girlfriend, or friend who is already engaged but you think is cool to hang out with. So I don't think you can be honest friends if there's some drama going on. That being said I've never going actively fishing for female friends...

Technically, if you literally get the "LJBF" then you approached the whole thing wrong from the start. But read some very old threads on that, it's been said 1000 times.

 

[bilboteabaggins]

this thread hits home hard, I call BS on this to the OP, let me explain

had a warpig after me for months, treatly her very well because the OP's idea is always what I thought as well...eventually told her off, told her she wasn't my type, told her she was too old, told her everything, doesn't matter she still wants to have my kids, but at the same time hates me now, says she has decided I am gay, tells everyone I am blah blah LMAO

anyways, low and behold 6 weeks ago I met a good friend of hers, a cutie pie that I was instantly attracted too, she liked me as well, can tell by the looks she gives me, the kino (dusting magic specs off me), blah blah...have talked to her alot, texted alot(she sends dirty ones)...she won't touch it though because of her friends obsession with me and that is fvcking driving me crazy even more because I do like her

never again will I befriend a warpig that is obsessed with me, from now on I tell them to get fvcked before it even starts

 

[Mike32ct]

Cosign. BB totally nailed it.

it does't work like that

if you have a female friend that you liked, and she won't date you, then she isn't going to just go out of her way to introduce you to her friends, because min her mind, you aren't a catch. if it's not good enough for her it's not good enough for her hot friends either. Not only that, more than likely she has talked mad **** about you to her friends too, she's not just going to up and say "okay yeah such and such wants to met you" and even if she did by chance, the seed of this guy isn't a catch has already been planted.

then, on the other hand, if she likes YOU and you don't like her, she's not going to introduce you to her friends.. are you going to introduce her to your friends if you want to **** lol? hell ****ing no. and even if you did, the know what the deal is, and you don't come before the friends do.

this is why female friends are ****ing stupid to have if you are hoping to "hook u" with her friends. It never happens. and if it does, by chance, it's never worth it because f the fallout.