If you have been on this site for more than a year, I am sure you’ve experienced this:
So here I am, thinking to myself,” I am working out, I am dressing nice, I have no trouble talking to women or sleeping with them… I am a great catch! Time passes by and now I have this feeling where I don’t NEED women. This is great, I am exactly what I wanted to be, finally I am a free spirit.
Sure, you have had many approaches, you’ve learnt how to deal with different situations and possibly even laid some girls, but now, you feel like it is all just too much trouble, and you would much rather pass the girls that you wouldn’t rate as “gorgeous”. I mean, you are such a great DJ, you always aim high, so why should you settle? So there you are, improving yourself every day, but then one day you realize you haven’t had sex in a year.” Holly ****, a year?! Has it been this long?” you exclaim.
“Don’t worry”, you say to yourself, “I have turned down at least 3 girls who wanted me this last month… If I didn’t have high standards and slept with all the girls that wanted me, I’d be a man***** by now!”
This is something very many people on this board subscribe to. Sure, they have improved themselves tremendously, but their sex life is almost the same as when they were clueless AFC’s.
If you find yourself saying things like, “Well why should I be sleeping with all these girls I find unattractive? I would rather do it with my hand then lower my standards! I am perfectly fine without sex if it isn’t with a hot girl!” …You think so, huh? So let me ask you, how often do you masturbate? Every day? Every other day? The truth is, you ALWAYS want sex, it is inevitable. It is our nature. Now, some of us just go and fvck everything that moves. Others believe that they are worth more, so they carefully pick and choose the girls. The problem is, when you are too caught up improving yourself, you forget that you must be approaching a lot of women to get anywhere. Too many people here believe that “Since I am so great, I can wait”. Think about it, when you are laying in bed at night, do you ever wish that there would be some pu$$y to stick your **** into right next to you? No attachment, just sex. I bet you have even considered a no strings attached sex with a girl you didn’t find all that attractive… just to fvck something, anything!
This is the trap of self improvement I am talking about. Too many guys get to dedicated that they write off their lack of sex as something that they should be doing… they justify it as waiting for the right person, while making their right hand working overtime.
Since last September, I have passed up at least 10 girls who were into me. Makes you wonder…
So here I am, thinking to myself,” I am working out, I am dressing nice, I have no trouble talking to women or sleeping with them… I am a great catch! Time passes by and now I have this feeling where I don’t NEED women. This is great, I am exactly what I wanted to be, finally I am a free spirit.
Sure, you have had many approaches, you’ve learnt how to deal with different situations and possibly even laid some girls, but now, you feel like it is all just too much trouble, and you would much rather pass the girls that you wouldn’t rate as “gorgeous”. I mean, you are such a great DJ, you always aim high, so why should you settle? So there you are, improving yourself every day, but then one day you realize you haven’t had sex in a year.” Holly ****, a year?! Has it been this long?” you exclaim.
“Don’t worry”, you say to yourself, “I have turned down at least 3 girls who wanted me this last month… If I didn’t have high standards and slept with all the girls that wanted me, I’d be a man***** by now!”
This is something very many people on this board subscribe to. Sure, they have improved themselves tremendously, but their sex life is almost the same as when they were clueless AFC’s.
If you find yourself saying things like, “Well why should I be sleeping with all these girls I find unattractive? I would rather do it with my hand then lower my standards! I am perfectly fine without sex if it isn’t with a hot girl!” …You think so, huh? So let me ask you, how often do you masturbate? Every day? Every other day? The truth is, you ALWAYS want sex, it is inevitable. It is our nature. Now, some of us just go and fvck everything that moves. Others believe that they are worth more, so they carefully pick and choose the girls. The problem is, when you are too caught up improving yourself, you forget that you must be approaching a lot of women to get anywhere. Too many people here believe that “Since I am so great, I can wait”. Think about it, when you are laying in bed at night, do you ever wish that there would be some pu$$y to stick your **** into right next to you? No attachment, just sex. I bet you have even considered a no strings attached sex with a girl you didn’t find all that attractive… just to fvck something, anything!
This is the trap of self improvement I am talking about. Too many guys get to dedicated that they write off their lack of sex as something that they should be doing… they justify it as waiting for the right person, while making their right hand working overtime.
Since last September, I have passed up at least 10 girls who were into me. Makes you wonder…
