I think most men understand what kind of attitude/personality attracts women. SHt, most of us learned this early on through watching movies or seeing the world around us..
The part I don't get is, while hundreds of thousands of men are emulating that, what is so hard for some of you to emulate that throughout your life--when all the successful dudes with women have done exactly that.
Being "cool" and what "cool' is culturally is mostly objective.. Women like cool, tough, masculine, ripped, sociable/popular, stand out guys. I feel like alot of dudes, SS'ers included are missing just knowing what to act and be like.
When you know every girl wants a triangle, why be a square?
Perhaps alot of dudes just haven't had the environments/cultures/circumstances that represent any of that or help build that.. and in that case, why fight who you are? I've seen dudes change and develop a personality in their 30s.. You can too, but if you still don't know where to start, why not just accept wher you are and enjoy some good ol porn/escorts and stop caring so much about women?
I guess this kinda stuff is why dudes need a rolemodel or a life coach.
Growing up for us it was so simple.. we hung with the cool kids, we emulated all the cool people we saw in movies, we acted how the rappers did and the cool/tough/confident attitudes they had.. I mean some of the most square kids started getting laid just by hanging with "cooler" people, smoking weed, selling drugs.. Ofc, teenage years are different than when you get older..
Alot of men are probably just depressed/beat up by life. or lacking testosterone.
I think some of us growing up just had more testosterone than the "not so ideal" kids. That just made us go for things we wanted more, resonate more with more alpha male rolemodel and alpha male cultures and lifestyles.. I mean sht, what did you guys grow up listening to? 40 yr old women singers? We grew up listening to hiphop that told us how to play b.itches, stack money and how not to take sht from anyone...
Pretty much this...
I would argue that "
Generation X" was the last generation that had strong men as fathers after that it goes down the drain and "
Millennial Generation", "
Generation Z" and "
Generation Alpha" is just getting weaker and complain, whine the more you go through to the next generation.
"
Generation X" was also the last generation that was thought to think for themselves, all the generations after that have to more or less extent been programmed through the introduction of the internet/smartphones to think like hive minded people and follow the leaders approved thinking by the main stream media, government, social media, entertainment (
film, TV etc.), and to believe in that free speech is bad, more authoritarian rule, surveillance, censorship is a good thing and that feelings are more important than logic and science.
They embrace leftism, communism and think the world owes them everything by default as natural right of birth and also embrace weak values like celebrating gay culture and trannies, (
Remember that sodomy is a sin for a reason in the bible. Although I'm not religious the old thinkers of the old age, did add it there for a reason), they support men should be allowed in women sports and that men should be allowed in women's rest rooms, that men can have babies, and feed breast milk, that men have periods, they cannot define "
what is a women" and much much more crazy stuff.
The list is endless of bat shyte crazy stuff and much of it is ruled and defined by a emotional level, (
Emotional level i
nstead over logic, nature and science), thus they also need "
safe zones" to protect their feelings from being offended as they consider that as "
aggressive violence" so by definition we are creating "hate speech" laws to protect everyone feelings.
This is of course a power grab by governments and abuse which will limit our hard thought freedoms and liberties, (
It only took us about a thousand years to get our liberty starting with Magna Carta in early 1100-1200 anno domini
, but only about 15-20 years to give it a way for free. People should be ashamed of themselves for selling our freedom that easily btw. in m opinion), but is widely accepted especially by the younger generations. It is so embarrassing, pitiful and shameful to all our veterans that fought for our freedom during ww1 and ww2. Bu weak men create weaker men which will accept the limitation of liberty for the trade of false safety
.
No wonder the western generations have troubles with women and are weak p$ssies. It all speaks for itself.
If your old grandpa who lived through two world wars and survived was still alive, he would punch for you in your face for your weakness and battiness and put you on the right path.
It does not have to be said much why these generations of men after "
Generation X" are struggling with women as they never learnt by a strong father how to act, be and behave with a woman. Women are essentially looking for a strong leader; to guide them which is hard encoded into their DNA. As such they fail because women can sense that these guys are weak and not up the standards required.
