Your advice rules.STR8UP said:This is a very, very interesting subject for me. I've been cheated on in various degrees for as long as I have been dealing with women. I always wondered how women could be so "cold and heartless".
When I started studying the subject I finally realized that I was the oddball for always being faithful. Hell, the closest I have ever been to cheating on anyone was making out with another chick and feeling up her t!tties out of revenge AFTER my current g/f had cheated on ME! What a dipsh!t I was for even keeping that ho around. (first g/f....didn't know any better)
The only thing a man can do is come to terms with the fact that it can (and most likely will) happen to him at some point in his life, probably more than once even if he doesn't realize it. Once you know that it's likely to happen you can take steps to minimize the chances, but you still have to realize that no matter who you are or what you do there are always going to be factors that are out of you control.
In my (small) experience this makes perfect sense.STR8UP said:I've seen studies that show how testicle size on animals correlates to the level of monogamy that a species practices. Humans have medium sized testicles which lead researchers to conclude that humans are "somewhat monogamous" creatures.
This is congruent with what I see happening around me. The monogamy angel is always on one shoulder and the unfaithfulness devil on the other.
For now I am just being completely and unapologetically unattached. It works wellSTR8UP said:This begs he question- Once you realize "the real deal" do you go for the preemptive strike, or remain a good little boy?
It almost seems as if you are damned if you do and damned if you don't.
That is for sure. Some would say that revenge is not the best answer but I am a real prick sometimes so I do not care.STR8UP said:It always SUCKS to have a chick bail on you with either you knowing or there being some kind of doubt in your mind about her level of (un)faithfulness. At least if you cheated on her first you would walk away with a little more of your pride intact.
Two.STR8UP said:Nowadays I wouldn't go out looking to fukk around on a girl, but I'll tell you what, she would have to be one HELL of a woman for me to not even consider an opportunity that passes my way.
As always my wise friend.STR8UP said:Anyone else with me?