Looking for Answers said,
If pook is so successful with women, who has a great social life and is focused on all life goals, why does he have the time to write so many 10,000 word essays and write 245 medium-long posts?
I hardly post. And when I do, it is like 3 AM once I come back (but still too wired to sleep).
As for this post, it was started five months ago. I have a little text file with lots of half-baked posts. When I come in early in the morning, sometimes I'll start one then fall asleep
That is why this post is so long (and so choppy). Eventually, I said, "Hell, might as well post it."
prosement said,
While I agree that testosterone and masculinity are important in attracting women, they cannot do it alone.
THAT IS NOT THE POINT. It is sexuality. You can waste years of your life studying skills, memorizing techniques from seduction forums, but in the end you will be imitating someone else. This is good to WAKE YOU UP what is going on in the sexual dynamics. But the point is to be a sexual being, for the sexual ones get the girls (never any niceness, philosophy, genius, etc.).
AFCs don't understand sexuality (whereas women DO, since women are sexuality). They attempt to push sexuality to nonexistance with their 'niceness'. Heaven forbid the AFC to give the girl reason to think he might have a penis!
But as the scientist said, female mice injected with testosterone not only develop penises but know how to use them. Obviously testosterone holds some instinctual skills. If we inject Nice Guys with testosterone, or remove whatever mental barrier for them to not act as they should be, they wouldn't have such problems.
That is why you see many gorilla-type guys beating their chests to no avail while the suave guys get the girl.
Why? Skills. Certainly the effeminate man with lots of skills will not get the girl, but also, the masculine guy with no skills will not get her either.
You still don't get it. Testosteronized males are highly sexualized individuals. It does not mean they are He-men (though they easily could be).
There has been many comparisons of Don Juans and salesmen. The simularities are true but not for the reason usually stated. We see the salesman and go, "Oh, how I wish I were like him! Look how smooth he is! Look how he talks the customers into things! I must study the skills of a salesman."
But the most successful salesmen are most often the highly sexualized individuals. They emit a magnetism that people find irresistable.
Now here we go into the mind of a woman [Sosuave note: Hide your children.[/b] A woman's mind is always scanning for guys. Look, there is her radar! Now where are the Nice Guys, the AFCs? They are very very difficult to see on this radar. They emit no magnetism, no spark, no sexuality. They are the duds that she must wade through. Oh! There is a jerk! Look, a bright dot appears on the radar. The jerk's sexuality makes him 'brighter' than all the other guys out there. When you can control your sexuality, you can raise and lower this light.
Highly sexualized individuals usually have the greatest people skills (and often seem to be able to be very eloquent to us on Human Nature. The greatest ones rise up as politicians (outward), poets (inward) and so on).
The AFC is a nonsexualized male.
The Jerk is a male who cannot control his sexuality and so is controlled/possessed by it.
But the Don Juan is a male who possesses the rare ability to control his sexuality. He can use it to get women. He can use it to transcend. He can turn it up or lower it.
The power is his.
If pook is so successful with women, who has a great social life and is focused on all life goals, why does he have the time to write so many 10,000 word essays and write 245 medium-long posts?
I hardly post. And when I do, it is like 3 AM once I come back (but still too wired to sleep).
As for this post, it was started five months ago. I have a little text file with lots of half-baked posts. When I come in early in the morning, sometimes I'll start one then fall asleep
prosement said,
While I agree that testosterone and masculinity are important in attracting women, they cannot do it alone.
THAT IS NOT THE POINT. It is sexuality. You can waste years of your life studying skills, memorizing techniques from seduction forums, but in the end you will be imitating someone else. This is good to WAKE YOU UP what is going on in the sexual dynamics. But the point is to be a sexual being, for the sexual ones get the girls (never any niceness, philosophy, genius, etc.).
AFCs don't understand sexuality (whereas women DO, since women are sexuality). They attempt to push sexuality to nonexistance with their 'niceness'. Heaven forbid the AFC to give the girl reason to think he might have a penis!
But as the scientist said, female mice injected with testosterone not only develop penises but know how to use them. Obviously testosterone holds some instinctual skills. If we inject Nice Guys with testosterone, or remove whatever mental barrier for them to not act as they should be, they wouldn't have such problems.
That is why you see many gorilla-type guys beating their chests to no avail while the suave guys get the girl.
Why? Skills. Certainly the effeminate man with lots of skills will not get the girl, but also, the masculine guy with no skills will not get her either.
You still don't get it. Testosteronized males are highly sexualized individuals. It does not mean they are He-men (though they easily could be).
There has been many comparisons of Don Juans and salesmen. The simularities are true but not for the reason usually stated. We see the salesman and go, "Oh, how I wish I were like him! Look how smooth he is! Look how he talks the customers into things! I must study the skills of a salesman."
But the most successful salesmen are most often the highly sexualized individuals. They emit a magnetism that people find irresistable.
Now here we go into the mind of a woman [Sosuave note: Hide your children.[/b] A woman's mind is always scanning for guys. Look, there is her radar! Now where are the Nice Guys, the AFCs? They are very very difficult to see on this radar. They emit no magnetism, no spark, no sexuality. They are the duds that she must wade through. Oh! There is a jerk! Look, a bright dot appears on the radar. The jerk's sexuality makes him 'brighter' than all the other guys out there. When you can control your sexuality, you can raise and lower this light.
Highly sexualized individuals usually have the greatest people skills (and often seem to be able to be very eloquent to us on Human Nature. The greatest ones rise up as politicians (outward), poets (inward) and so on).
The AFC is a nonsexualized male.
The Jerk is a male who cannot control his sexuality and so is controlled/possessed by it.
But the Don Juan is a male who possesses the rare ability to control his sexuality. He can use it to get women. He can use it to transcend. He can turn it up or lower it.
The power is his.
