The Sad Reality of Women

[Mot1veProgress]

But even excluding the programmable stuff, women biologically have tendencies that are the same regardless of their geographical location.

Such as? The Body language/social mechanics is what I dubbed that as .. because I can't think of a better term that includes.

But I just want to hear what you feel some of these biological tendencies women have are? This day and age you have men that like men and women that like women. Biological tendencies are not as prevelant as they were 50 years ago

 

[Sprayarc]

Well that programmable stuff that "society teaches" is different from country to country man.. and it all changes as women grow up and have experiences that make them realize alot of the fabrication /glamourization of certain things.. .

Hypergamy. Which can be looks, status, monetary ect.

 

[Mot1veProgress]

Hypergamy. Which can be looks, status, monetary ect.

I've met girls that break that theory. There's women out there married who are the bread winners, while the guy stays at home.. Again, you're just thinking all women are the same. There's no biological proof of hypergamy.. That's silly nonsense to say that's biological over OBVIOUSLY programmed by society

 

[Sprayarc]

I've met girls that break that theory. There's women out there married who are the bread winners, while the guy stays at home.. Again, you're just thinking all women are the same. There's no biological proof of hypergamy.. That's silly nonsense to say that's biological over OBVIOUSLY programmed by society

The women being the bread winner doesn't mean they have a healthy relationship or sex life or that she's loyal. I disagree with your post.

Research shows women who are the bread winner tend to lose respect and thus attraction to their husband.

A woman who doesn't respect you can't love you.

 

[wifehunter]

A wife of noble character who can find?
She is worth far more than rubies.

 

[fastlife]

The template for enjoying women and having successful relationships with them is really pretty simple:

Love yourself unconditionally. Like, really love yourself. Most of us don't--or didn't. We could only love ourselves through the mirror of women. We could only value ourselves to the extent that they valued us. We poured love into women in the hopes that they'd reflect it back on us (not realizing that it was our love the entire time). That's what gave them the power to hurt us, the ability to cut off our secondhand supply of self love. But you can disconnect that feedback loop; you can redirect that love back to yourself. If you really love yourself then a woman cannot hurt you.

A successful relationship is a woman loving you as you love yourself, investing in you as you invest in yourself, valuing you as you value yourself. When she leaves, nothing changes.

 

[yungballa]

The template for enjoying women and having successful relationships with them is really pretty simple:

Love yourself unconditionally. Like, really love yourself. Most of us don't--or didn't. We could only love ourselves through the mirror of women. We could only value ourselves to the extent that they valued us. We poured love into women in the hopes that they'd reflect it back on us (not realizing that it was our love the entire time). That's what gave them the power to hurt us, the ability to cut off our secondhand supply of self love. But you can disconnect that feedback loop; you can redirect that love back to yourself. If you really love yourself then a woman cannot hurt you.

A successful relationship is a woman loving you as you love yourself, investing in you as you invest in yourself, valuing you as you value yourself. When she leaves, nothing changes.

I don't give a **** about women. Yes, they're attractive and I'd definitely love to fvck them but I don't NEED them. In my life, I come first before anything. I am the most important person in my life; I value myself and I know what I'm am worth--my whole world. As long as I KNOW what I am to myself, I don't care about any external forces or anybody; whether it be family, friends or females. I'll try to spread love to you if you're in my life, but I will never force you to stay in my life. If you wanna go, you can gladly scram. I'ma keep living my life; I would never lose my peace of mind over any external forces.

IF YOU SHOW ME LOVE I SHOW YOU LOVE, IF YOU DON'T WANNA BE IN MY LIFE GOODBYE! Simple as that. As the great Tupac said:

Nothing in this world can faze me. I might be set back, but only temporarily just to spring back. And when I do spring back, it's 10x better than what I was before.

I'm a survivor and I never quit.

 

[yungballa]

People who judge all females the same are pathetic. Go out and see the world. All women are different. 'All women are the same' is a "RSD/PUA" perspective.. and pickup artists are douchebags

The people that are stuck on the idea that all if not most women are gold diggers, have no emotions and will drop any good guy for a better guy, etc etc.. are negative thinkers.. and probably don't have much luck with women to begin with.

There are women who are seriously sluts and only out for the next best thing.. and are golddiggers/emotionless..

BUT THATS THEIR PEROGATIVE! IT's their choice and that's how they want to be. Some of them were heartbroken at an early age and then grew up to be nasty.. SO what?

Guys are the same ****in way.. some of us will **** like 10 *****es and not care about any of their emotions..

I mean there's guys with ****in wives and girlfriends that they proudly cheat on, ON THIS FORUM!

To call someone pathetic based on their perception of things.. my, isn't that something.

I won't be stubborn; I've read this post. I'm an open-minded person. I'm speaking on women based on what I've read and have experienced in my life. In our life times, we as guys will encounter different women, and we will have DIFFERENT perspectives.

I don't believe all women are gold diggers, but I will say I have encountered PLENTY of women who are emotionless and will drop any guy for a better guy at the drop of a hat. Like I said, we all have different perspectives; and this is just me reflecting on what I have experienced and seen with my own eyes. If I'm making a generalization about females, then I'm seeing it A LOT. I've seen this plenty of times. Not just with me, but friends and others. I see it all the time. Most of the women I've seen fit under the category that I just described. I'll hold off on my generalization of females; and I'll see if I find that one diamond in the dirt, that isn't like the rest of the ones I've encountered and seen. I doubt I'll find one, but let's see, shall we?

About being a negative thinker: Alright, I'm a very positive thinker. I don't allow many negative thoughts into my head, but when I think its time to stop feeding myselff bullsh1t, I'ma stop feeding myself bullsh1t and fairy tales. From MY perspective, this is just what I'VE seen with women, so this is just what I expect. It has nothing to do with me being negative or positive; it's just a realization that I've had with women in MY experience. It could be different for you; but here I'm talking about MY perspective. If you think otherwise, I'll respect that, but I don't think I'd like to label myself a negative thinker because of my realizations on what I've experienced. That's like saying a person is a positive thinker, but they are negative thinkers because they know they are human and do not possess superhuman abilities. Should the positive thinker feed himself bullsh1t that he has superhuman powers, or should he accept the fact (that based on what he's seen) humans don't have supernatural powers?

Also to say that you have bad luck with women... what makes you think that? I don't see how you can connect having bad luck with women just by you having a certain experience with them (repeated times), so you have a realization in your own PERSPECTIVE. Now, if you're thinking that, "Oh, I'm badly dressed. I can't get any girls" or "Oh, I'm poor and ugly. She's out of my league" or, "I'm so nervous, how will she react if I talk to her?" then you're probably going to have bad luck with women. But just by you perceiving them a certain way, I don't see how you can say they have bad luck. Like I said if you think otherwise that's your opinion and I won't shove nothing down your throat, I'll respect that. I know plenty guys who think girls ain't sh1t and they hold no regard for them whatsoever but they're still out there just bagging honeys like it's nothing.

And last but not least, I will not deny your statement about men. The topic here is not about men, but I'll discuss it anyway. BOTH genders have work to do. We, as humans have a LOT of improving to do for the rest of our lives. That's just the way it is; we are not perfect. Even though people were molded a certain way because of past experiences, they should LEARN from them and not let the past control them, and instead change themselves instead of going around spreading scorn and hatred and negative vibes because of a past event.

You should realize what's happened and change.

Like I said though..


..that's just the way I see it.

 

[Mot1veProgress]

To call someone pathetic based on their perception of things.. my, isn't that something.

I won't be stubborn; I've read this post. I'm an open-minded person. I'm speaking on women based on what I've read and have experienced in my life. In our life times, we as guys will encounter different women, and we will have DIFFERENT perspectives.

I don't believe all women are gold diggers, but I will say I have encountered PLENTY of women who are emotionless and will drop any guy for a better guy at the drop of a hat. Like I said, we all have different perspectives; and this is just me reflecting on what I have experienced and seen with my own eyes. If I'm making a generalization about females, then I'm seeing it A LOT. I've seen this plenty of times. Not just with me, but friends and others. I see it all the time. Most of the women I've seen fit under the category that I just described. I'll hold off on my generalization of females; and I'll see if I find that one diamond in the dirt, that isn't like the rest of the ones I've encountered and seen. I doubt I'll find one, but let's see, shall we?

About being a negative thinker: Alright, I'm a very positive thinker. I don't allow many negative thoughts into my head, but when I think its time to stop feeding myselff bullsh1t, I'ma stop feeding myself bullsh1t and fairy tales. From MY perspective, this is just what I'VE seen with women, so this is just what I expect. It has nothing to do with me being negative or positive; it's just a realization that I've had with women in MY experience. It could be different for you; but here I'm talking about MY perspective. If you think otherwise, I'll respect that, but I don't think I'd like to label myself a negative thinker because of my realizations on what I've experienced. That's like saying a person is a positive thinker, but they are negative thinkers because they know they are human and do not possess superhuman abilities. Should the positive thinker feed himself bullsh1t that he has superhuman powers, or should he accept the fact (that based on what he's seen) humans don't have supernatural powers?

Also to say that you have bad luck with women... what makes you think that? I don't see how you can connect having bad luck with women just by you having a certain experience with them (repeated times), so you have a realization in your own PERSPECTIVE. Now, if you're thinking that, "Oh, I'm badly dressed. I can't get any girls" or "Oh, I'm poor and ugly. She's out of my league" or, "I'm so nervous, how will she react if I talk to her?" then you're probably going to have bad luck with women. But just by you perceiving them a certain way, I don't see how you can say they have bad luck. Like I said if you think otherwise that's your opinion and I won't shove nothing down your throat, I'll respect that. I know plenty guys who think girls ain't sh1t and they hold no regard for them whatsoever but they're still out there just bagging honeys like it's nothing.

And last but not least, I will not deny your statement about men. The topic here is not about men, but I'll discuss it anyway. BOTH genders have work to do. We, as humans have a LOT of improving to do for the rest of our lives. That's just the way it is; we are not perfect. Even though people were molded a certain way because of past experiences, they should LEARN from them and not let the past control them, and instead change themselves instead of going around spreading scorn and hatred and negative vibes because of a past event.

You should realize what's happened and change.

Like I said though..


..that's just the way I see it.

Not you personally. I think you're cool and like some of your posts. However, it's something you gotta realize if you think the same way also.

It doesn't take a genius to know every girl is different ..It's almost as stupid as saying every guy is the same..

 

[yungballa]

Not you personally. I think you're cool and like some of your posts. However, it's something you gotta realize if you think the same way also.

It doesn't take a genius to know every girl is different ..It's almost as stupid as saying every guy is the same..

I definitely get the main idea if what you're trying to say. I'm aware that there are plenty of different women out there with different PERSONALITY traits.

The only thing is here is that I'm saying is that all women are allll the same biologically wired; basically all women are made the same by nature. Naturally, a women's love for you comes from whether or not you are able to provide for her or not. If you stop providing for said woman, she will most likely leave you. And if she doesn't, she'll probably cheat on somebody who has more money who can provide for her.

Think about it: Let's say there's a man who works at a diner. He has a girlfriend who he wants to marry, but he also plans to work at the diner for
the rest of his life. Do you think he can provide for him and his girlfriend working a diner job? Probably not. The girl will see this.. and because she cannot be
provided for she will withdraw from the relationship, most likely, if she is not using the man for something. It's just in her nature.

That's what my whole thread was about. Men love women for who they are and women love men based on what they can provide and what emotions that they arise in women. If you fail to arise emotions in women or you can't provide for them, you're most likely out the picture.

This always plays into what I was saying when I said they leave men at the drop of a hat. Because women are the ones who need men who to provide for them, they feel that men are disposable. And once a man fails to provide for said women, or he does not arise emotions in her, she will begin to search for another man who can provide for her.

There's plenty of women on this planet with different personalities; some nasty, some decent, but they can't escape the way they're biologically wired to be attracted towards men.

 

[C-quenced]

yungballa you are wise beyond your years. What you uncovered and spoke about in your original post is supreme logic about the true nature of women and yes, hypergamy is not just a concept. It is very real and YES... they are ALL like that. Do not allow the blind, bitter, misinformed, illogical, hateful, baseless rants of others (men and women) throw you back into a perpetual state of fallaciousness and confusion. Continue what you're doing and see reality for what it is.

We may have to accept the possibility that most "men" DO NOT want to face the uncomfortable truths about the nature of women and would rather not awaken from their trance. In that case be prepared to face adverse responses as they attempt to vehemently protect their delusions.

 

[C-quenced]

I mean there's guys with ****in wives and girlfriends that they proudly cheat on, ON THIS FORUM!

I believe I covered this many times on this forum. For the sake of simplicity I'll edit and quote myself

The concepts of "cheating" and monogamy are some of the biggest deceptions ever sold to men. These hoes give the illusion of faithfulness and a secure relationship (which in theory should last forever) but rest assured that one day they will terminate the relationship as if it meant nothing. When this happens and you're swimming through that shipwreck that she left you behind in and some debris from the past floats by reminding you of the missed opportunities you had, at this point the emotional and mental trauma will be greatly amplified. You'll feel robbed of YOUR right to experience because of baseless morals set forth by other members of society (men and women) who don't give a flying fvck if you were to disappear tomorrow yet expect you to live YOUR life by THEIR moral boundaries. And for what? For a relationship (the quintessential essence of an illusion) with some fvcking stray that ultimately meant NOTHING?! Women are all hypergamous so this whole loyalty business is just hogwash.

Also, there's no contract here. If there's no ring on her finger then it's NOT cheating. You don't owe her sh!t.

And that's all there is to it. Men have these concepts of integrity and honor which they hold one another to but erroneously project and expect it from women. Accept the fact that women have no understanding of these male virtues and there's no reason to create these mental hindrances (like the concept of "cheating") to unnecessarily complicate your life and that of other men.

 

[C-quenced]

The template for enjoying women and having successful relationships with them is really pretty simple:

Love yourself unconditionally. Like, really love yourself. Most of us don't--or didn't. We could only love ourselves through the mirror of women. We could only value ourselves to the extent that they valued us. We poured love into women in the hopes that they'd reflect it back on us (not realizing that it was our love the entire time). That's what gave them the power to hurt us, the ability to cut off our secondhand supply of self love. But you can disconnect that feedback loop; you can redirect that love back to yourself. If you really love yourself then a woman cannot hurt you.

A successful relationship is a woman loving you as you love yourself, investing in you as you invest in yourself, valuing you as you value yourself. When she leaves, nothing changes.

A lot of truth is being spoken in this entire thread. No holds barred. Your words should be in my signature as more men need to read this. It'll truly make the world a better place. Thank you.

 

[yungballa]

A lot of truth is being spoken in this entire thread. No holds barred. Your words should be in my signature as more men need to read this. It'll truly make the world a better place. Thank you.

I believe I covered this many times on this forum. For the sake of simplicity I'll edit and quote myself



And that's all there is to it. Men have these concepts of integrity and honor which they hold one another to but erroneously project and expect it from women. Accept the fact that women have no understanding of these male virtues and there's no reason to create these mental hindrances (like the concept of "cheating") to unnecessarily complicate your life and that of other men.

yungballa you are wise beyond your years. What you uncovered and spoke about in your original post is supreme logic about the true nature of women and yes, hypergamy is not just a concept. It is very real and YES... they are ALL like that. Do not allow the blind, bitter, misinformed, illogical, hateful, baseless rants of others (men and women) throw you back into a perpetual state of fallaciousness and confusion. Continue what you're doing and see reality for what it is.

We may have to accept the possibility that most "men" DO NOT want to face the uncomfortable truths about the nature of women and would rather not awaken from their trance. In that case be prepared to face adverse responses as they attempt to vehemently protect their delusions.

Thank you for your words, C-quenced. I created this thread because I wanted more members on SoSuave to realize the sad reality of women. Whether or not they want to believe in this truth is up to them. I'm simply sharing my perspective with them and they can take it or leave it.

Women cannot understand a man's love. The only way a woman can understand love is through her children. Men love women like a woman loves her child; but a woman can only "love" a man through the emotions he arises in her and the things that he can provide for her.

That is not love. So, in my opinion, a woman cannot love. If a woman could love she would love a man for who he is no matter what has happened; exactly the same way she loves her child. But it's just how they are BIOLOGICALLY wired: They cannot love men.

I don't want to bullsh1t anyone on these forums. I just want to speak the TRUTH and let the TRUTH be spread. Whether or not people on these boards decide to pick up this information is up to them. I am in no way shape or form trying to say women are bad, blah blah blah, or that you should hate women. I'm just trying to spread truth about how a women really feels. And she doesn't feel. She doesn't really care about any guy on this planet.

Women have hypergamy; it is a fact and it is true. Loyalty doesn't really matter. I think its worthless trying to secure your position with a girl. Women are most of the time unsatisfied and they always want the next best thing. It's just how they are biologically written. If they cannot get their fix of emotions from a man or the man cannot provide for her, she is going to look for a new man. THAT'S JUST HOW ALL WOMEN ARE! They are just biologically written like that, that is their form of "love".

If a lion is the king of everything and his lioness stands by his side, but another lion comes and usurps said lion, the lioness will go with the NEW lion who has usurped the old lion. She does not stay; she goes to the new lion.

It's just nature, fellas. It's the sad truth and I am warning you all; whether you take this information or not.

I'm trying to make you all more informed on women and ADJUST your life accordingly, but its all up to you whether to take it or not.

Even though all women are wired like this, it doesn't mean there aren't different types of women on this planet. Some women are nasty and are the worst of scum, and some women are actualy likeable, but it doesn't change the fact that women are all biologically the same. In the end it just boils down to female nature.