The Sad Reality of Women

[yungballa]

Hello gents of SoSuave.

Today I'm here to share with you my perspective on women. Keep in mind, I said the words MY PERSPECTIVE. I'm not trying to force anybody to agree with me or shove anything down anyone's throat. I'm just sharing my opinion with you all.

From the forum title you can guess what this is about: women.


Some of you on these forums act like women-haters, some of you are women-lovers, some of you hold no regard for women, some of you pedestalize women, so on and so forth.

We as men have been conditioned by society to believe all the fairy-tale LaLa Land nonsense that they teach us at a young age. Most of us are on here to get rid of this conditioning and brainwashing.

A lot of men in this world think women are angels. They also believe that there is such thing as "The one" which we all know is oneitis. Of course, we all know and believe oneitis is false. All oneitis is, is just you directing too much of your thoughts on one girl and you creating fantasies about her; and in some cases you just have heavy attraction towards the girl, most likely because you aren't spinning enough plates.

The point of this thread is that I think women are absolutely nothing that you should even invest a shred of love towards. In the end, their love towards you is just a facade.

It's been said that men are the romantics and women are the realists. What do I mean? Men and women do not love the same. Men can love women unconditionally. They can TRULY love a female, and the man FEELS he can build a relationship with this woman, no matter how difficult the ride gets along the way.

Women on the other hand do not love you. They are incapable of TRULY loving you. Women are interested in you based on the emotions that you arise in them. Do they truly love you for you? Hell no. They just want the rush that you give them. They are in LOVE with the feelings and emotions that you give them. What's the proof here? Women will stay with you and pretend to "love" you right until you stop providing those emotions for her. Once you stop providing those emotions, she's done with you and it's off to the next guy to make her feel good emotionally; like a damned parasite. It's a cruel game, isn't it?

Even after they've left you they feel no consequences. They have no guilt or anything. You're of no use once you can't provide her with emotions; and you're discarded like trash. She'll maybe come back to you, but that's only to stroke her ego and validate herself.

Another bad point is that women don't even care what emotions you arise in her. They just have to be strong emotions; whether negative or positive. It just has to be strong emotions.

You can be with a woman for plenty of years and she'll leave at the drop of a hat with no second thoughts. It is just how a woman is wired. Unlike a man; a man will want to spend the rest of his life with a woman, and like I said, build with said woman. On the other hand, a woman just leeches off a man like a parasite based on whatever emotions she is fed. Once that woman finds another (better) choice, she will leave at the best opportunity she gets. Instead of trying to build up a relationship and have "true love", she will leave you with no remorse. The moment a woman finds a replacement, you're gone.

Women cannot love like men. Gents, for your own good, I advise you not to ever convince yourself, that ANY woman on this planet is capable of love, and that you two are "deeply in love" or any of the sort. This goes for any woman. Your mother, your grandmother, your sister, anybody. It's just how society works nowadays and how women are wired. The sad reality of women.

My point is, if women's nature is what I've described above, then why go through all that trouble to even keep a female by your side? Why even invest any of your well-being into a woman? Why even consider having feelings for a woman; or falling in love? Most of them are best just to keep around for pleasure. Unless you think you can handle keeping a female around, I don't think you should aim for keeping a relationship for women. They're never satisfied. They always want more, more and more. Remorseful and just want the emotions you PROVIDE, they don't want to build with you or anything of the sort. So, why would you rush into exclusivity with a girl? Let the girl be the one to label your relationship with her.

Now, don't get the idea that I hate women. I don't. It's quite the opposite. Even though I think women's nature is kinda cruel and disgusting in the terms of way they treat men; you can still find their presence enjoyable at times. Besides, they're good for pleasure like I said. You can still enjoy female company. Just don't expect that its going to be happily ever after and that she's oh-so in love with me, and I'm in love with her. Nonsense.

She doesn't love you. She's in love with the emotions that you arise in her.



This is a site with information that I recommend for learning more about the nature
of women.

http://masculineprinciple.blogspot.ca/



...But that's just the way I see it.

 

[Glumix]

Narcissists take no responsability.
They feel no guilt. They feel only shame.

Narcissists never talk about themselves in a bad way. They can't. It's always the other's fault whether it's women or men or their boss.
The only time it's their fault it's when they want to build a good reputation or image.
It's all about mirroring their image in the others.
It's all about mirroring emotions, power, attraction or love in the others.

It's all about what they can obtain from others, whether it's love, sex, wealth or power.

Narcissists don't know empathy or they confuse it with sympathy.
Empathy is altruistic. Sympathy is ego-centered.

Narcissists do not love anybody except themselves.

Narcissists take selfies. Most of their life is lived on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.
They feed their esteem with Likes, Followers and Thumb-ups.
They feed their confidence and worth with "OMG! You are sooooooooooooooooo beautiful!!!1!"
They are a fraud and they know it. They are empty. And they are afraid we discover it.
They have no notion of self-confidence and self-worth.

Narcissism is epidemic.
If you one day have had any interaction with a narcissist, including your parents, siblings or friends you are most probably a narcissist as well by now.

So avoid them at all cost.
And be sure you are not one of them because you are most probably going to attract them.

Small dose of Narcissism is good because it builds oneself.
It becomes bad when you lose track of reality, of your actions and who you really are.
It becomes really bad when you harm others or speak badly about others.
So use it for the Good, not the Evil.

This is my perspective of the sad reality of our generation.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Narcissists take no responsability.
They feel no guilt. They feel only shame.

Narcissists never talk about themselves in a bad way. They can't. It's always the other's fault whether it's women or men or their boss.
The only time it's their fault it's when they want to build a good reputation or image.
It's all about mirroring their image in the others.
It's all about mirroring emotions, power, attraction or love in the others.

It's all about what they can obtain from others, whether it's love, sex, wealth or power.

Narcissists don't know empathy or they confuse it with sympathy.
Empathy is altruistic. Sympathy is ego-centered.

Narcissists do not love anybody except themselves.

Narcissists take selfies. Most of their life is lived on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.
They feed their esteem with Likes, Followers and Thumb-ups.
They feed their confidence and worth with "OMG! You are sooooooooooooooooo beautiful!!!1!"
They are a fraud and they know it. They are empty. And they are afraid we discover it.
They have no notion of self-confidence and self-worth.

Narcissism is epidemic.
If you one day have had any interaction with a narcissist, including your parents, siblings or friends you are most probably a narcissist as well by now.

So avoid them at all cost.
And be sure you are not one of them because you are most probably going to attract them.

Small dose of Narcissism is good because it builds oneself.
It becomes bad when you lose track of reality, of your actions and who you really are.
It becomes really bad when you harm others or speak badly about others.
So use it for the Good, not the Evil.

This is my perspective of the sad reality of our generation.

These LEMMINGS think they are GODS without consequences!

 

[AllDay85]

Hello gents of SoSuave.

Today I'm here to share with you my perspective on women. Keep in mind, I said the words MY PERSPECTIVE. I'm not trying to force anybody to agree with me or shove anything down anyone's throat. I'm just sharing my opinion with you all.

From the forum title you can guess what this is about: women.


Some of you on these forums act like women-haters, some of you are women-lovers, some of you hold no regard for women, some of you pedestalize women, so on and so forth.

We as men have been conditioned by society to believe all the fairy-tale LaLa Land nonsense that they teach us at a young age. Most of us are on here to get rid of this conditioning and brainwashing.

A lot of men in this world think women are angels. They also believe that there is such thing as "The one" which we all know is oneitis. Of course, we all know and believe oneitis is false. All oneitis is, is just you directing too much of your thoughts on one girl and you creating fantasies about her; and in some cases you just have heavy attraction towards the girl, most likely because you aren't spinning enough plates.

The point of this thread is that I think women are absolutely nothing that you should even invest a shred of love towards. In the end, their love towards you is just a facade.

It's been said that men are the romantics and women are the realists. What do I mean? Men and women do not love the same. Men can love women unconditionally. They can TRULY love a female, and the man FEELS he can build a relationship with this woman, no matter how difficult the ride gets along the way.

Women on the other hand do not love you. They are incapable of TRULY loving you. Women are interested in you based on the emotions that you arise in them. Do they truly love you for you? Hell no. They just want the rush that you give them. They are in LOVE with the feelings and emotions that you give them. What's the proof here? Women will stay with you and pretend to "love" you right until you stop providing those emotions for her. Once you stop providing those emotions, she's done with you and it's off to the next guy to make her feel good emotionally; like a damned parasite. It's a cruel game, isn't it?

Even after they've left you they feel no consequences. They have no guilt or anything. You're of no use once you can't provide her with emotions; and you're discarded like trash. She'll maybe come back to you, but that's only to stroke her ego and validate herself.

Another bad point is that women don't even care what emotions you arise in her. They just have to be strong emotions; whether negative or positive. It just has to be strong emotions.

You can be with a woman for plenty of years and she'll leave at the drop of a hat with no second thoughts. It is just how a woman is wired. Unlike a man; a man will want to spend the rest of his life with a woman, and like I said, build with said woman. On the other hand, a woman just leeches off a man like a parasite based on whatever emotions she is fed. Once that woman finds another (better) choice, she will leave at the best opportunity she gets. Instead of trying to build up a relationship and have "true love", she will leave you with no remorse. The moment a woman finds a replacement, you're gone.

Women cannot love like men. Gents, for your own good, I advise you not to ever convince yourself, that ANY woman on this planet is capable of love, and that you two are "deeply in love" or any of the sort. This goes for any woman. Your mother, your grandmother, your sister, anybody. It's just how society works nowadays and how women are wired. The sad reality of women.

My point is, if women's nature is what I've described above, then why go through all that trouble to even keep a female by your side? Why even invest any of your well-being into a woman? Why even consider having feelings for a woman; or falling in love? Most of them are best just to keep around for pleasure. Unless you think you can handle keeping a female around, I don't think you should aim for keeping a relationship for women. They're never satisfied. They always want more, more and more. Remorseful and just want the emotions you PROVIDE, they don't want to build with you or anything of the sort. So, why would you rush into exclusivity with a girl? Let the girl be the one to label your relationship with her.

Now, don't get the idea that I hate women. I don't. It's quite the opposite. Even though I think women's nature is kinda cruel and disgusting in the terms of way they treat men; you can still find their presence enjoyable at times. Besides, they're good for pleasure like I said. You can still enjoy female company. Just don't expect that its going to be happily ever after and that she's oh-so in love with me, and I'm in love with her. Nonsense.

She doesn't love you. She's in love with the emotions that you arise in her.



This is a site with information that I recommend for learning more about the nature
of women.

http://masculineprinciple.blogspot.ca/



...But that's just the way I see it.

Everything you said It's true. And This is the hardest part of the whole game, accepting that women don't truly love you. It hurts, but I'd rather live knowing the truth then blindly keep getting hurt.

 

[yungballa]

Everything you said It's true. And This is the hardest part of the whole game, accepting that women don't truly love you. It hurts, but I'd rather live knowing the truth then blindly keep getting hurt.

I'm glad to see that someone agrees with my viewpoint. I expected people to bash me for this, but I guess not.

And you are right. I would rather be hurt by the truth then living in a fairy tale land of lies only to one day have my heart broken. I mean, truth be told, when you find out women don't love you it might hurt at first, (it didn't hurt me too much, i was just a little surprised) but then you just learn to accept it at the end of the day, and eventually ADAPT with it. My friend, in this day and age we men have little to no influence. Females hold all the power in society and have fvcked everything up.

We've just got to adapt and spread information instead of being hurt and complaining. We are men, so we take action, no?

These LEMMINGS think they are GODS without consequences!

You're referring to females, right? It's sad. Women need to wake up and realize. They are humans just like us. Girls came out of their mom's pvssy just like us, they fart, sh1t, eat, sleep and get sick just like this, they're no fvcking better than us in no way, shape or form. And in the end, they return to bones, dusts and ashes JUST LIKE US. The only differences between man and woman is the way we are wired mentally and our physical bodies. Other than that, man and women do not have too many differences. I don't know what could possibly strike a woman's mind that she is of a status of a goddess, and that she is entitled to some treatment from everybody.

They feel that because they are born with a pvssy and that they get googly eyes from strangers that they don't know on social media that they are to be pedestalized. Please. What a joke. Who would ever worship or pedestalize a weak person who has to get their self-confidence and their fill of ego from SOCIAL MEDIA. By what these women post on social media, you can tell they feed off the attention.

There's nothing worthy of praising of a woman who must feed off the attention of other people on social media just to feel good about herself. She gets her worth and value from the attention she gets on social media. What is there to praise on social media? It's really laughable when women say "men ain't sh1t".

Women overall are just all laughable.

Narcissists take no responsability.
They feel no guilt. They feel only shame.

Narcissists never talk about themselves in a bad way. They can't. It's always the other's fault whether it's women or men or their boss.
The only time it's their fault it's when they want to build a good reputation or image.
It's all about mirroring their image in the others.
It's all about mirroring emotions, power, attraction or love in the others.

It's all about what they can obtain from others, whether it's love, sex, wealth or power.

Narcissists don't know empathy or they confuse it with sympathy.
Empathy is altruistic. Sympathy is ego-centered.

Narcissists do not love anybody except themselves.

Narcissists take selfies. Most of their life is lived on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.
They feed their esteem with Likes, Followers and Thumb-ups.
They feed their confidence and worth with "OMG! You are sooooooooooooooooo beautiful!!!1!"
They are a fraud and they know it. They are empty. And they are afraid we discover it.
They have no notion of self-confidence and self-worth.

Narcissism is epidemic.
If you one day have had any interaction with a narcissist, including your parents, siblings or friends you are most probably a narcissist as well by now.

So avoid them at all cost.
And be sure you are not one of them because you are most probably going to attract them.

Small dose of Narcissism is good because it builds oneself.
It becomes bad when you lose track of reality, of your actions and who you really are.
It becomes really bad when you harm others or speak badly about others.
So use it for the Good, not the Evil.

This is my perspective of the sad reality of our generation.

It's a sad reality of our generation, also. The times we live in are disappointing, but hey, I'm still in high school. This is my generation. Even though it's sad, I can't say I'd really choose to live in any other time periods. This is just the time we live in and we've just got to adapt.

I practice self-love and self improvement. I would rather stay away from the nasty traits of a narcissist, especially a real live narcissict. Being a narcissist is just nasty. I know my self-worth and importance, BUT JUST BECAUSE OF THIS I DON'T LOOK DOWN ON OTHERS. I don't claim to be better than anybody. Nobody is better or worse than anybody; we are ALL just different. We are all our unique selves and we all have our own worth/value. I don't believe in being superior/inferior, it's all just a case of being everyone being different. I'm a kindhearted person and I would rather choose to UPLIFT people then to look down on them just becausr I have some illusion in my head that I'm superior than other people.

 

[Glumix]

I believe the only women in the world to hate are the feminist. Fvck them.

That will for sure make you fvck a TON of women.

 

[Sprayarc]

But could the reason for the difference between, men and women, being romantic or realists, be because women have more options naturally? That romantic love, or the idea of it, is the result of desperation?

 

[parkthebus]

My thoughts on Disney love. Disney love is depicted that way because that's how women want to be loved and they want to be loved that way because a man at his most invested is capable of loving that way. Men make the mistake of believing women think like them because women give that impression knowing it works in their favour and society isnt wise enough too teach them differently. Back in the day, men would **** other women and still go home and love their wives and it worked. Women just ain't the same.

 

[Sprayarc]

My thoughts on Disney love. Disney love is depicted that way because that's how women want to be loved and they want to be loved that way because a man at his most invested is capable of loving that way. Men make the mistake of believing women think like them because women give that impression knowing it works in their favour and society isnt wise enough too teach them differently. Back in the day, men would **** other women and still go home and love their wives and it worked. Women just ain't the same.

I believe men are capable of loving more than one woman at a time. I don't think women are capable of this.

 

[Serenity]

To love a woman is to me to make her feel good, love is emotional. You're talking about it as if it wasn't. I would in that case do like a woman, when she's not making me feel good thus loving me then I'm out. For as long they make me feel good I have no issue returning the favor, that's how it is when people are in love with each other. I don't accept a one way deal and it's pretty understandable women won't either.

I have what I here define as a loving relationship, but I'm not blinded by my own fantasies anymore. I keep my eyes open, but I'm not quick to assume on uncertain evidence.

My view stands in contrast to yours on many points, but both our views are subjective based mostly on our experience. My experience doesn't fall in line with your perspective, but that doesn't make any point of view less valid. It only tells me you've had sh!tty experiences with women. I have also had bad experiences, got my heart broken, lied to and treated like sh!t by women (and men for that matter). However I can't say that's reality and I can't say fantasy land is any more real, it's far more difficult than that to understand the truth. Not every woman have given me bad experiences, broken my heart and lied to me. Some if them have directly proven your point of view wrong, still there's the one's who will validate it by being sh!tty women.

I don't buy this, it's not nuanced enough and it doesn't adequately reflect reality. Most generalizations are exaggerated and deeply flawed, like the way you're putting all those attributes on women in general.

 

[Sprayarc]

To love a woman is to me to make her feel good, love is emotional. You're talking about it as if it wasn't. I would in that case do like a woman, when she's not making me feel good thus loving me then I'm out. For as long they make me feel good I have no issue returning the favor, that's how it is when people are in love with each other. I don't accept a one way deal and it's pretty understandable women won't either.

I have what I here define as a loving relationship, but I'm not blinded by my own fantasies anymore. I keep my eyes open, but I'm not quick to assume on uncertain evidence.

My view stands in contrast to yours on many points, but both our views are subjective based mostly on our experience. My experience doesn't fall in line with your perspective, but that doesn't make any point of view less valid. It only tells me you've had sh!tty experiences with women. I have also had bad experiences, got my heart broken, lied to and treated like sh!t by women (and men for that matter). However I can't say that's reality and I can't say fantasy land is any more real, it's far more difficult than that to understand the truth. Not every woman have given me bad experiences, broken my heart and lied to me. Some if them have directly proven your point of view wrong, still there's the one's who will validate it by being sh!tty women.

I don't buy this, it's not nuanced enough and it doesn't adequately reflect reality. Most generalizations are exaggerated and deeply flawed, like the way you're putting all those attributes on women in general.

Thing is, is that many people will intuitively think that if some one treats them poorly, on some level, that it's their fault and that they should treat the person treating then poorly better.

But many of us here know better but many others who are lost in the sauce don't know better.

Men and women do this and it's done by people who tend to being emotionally driven, like a woman.

I agree with your post to a point.

Especially with our society trying to weaken men by attacking all forms of masculinity, many men are susceptible to this self destructive behavior.

What's sad though is if a man has allowed and tolerated others treating him poorly he gets used to it and when he does start meeting and dating decent women he tends to not trust and or mistreat these women who are relatively reasonable and fair.

Or do they treat him well because he is selfish and treats then poorly?

Guess it's hard to say because it can be hard for a person to objectively analyze their own situation because they are inside it and not outside looking in.

I suppose it's something you just learn from experience.

 

[JohnyTheArrow]

So how to explain this ? The dude is wasted but still has hot wife on his arm

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/a...Andreas-Christopheros-not-bothered-looks.html

 

[Sprayarc]

So how to explain this ? The dude is wasted but still has hot wife on his arm

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/a...Andreas-Christopheros-not-bothered-looks.html

Well I think this sometimes can be a smart way to handle a situation like this because being resentful won't hurt the attacker, it only hurts the person being resentful.

Acceptance is key. Forgive people for your own mental health, not for them.

Just don't forget.

 

[Mot1veProgress]

People who judge all females the same are pathetic. Go out and see the world. All women are different. 'All women are the same' is a "RSD/PUA" perspective.. and pickup artists are douchebags

The people that are stuck on the idea that all if not most women are gold diggers, have no emotions and will drop any good guy for a better guy, etc etc.. are negative thinkers.. and probably don't have much luck with women to begin with.

There are women who are seriously sluts and only out for the next best thing.. and are golddiggers/emotionless..

BUT THATS THEIR PEROGATIVE! IT's their choice and that's how they want to be. Some of them were heartbroken at an early age and then grew up to be nasty.. SO what?

Guys are the same ****in way.. some of us will **** like 10 bitches and not care about any of their emotions..

I mean there's guys with ****in wives and girlfriends that they proudly cheat on, ON THIS FORUM!

 

[Sprayarc]

People who judge all females the same are pathetic. Go out and see the world. All women are different. 'All women are the same' is a "RSD/PUA" perspective.. and pickup artists are douchebags

But in certain ways women are the same. But at the same time they are all individuals with different experiences and environments which form them into the people they've become.

 

[Mot1veProgress]

But in certain ways women are the same. But at the same time they are all individuals with different experiences and environments which form them into the people they've become.

Yeah as I've mentioned in other posts on other threads.. When it comes to body language, social mechanics and other things, alot of them are the same.. But as far as personality, they're all different. It might seem like some of them are the same but that's just the outward personality.. not the inner

and yeah you're spot on about the different experiences/circumstances that molded them

 

[Bible_Belt]

This is the thread where we all get to talk about how we feel about the vagina as a whole...or possibly as a hole.

 

[Sprayarc]

Yeah as I've mentioned in other posts on other threads.. When it comes to body language, social mechanics and other things, alot of them are the same.. But as far as personality, they're all different. It might seem like some of them are the same but that's just the outward personality.. not the inner

and yeah you're spot on about the different experiences/circumstances that molded them

Well I didn't mean in terms of outward personality. There are parts of their inner personality that are the same. Part of its biological part of its what society teaches them is acceptable behavior.

 

[Mot1veProgress]

Well I didn't mean in terms of outward personality. There are parts of their inner personality that are the same. Part of its biological part of its what society teaches them is acceptable behavior.

Well that programmable stuff that "society teaches" is different from country to country man.. and it all changes as women grow up and have experiences that make them realize alot of the fabrication /glamourization of certain things.. .

 

[Sprayarc]

Well that programmable stuff that "society teaches" is different from country to country man.. and it all changes as women grow up and have experiences that make them realize alot of the fabrication /glamourization of certain things.. .

But even excluding the programmable stuff, women biologically have tendencies that are the same regardless of their geographical location.