Agree with whoever blamed the OP (in a rush; sorry). Typically, everything you see and ***** ABOUT is in direct relation to you: your lifestyle, who you associate with, who you're attracted to, and seeking after; etc. It's never all or most people - its the minority YOU are focused on. Even this forum is the minority. It's a specific crowd who is attracted to a specific crowd (typically one in the same; just being delusional, and believing to better - while *****ing about the same things they are).
Go outside, and watch all the plain people going about, and living content lives without drama or douche bags. But, you don't notice them, since if doesn't fit your lifestyle, or mindset, or crowd you belong to. You say your friends are this way, as well, which is where the chain-effect occurs. You and your friends associate with, date, are attracted, and BELONG to the same crowds you are *****ing about. Not everyone tries to be a celebrity - only the fake *****es you like.
Not really insulting you, since I used to be the same way, and had the same mindset. All I was focused on was the fake hot ***** skank *****s, and I'd even complain to the nice average girls about it. No different than a fake ***** who complains about all men being *******s. And yes, I was a fake doucherocket assgobbling ****bag... Was just in denial, and *****ed about the same things I was.
It took a number of hard lessons, and some tough love to figure this out. I remember one time, I was *****ing about... well, *****es... Going off, crazy rant style, like most guys on here do when they're whining about the same women they pine after... After I was done, he said "...and that's what you like". Others would say "you're the exact same way yourself; no wonder you like these fake, snobby, shallow, stuck up, pretty *****es". And so on. It was all true. I was literally *****ing about the same things I was, and doing to others. I didn't want the nice girl, either. I was crazy, dysfunctional, loved drama, etc. I was fake and shallow. I treated people like crap, and acted like a stuck up **** - only to complain when a girl was the same way to me, and chased after another ******* - while still pining after, and complaining about her. I knew these people so well - their entire beings and ways of life and past experiences - not because I was so sympathetic and a good listener - but because I was one of them. We were the same people, and that's why I was so attracted to them. We were all dysfunctional, and could relate. Looking in the mirror and *****ing wouldn't be any different than listening to them ***** about the exact same things.
You can ***** and play the victim and blame others and claim you have no choice until the cows come home. Like, this kind of no-good girl that I SPECIFICALLY SEEK AFTER is attracted to *******s, plays these games, acts like a retard, is fake and shallow, belongs to the popular douche bag crowd... So now, I must become like them to prevent this from happening again. Blah blah. Kiss my ass. You're just like them, which is why you become them, and are so attracted to them. Crazy *******!
Women do the same thing, by the way. Which, although unrelated to the topic at hand, is why you don't sympathize or assume. All she's doing is *****ing about the same things she is, or has become - to attract whatever she's *****ing about. Hence, being so fake and all these things. She's trying to attract *******s, and ends up becoming one (or always was one, and blames the same crowd she associates with for everything).
I think people just don't want to accept the blame or take any responsibility or focus on their flaws, so they just ***** about everyone else instead - even though they're the same kind of person, and just mirroring their issues onto them. As well, claiming some kind of superiority over them. Like, you're not as bad as THIS horrible person. No way is that possible. So, you're all, "I hate this person; she is such a two-faced hypocrite, a user, a player, a *****, a blah blah blah". So are you!
So yea, its your fault. ALL YOUR FAULT.
