good day my sosuave counterparts! i had a crazy night out, just recently woke up, and there are a few clouds still misting my mind. but it is time to respond, so please bear with me! (is it bear, or bare?) anyways...
there are a few reactions that have hit on something i was going to include in the first post, but left out. i would like to thank in advance those posters for opening that so nicely for me.
Originally posted by Devestator
We are taught here that we must suppress such romantic thoughts to negate women's power over us in order to be a challenge and approach them confidently. At least that's how I read it. I can love girls like you describe, but not an HB 7 or 9 or any other such object.
AFC's are capable of love and vulnerablity. That's why girls can walk all over them. That part of me has died in order to get closer to my goals. I miss it sometimes though.
ManOMan
Its bad enough we get pvssy whipped with women based just by their looks, now we have to factor in senusality, skin, laughter, etc etc???
all I read in the original post is PUT WOMEN ON PEDESTALS!!!! TREAT THEM LIKE GODDESSES!!
MetalFortress
Iqqi, either you are very bitter or are trying to make us all have oneitis again. In some ways you have a good point but you take it way too far.
i knew that some of you would immediately relate to what i was saying, and feel the "fear" of unrequited oneitis. i knew that some of you once you began reading and understanding what i was saying, would automatically delegate your defense mechanisms to the front lines.
and not for nothing! because what i am suggesting, is extremely similar to that! when you have oneitis, you are "in love" with one person. and what i am suggesting here is that you fall in love with a woman truly, her features, her characteristics, that which makes her who she is individually.
but here is what is different. this is something to be done with all woman! because simply it is something womanly.
there are two ways to approach that which you do not understand. one is with fear and loathing at what harm it may be able to cause you, and the other is with curiousity and appreciation.
so i can tell from the posters who knew exactly what i was saying, that they are not afraid of women. they are not afraid to fall in love with her smell, her touch, the curve of her chin. the way she pronounces "orange". the little things.
and why are these men so courageous? that is something inside of them, what i think of as essential for a don juan. do not fear women! do not fear falling in love!
"why? why?" you are asking in frustration. and "i am not afraid!" you reply indignantly. "i just don't see why! why should i care about a woman's smell, her touch, the fact that she can't pronounce the letter R?!"
Originally posted by High Voltage
You speak of curves, skin tone, physical attributes. These do not deserve appreciation. They do not dazzle, but things that merely ARE. No more special then a tree. How do these things represent character? They do not. I do agree with you that character is something to appreciate if worthy.
but i could argue that a tree is dazzling! a tree is splendid! many poems have been written about trees and trees alone! High Voltage, what is it that you appreciate? and anyone else who feels the same as him, i would like to know what you feel is worthy of appreciation, if not trees and women.
Originally posted by High Voltage
Pvssy that tastes like an exotic dessert? You've GOT to be kidding me. It has the same function as engine oil... yum, I'll have a bowl!
dear boy! do you even enjoy sex? or does it just serve a purpose? i would never allow such a mehanical being access to the sweet secret lagoon in between my soft silken thighs!
it is about enjoying something fully. and how can you enjoy something if you can not appreciate it? the thing is, if you truly appreciate something, and you lose it, that hurts! and that is a big point here. so some of you will never get past the whys of the matter. why appreciate, if i am going to just get hurt in the end? what's love got to do with it?
but we are only here on this earth for a tiny amount of time, and i say enjoy it to the fullest! what are you afraid of!? in 100 years this earth will no longer know you! pain will forget to hurt you! don't be afraid!
i say love! love the trees, dammit!
Originally posted by DJZ
Furthermore, any woman who's hair smells that good, or who's skin is that color, has most likely achieved this by makeup, tanning, perfumes, and diff kinds of hair products.
actually the things i mentioned can not be bought at a store. natural curves, such as a neck and a collarbone, is what i am talking about. and you have not realized that people have a natural distinct smell? see, you are not noticing things! take time to notice, to appreciate. most peoples skin color is genetic, BTW.
Originally posted by StockTrader
I love the way some girls laugh, I love their soft skin, I love the cute little smirks they can give you. I love the way they smell. I love the way their eyes sparkle when you're out on a date and both of you know you're having a great time and you don't want it to end.
exactly. how to you measure this?
i understand that most people use numbers to generally describe a woman, "in general" being the key words. i'm cool with that! i do that! but my motive behind this was the barrage of posts where many are treating the numbers like some scientific measurement of beauty. the ones who are taking this rating scale too seriously are the ones who are missing out on the elements i am trying to bring back to the light. the bickering over numbers! WTF?
it is like how some here take the DJ bible too seriously, and lose the point.
some are taking this rating sh!t too far, and they are losing the point.
and i propose it is all about fear.
I don't know any woman who's skin is that sensual, or who's hair smells that good. Furthermore, any woman who's hair smells that good, or who's skin is that color, has most likely achieved this by makeup, tanning, perfumes, and diff kinds of hair products. You say beauty can't be bought in a store, yet many of your points pertain to things that are achieved with store bought items.
