PocketAces
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I have read a good amount on this site and find that some of you really have your **** together......others, are well, in trouble.
The bottom line is , WOMEN don't make us whole! A great woman one day can compliment our lives, but for now they are all just auditioning. I have never had a problem getting women. I would say that I am a good looking guy but that I do very well with women because of my personality. I have been told I come off ****y. If a girl tells me that, I just laugh and say well you just dont know me.
At the end of the day guys, it doesn't matter. None of it does. It is all a game. So have fun with it! I am not saying to become and egotistical player. I am just saying that when you are comfortable in your own skin, people will gravitate towards you and not a second sooner. So how do you get comfortable in your own skin?
NOT by getting laid.
I have bedded several beautiful women, and while it is a definite short term confidence boost, it is not lasting.
What IS lasting are my accomplishments (personal and professional).....and the things I have done for others....(like sharing my two cents
Being that I dont have a problem on the looks front I am sure some of you are saying," that is easy for him to say, he isnt fat or ugly" or what ever self loathing thing you may say. Well let me answer this with a question (that I will answer)...
If you had a choice right now, to have Brad Pitt looks and a crappy, dry, boring personality OR average to bad looks and a kickass , confident outgoing personality, which would you choose?
I feel really sorry for the guys that will say they woudl take the looks. IT IS NOT ABOUT HOW YOU LOOK!
sure, appearance can help but it is more about WHO YOU ARE and WHAT you are bringing to the table.....
I can exemplify this best by something I heard on the radio the other day. Maxim magazine, put out its top 10 list of living men who have banged the most women. I believe it was #4 on the list , was the lead singer of the mand Motorhead.....he apparently has bedded over 3,500 women. He is also known to be hideous looking, with warts on his face and everything. Now I know some of you skeptics will say, yeah well he is still a rich rock star....sure that helps I am sure , but you know what he said about it?
"Women want a guy that can make them laugh. They are the ones who put on and take off the make-up everyday. They know how deep handsome really is."
BRILLIANT!
I never listened to motorhead before but this guy is my new hero. That pretty much says it all.
Like yourself, love yourself, be yourself. Anyone can develop confidence. We are all capable of making women swoon.
As Will Smith said in the movie Hitch (which I liked by the way)...."No woman wakes up in the morning and says to herself that she DOES NOT want to be swept off of her feet today."
It's the truth. They are more insecure than us, they are actresses......
when they run into a confident MAN, they know it, and they buckle....who do you want to be?
:box:
The bottom line is , WOMEN don't make us whole! A great woman one day can compliment our lives, but for now they are all just auditioning. I have never had a problem getting women. I would say that I am a good looking guy but that I do very well with women because of my personality. I have been told I come off ****y. If a girl tells me that, I just laugh and say well you just dont know me.
At the end of the day guys, it doesn't matter. None of it does. It is all a game. So have fun with it! I am not saying to become and egotistical player. I am just saying that when you are comfortable in your own skin, people will gravitate towards you and not a second sooner. So how do you get comfortable in your own skin?
NOT by getting laid.
I have bedded several beautiful women, and while it is a definite short term confidence boost, it is not lasting.
What IS lasting are my accomplishments (personal and professional).....and the things I have done for others....(like sharing my two cents
Being that I dont have a problem on the looks front I am sure some of you are saying," that is easy for him to say, he isnt fat or ugly" or what ever self loathing thing you may say. Well let me answer this with a question (that I will answer)...
If you had a choice right now, to have Brad Pitt looks and a crappy, dry, boring personality OR average to bad looks and a kickass , confident outgoing personality, which would you choose?
I feel really sorry for the guys that will say they woudl take the looks. IT IS NOT ABOUT HOW YOU LOOK!
sure, appearance can help but it is more about WHO YOU ARE and WHAT you are bringing to the table.....
I can exemplify this best by something I heard on the radio the other day. Maxim magazine, put out its top 10 list of living men who have banged the most women. I believe it was #4 on the list , was the lead singer of the mand Motorhead.....he apparently has bedded over 3,500 women. He is also known to be hideous looking, with warts on his face and everything. Now I know some of you skeptics will say, yeah well he is still a rich rock star....sure that helps I am sure , but you know what he said about it?
"Women want a guy that can make them laugh. They are the ones who put on and take off the make-up everyday. They know how deep handsome really is."
BRILLIANT!
I never listened to motorhead before but this guy is my new hero. That pretty much says it all.
Like yourself, love yourself, be yourself. Anyone can develop confidence. We are all capable of making women swoon.
As Will Smith said in the movie Hitch (which I liked by the way)...."No woman wakes up in the morning and says to herself that she DOES NOT want to be swept off of her feet today."
It's the truth. They are more insecure than us, they are actresses......
when they run into a confident MAN, they know it, and they buckle....who do you want to be?
:box:
