Rumours
So readers of my journal would know that I'm trying this new sexual tension game. It is really different from what I usually do and it's been a tough learning curve but I am sticking at it. I recommend trying something a little different to what you do because it gives you a new perspective and even if you go back to what you used to do, you still have the skills and can use them in specific situations rather than expecting a one size fits all thing to work. Sometimes you need to go hard and escalate hard but sometimes you need to be more socially intuitive and hold back.
So this weekend I was out putting things into practice again. Slowly I have been getting better, at a real snail pace, it's a little frustrating but I'm dealing with it. Definitely feel like I've stagnated or even gone backwards recently. I'm pleased that my confidence hasn't really taken a hit, so I will just stick with it and keep going.
For like the 4th week running, I've had someone walk up to me and say "oh, you're Mr Wright" and I just don't know who these people are "yeah, excuse my manners, I don't recall." She tells me that she knows my FB and I just smirk, it's going to be a challenge.
I'm dancing with his girl that I've been casually flirting with for a few weeks. Then the who knows my FB goes up to the other and they both start giggling, so I give them a puzzled look. Anyway apparently my FB had told a friend and she told a friend etc that I was really good in bed. Tried really really hard to keep a straight face but couldn't, so I actually just turned my back for a few seconds and
to myself. I asked her if she was curious and she said "yeah a little" but her face said a lot.
I took her off somewhere else and it was actually quite funny watching this girl trying to get me to kiss her. I just stood there and smirked, it was funny. I just kept saying to her that I don't kiss in public.
...and then here's where I f*cked up. I got dragged off by some other girl to talk about some crap I really didn't care about, I think it was related to my course. Mood killer. I get back, of course the girl is gone but a few minutes later, I see her friend(the one who had told her everything) and I told her we should go and dance. Two minutes later shes trying to kiss me as well, she got a peck. I said to her that we should leave there and then and she agreed but I saw the other girl and just walked off. She was so pissed off.
Found them both later, a little awkward. Was talking to the one I actually wanted to get with and she said that her friend had told her that I was sleeping with my FB and that she hates her but they kinda hang out sometimes so she can't have everyone see her leaving with me because it was cause more problems. So she gives me her number and tells me to call her in the week and we'll hook up then and I still haven't text her. Need to do that.
What I learnt
- Girls have no idea how to react when a guy is clearly escalating but won't kiss them.
- Girls also have no idea what to do when they're openly flirting with you and you're just deadpan or smirking.
- Sometimes social pressure can override getting what you want. Sometimes you have to accept it's not going to happen there and then.
- Girls do talk about everything. Personally, I'm private and use here to say things.
- If you're going to try to leave with 2 girls, make sure they aren't friends with each other.
On a side note, I also saw the girl I used to f*ck a few months back, the one who got into a relationship. Her boyfriend is so insecure and hates it when I'm within 10 feet of her, he tries to stare me out then he grabs her and it just makes me laugh. The next time I see him, I might walk over and just give the guy a hug
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Also something interesting happened this week. The other day, I was in the club talking to a female friend and I noticed she was hanging out with this tall brunette, blue eyes, my type. So I told her to introduce me and she did. This girl kinda blew me off straight away but I ignored it and flirted with her anyway. She got kinda responsive but I went elsewhere to see what was up. Later in the night, I saw her and told her to get me some water and she did, we exchanged names and left it there.
Anyway, fast forward to this week, I'm shopping with my main girl(rarely talk about her on here because we do boring girlfriend stuff like shop for groceries) and I catch this girl staring at me from down the aisle. I keep looking at the veg because I like vegetables and they're healthy but the chick is down the milk aisle still staring at me. I realise who it is and it gets me thinking. Continued shopping and that was that.
Come this weekend, I'm by the bar chatting and there she is, she rolls up to me and says hi. Complete turn around from the week before considering all that had happened was that she saw me in a shop. She was receptive touchy etc, I quickly work out that she's somewhat interested, it's obvious from the staring in the shop plus how she walked up to me...drunk. Anyway the rest of the night goes as above but towards the end of the night, I run into her again, her eyes light up. I smile and my first move was to isolate, she comes with me. Here is where I f*cked up, I kissed her way too quickly(shouldn't even have done it at all), I got over excited, she said she had to get back to her friends and I have to admit, I have no idea what happened. I've thought about messaging her on FB or I could wait until I inevitably run into her again...I choose to wait.
Went home and banged the chick with the boyfriend, she also bought me dinner and alcohol that day so she deserved it.