The plight of African Americans in game

[JoeMarron]

That's Naomi, what about the others?

Just type in their names in the search at the top of the page and scroll to the dating history section. The other chicks had predominately black bf's except Hallie Berry. I think she's half white though so she doesn't count. Also it's not very useful to use celebrities. They live completely different lives than the average person so their dating lives are bound to be different.

Though I do understand where BB is coming from even though I'm white.

Oh sh!t...I could've sworn you were black. Lol I would've bet money on it..damn

Disclaimer: As I mentioned earlier in this thread, I'm assuming this must be an American problem since, from personal experience, I have no issues attracting the white womenz.

Yeah I imagine its only American black men who have the thug stereotype. It wasn't too long ago that blacks in America were drinking out of separate water fountains so its only natural that this would affect the modern dating world.

 

[SageSyx]

On this page I see an advertisement of a white guy in a desert-like environment (Presumably, Africa) standing with a couple of black people (Presumably, africans). There are no words on this picture, no captions of any kind. The only thing happening was the white man, dressed in a polo, shades, and a baseball cap, was pointing to something off in the distance outside of the picture. And the black man, wearing a dingy, corny button up, was squinting his unprotected eyes to see it

I registered just to post this. The white people in this thread are idiots.

They cannot read. Or choose not to in their misguided attempt to 'help'.

READ WHAT I AM ABOUT TO POST.

****ING DO IT.

DO I HAVE YOUR ATTENTION? I KNOW YOUR SPAN IS ABOUT 5 MINUTES, JUST FOLLOW THE WORDS ON THE SCREEN.

The thread is not about getting white women.

The thread is not about whining or complaining.

It's about Black men who are not stereotypical gangsters having trouble attracting women SOLELY BASED ON LOOKS.

Read that last part AGAIN.

This is a LOOKS disscussion. We're not talking about ANY OTHER PART OF GAME.

Hell, we even know that LOOKS DON'T MATTER IN THE GAME. Still, it's a Stigma that exists.

I swear to god, the next person that says "Ugh, stop complaining! Be more alpha!" Needs to jump off a cliff because they will NEVER understand if they don't after this post.

I'm spelling it out for you.

We know having great GAME and VALUE will get ANY man laid. WE KNOW THAT.

This is about SKIN COLOR AUTOMATICALLY grouping blacks into ONE steryotype of what is Attractive.

Thugs, gangsters, Criminals, that's the only thing blacks have going for them!

If you're intelligent and black you're AGAINST THE FLOW, so your game needs to be SPOT ON. you're competing with WHITE INTELLIGENT MALES now, womens FIRST choice.

Anything else opposing this is denial of the truth. That whites don't have it easier because they are awarded for bettering themselves, while blacks have a better chance being a criminal. [big][big]Truth is, White men have more value than black men at face value because of the way society portrays their race.
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[Jaylan]

That is completely untrue. Maybe with black american women but that's about it. The white guys who have lots of sex certainly do not fit this type. More surfer, rocker, and businessman type. Or just guys who look decent and initiate.

White thugs get the most rancid of women. My dad and brothers were in a very violent, very thuggish biker gang called the Warlocks in Philly. They got junkies and headcases and usually ended up killing them (not my family but other guys).



With black women absolutely. With all other races no, not at all. For everyone one girl who wants a violent thug you will find dozens who don't. Don't buy into the darker side of the manosphere. It's some seriously fvcked up nerds who play hard on the internet to combat some very serious demons about their own masculinity or lack thereof.

This ad infinitum. The manosphere gets a lot of dating realities wrong.

 

[Jaylan]

backbreaker you have it ALL WRONG about the black middle class. There is certainly PLENTY of us. I grew up in a neighborhood that had a sizeable black middle class. No offense homie, but sometimes you speak mistruths about the black community and it makes me wonder if your mixed upbringing is the cause.

PS - I know a few middle class brothers who did get married in their late 20s to some decent women.

Ok I wasn't going to bother responding to the latest batch of posts but this last one got to me......


While black men in general have the stigma of being thugs......there are plenty of black non-thugs who get laid.

Bouncers, Bartenders, Athletes, etc,...

This is no different than the white man's problem with women. You honestly think smart white men have it easy with women? I am a smart white man and when I didn't have game, I was worthless to women. You honestly think the average white guy gets laid easily? That whole 20% of the men are getting 80% of the sex cascades through ALL races.


So, in more detail.....On what basis do you think black men have it harder than white men for getting women.....from both a sex and marriage standpoint? Because these are two entirely different goals and the obstacles will be different for each of them.

Hell even the black posters can't agree on what this thread is about or what the problem is.

• One of you says blacks being viewed as thugs is a problem .
• While another says the non-thugs are having the problem.
• Still a third says it's only a problem with white women.

I think it would be a good idea if you can all clarify what you are talking about before you start saying that white men have no clue about it.

I don't see how youre missing some of the points being made. No one is saying that white dudes don't ever have problems with women. Whats being said is their problems are different from a black mans, and that they usually have an easier time dating, especially when it comes to women outside of their race.

Also, a few guys are arguing that black dudes who dont fit the banger stereotype have a hard time dating. I disagree with that point as its been my experience that the brothers who have their sh!t together get more quality women than the thugs. Plus they are in high demand with educated black women and latinas.

 

[Solomon]

here we go (in b4 thread lock)

With black women absolutely. With all other races no, not at all. For everyone one girl who wants a violent thug you will find dozens who don't. Don't buy into the darker side of the manosphere. It's some seriously fvcked up nerds who play hard on the internet to combat some very serious demons about their own masculinity or lack thereof.

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Fairshake

I've said before and I'll say it again, if most readers/posters would meet other men of the manosphere/forums they would be shocked. I know I was when I met a few guys who are/were very well respected in these sectors. Once I met them the anger and hatred all made sense. A lot of men would be better of from focusing on self-improvement instead of posting on forums and blogs. This is why I shut my blog down and this is why I only post on this forum 6 months at a time. So I can focus on stuff that truly matters. Also This is why I always say pay attention to the guys who just post in political threads and KBJ type post 90% of the time these guys never post in journals or comment on FR's there is a reason why.

I take everything I read here with a grain of salt. After 5 years meeting thousands of different women I have enough frame of reference to know if something resonates with my experience or not

I leave for two days and when I return I see that the pedestalization of women on this thread has continued.

Keep it up. Keep crying about not being able to date/f*ck/marry certain women. Very constructive gentlemen.

We all know from looking at history that if you cry hard enough.. things will change. :crackup:

The shaming continues, are you black? cause from this post it really comes of suspect. Not everything is black and white or absolute "Brotha"
Read my post above to Fairshake

Ok I wasn't going to bother responding to the latest batch of posts but this last one got to me......


While black men in general have the stigma of being thugs......there are plenty of black non-thugs who get laid.

Bouncers, Bartenders, Athletes, etc,...

This is no different than the white man's problem with women. You honestly think smart white men have it easy with women? I am a smart white man and when I didn't have game, I was worthless to women. You honestly think the average white guy gets laid easily? That whole 20% of the men are getting 80% of the sex cascades through ALL races.


So, in more detail.....On what basis do you think black men have it harder than white men for getting women.....from both a sex and marriage standpoint? Because these are two entirely different goals and the obstacles will be different for each of them.

Hell even the black posters can't agree on what this thread is about or what the problem is.

• One of you says blacks being viewed as thugs is a problem .
• While another says the non-thugs are having the problem.
• Still a third says it's only a problem with white women.

I think it would be a good idea if you can all clarify what you are talking about before you start saying that white men have no clue about it.

1. The average white guy who I see here(in my town) just has to approach women and he stands out(since so few do). I have a wingman who is 5'6, 140 Pounds soaking wet. But the fact that he approaches gets him laid like a boss If you're average and white in my area all you need is to approach and a bit of game and you're above the rest. Noticed that when I say average you don't need to be a bartender/athlete or any of these things that you mentioned. Just have some charisma and you're good. If you're a Foreveralone faggot type like most commentators on your favorite blog or those guys on PUA hate who keep posting "do looks matter thread and obsess over looks" then yeah you won't get laid :crackup:

2. The 2nd in bold has already been explained countless times in this thread. In the black community you're shamed for being educated or well spoken and even called an Uncle Tom or sell out. A white guy who gets a degree and educated doesn't get shamed for that. He actually is expected to have these things while a black man is looked as Square or even a Simp for wanting to better himself

Think about that for a 2nd

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u55yymycccw
^^This espisode explains it perfect MLK trying to do good but people rather be ignroant

In the black commuinity we call this "ratchets gonna ratchet"

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This is about SKIN COLOR AUTOMATICALLY grouping blacks into ONE steryotype of what is Attractive.

Thugs, gangsters, Criminals, that's the only thing blacks have going for them!

If you're intelligent and black you're AGAINST THE FLOW, so your game needs to be SPOT ON. you're competing with WHITE INTELLIGENT MALES now, womens FIRST choice.

Anything else opposing this is denial of the truth. That whites don't have it easier because they are awarded for bettering themselves, while blacks have a better chance being a criminal. [big][big]Truth is, White men have more value than black men at face value because of the way society portrays their race.
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