On WSA, and the internet as a whole, there is an ocean of information on the subjects of women and dating. In fact, there is so much information that it would take you several lifetimes to read it all. Curiously enough, humans procreated just fine before the net even existed, but that doesn't stop what is now a fairly large group of people (who aren't allowed to advertise on WSA by the way) from making big money by subtly convincing unsuspecting newbies that there is something inherently wrong with them, and that only by paying for high-priced seminars, books and CDs will they be able to "fix" themselves and finally get better with women.
While there are some quality offerings out there, most do more harm than good. Regardless, the point must be stressed that there is nothing inherently wrong with guys who don't get women, except for the fact that they've convinced themselves that there is. If they could trade attitudes (just attitudes, not knowledge, skills, techniques, etc) with someone who's successful with women for just one day, they would truly understand the deep truth of the preceding statement.
Now, It is certainly true that by educating themselves and taking masive action to improve their lives, guys who at one point in their lives perhaps had trouble even finding a date for the prom, can have women clawing eachother over them. However, we must understand that their "seduction skills" isn't the area where this massive action must be taken.
If you wish to become more successful with women, get a gym mebership, some stylish clothing, perhaps a better job or night classes, and a cool hobby or two. These are the things that will make a real difference in the quality of your life, your enjoyment of it, and yes, your level of success with women as well. But always remember that there is one way and one way only to truly get better with women - by going out there and talking to them.
You don't get better by sitting here and reading articles anymore than you do by watching porn. If you want things to change, take the preceding advice and sign up for a gym, a martial arts class or a sports team. Not to pick up women, but to add enjoyment to your life, meet new friends and become more social. On top of all that, because you'll be out there and not in here, you'll definitely meet a lot more women too!
However, stay conscious of the fact that they're not just going to fall into your lap, and that you do have to actually find the courage and approach them. This is the last point i must make: articles, books, CDs and seminars cannot and will not give you courage - you and only you can do that for yourself! If you're just getting started, this may not be easy, but nothing worthwhile ever is. Make the choice: find the courage and become everything you've ever wanted to be, or admit here and now that you don't have what it takes and quit.
But you're not going to quit! Why? Because i know you. I know you because years ago, i was you. I faced the same issues, the same challenges, the same fears, lifted myself far up above them, overcame them all and am now on the other side. I knew they could be overcome, so i did. So will you. I'm not going to evoke your pity by telling you how miserable i once was, nor boast about the life that i'm now blessed with, but believe me when i say that if you saw me then, you'd know that if i did it, literally anyone can. You can. You know what to do now.
DO IT.
While there are some quality offerings out there, most do more harm than good. Regardless, the point must be stressed that there is nothing inherently wrong with guys who don't get women, except for the fact that they've convinced themselves that there is. If they could trade attitudes (just attitudes, not knowledge, skills, techniques, etc) with someone who's successful with women for just one day, they would truly understand the deep truth of the preceding statement.
Now, It is certainly true that by educating themselves and taking masive action to improve their lives, guys who at one point in their lives perhaps had trouble even finding a date for the prom, can have women clawing eachother over them. However, we must understand that their "seduction skills" isn't the area where this massive action must be taken.
If you wish to become more successful with women, get a gym mebership, some stylish clothing, perhaps a better job or night classes, and a cool hobby or two. These are the things that will make a real difference in the quality of your life, your enjoyment of it, and yes, your level of success with women as well. But always remember that there is one way and one way only to truly get better with women - by going out there and talking to them.
You don't get better by sitting here and reading articles anymore than you do by watching porn. If you want things to change, take the preceding advice and sign up for a gym, a martial arts class or a sports team. Not to pick up women, but to add enjoyment to your life, meet new friends and become more social. On top of all that, because you'll be out there and not in here, you'll definitely meet a lot more women too!
However, stay conscious of the fact that they're not just going to fall into your lap, and that you do have to actually find the courage and approach them. This is the last point i must make: articles, books, CDs and seminars cannot and will not give you courage - you and only you can do that for yourself! If you're just getting started, this may not be easy, but nothing worthwhile ever is. Make the choice: find the courage and become everything you've ever wanted to be, or admit here and now that you don't have what it takes and quit.
But you're not going to quit! Why? Because i know you. I know you because years ago, i was you. I faced the same issues, the same challenges, the same fears, lifted myself far up above them, overcame them all and am now on the other side. I knew they could be overcome, so i did. So will you. I'm not going to evoke your pity by telling you how miserable i once was, nor boast about the life that i'm now blessed with, but believe me when i say that if you saw me then, you'd know that if i did it, literally anyone can. You can. You know what to do now.
DO IT.
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I find that they (esp Pook) have managed to really capture the "right" spirit. Notice how Pook doesn't even write about techniques, just states of mind.
