The makings of a man

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These are the things I feel that make a man a man.

1. Lift weights Its great for the body and keeps you young. every man should workout. people respect people who are physically strong and a muscular man makes a girl feel more femine.

2. Learn to defend yourself. Take a martial art. This gives you confidence in all areas of your life. Plus you know that you can protect yourself in a dangerous situation. Confident people are also less likely to fight.

3. Has a career you don't have to be a Dr or a lawyer but you have to have a job which pays at least 20 dollars an hour and requires some skill.

4. Embraces being the leader in the relationship. He is the head of the household and his woman knows it.

5. Takes care of his kids. I don't care if you hate the bittch. A real man will at least take care of his kids financially. Many kids especially woman have issues to this day because of there father not being arounds.

6. Doesnt' abuse alchol or drugs I work in a field were I see how boos and drugs destroy people. A real man cares about his health and doesn't abuse these things.

7. A real man does not verbally or physically abuse a woman. Woman being the weaker sex physically and emotionally should not be harmed in these aspects which make them vulnerable.

8. Doesn't lie A real man is confident in himself and does not need to lie. Only cowards lie.

9. Never dates below his range. A man never dates girls who are physically unattractive just because he is horny. A man always dates attractive woman. ( ONS Stands are an exception)

10. Does not use woman for money. Your a fvcking man and are the provider. Plus you should have your own money.

11. Has a high sex drive. A man should fvck his GF or his wife every day if he could. She should never refuse him for sex unless on period.

12. Has good morals. Treat others like you would want to be treated.

13. Will fight for his woman and other woman close to him. For example if someone disrespects your GF by grabbing her ass or her boob than you punch his lights out and I don't give a fvck how big he is.

14. Helps his friends If you friend needs help moving or needs a ride give it to him. Don't be a selfish prick.

15. Is not cheap Had to throw this in there being that I can't stand cheap people.

16. realises how fortunate he is. There are people that are alot worse off than you are. War, poverty, disease. A real man knows this and appreciates what he has.

17. Has sex with plenty of woman. ( At least 15)

18. Does not take disrespect from a woman. If she cheats on you she is DONE...... Don't ever go back. ( NOTE IF A WOMAN CHEATS ON YOU, AND YOU TAKE HER BACK THE RESPECT IS GONE. AND ONCE THE RESPECT IS GONE THERE IS NO RELATIONSHIP.


To my fellow DJ's. If you would like too add any more feel free.
 

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The makings of a man
Maybe for you, half of that sh!t I disagree with.

Theres already an abundance of tried and tested advice here on what constitutes a "man".

5. Takes care of his kids.
Dont even get me started on this.

6. Doesnt' abuse alchol or drugs
And why the hell not?

8. Doesn't lie
Literally never? Are you fuggin weird.

9. Never dates below his range.
A man doesn't "date" to begin with, dating is for chodes and losers. Never underestimate the power of slump busters.

10. Does not use woman for money.
Maybe your not up to speed with current events, it's all equal now mate, sh!t most of the birds I've been with have more $$$ than me.

11. Has a high sex drive.
???

12. Has good morals.
One mans "good" morals are another man's "stfu idiot" , the word "morals" should have no place here in my honest opinion.

13. Will fight for his woman and other woman close to him.
Does your chick have such low self worth and void of personality that she can't open her mouth or raise a knee, and sh!t how often do chicks actually get truly groped nowadays with the overwhelming population of submissive faggots we have now. This is not a common thing, and does not even warrant opinion.

15. Is not cheap
Have you actually hung around wealthy guys?

I could go on with more depth but I can't be fvcked.
 

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Laughable at best.

I particularly enjoyed number 17. Have sex with at least 15 women.

Let me give you an example of what I mean sporto. The guy considered by many to be the best football (soccer) player in the world right now is a Brazilian by the name of Kaka. He is a Catholic, and was proud to be a virgin until he was married. He's 26, worth countless millions, idolised by men everywhere, desired by most of the straight female population, models for several high end fashion labels, has founded several charities and has also won every major prize there is to win in the game of football - the world's most popular sport.....but according to you, he ain't a man.

You see what I'm getting at? This list is so lame....you HAVE to take a martial art? F.uck that man, I have better things to be doing. REAL MEN DON'T FOLLOW LISTS THAT OTHERS HAVE MADE FOR THEM. Now stop trying to force your ideals onto ppl!!

Oh and PS: You can't choose your sex drive. :rolleyes: Duhhhhh!!
 

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lookyoung i agree with you
(.)(.) i disagree with, hes probably a womanizer
 

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L777 said:
Laughable at best.

I particularly enjoyed number 17. Have sex with at least 15 women.

Let me give you an example of what I mean sporto. The guy considered by many to be the best football (soccer) player in the world right now is a Brazilian by the name of Kaka. He is a Catholic, and was proud to be a virgin until he was married. He's 26, worth countless millions, idolised by men everywhere, desired by most of the straight female population, models for several high end fashion labels, has founded several charities and has also won every major prize there is to win in the game of football - the world's most popular sport.....but according to you, he ain't a man.

You see what I'm getting at? This list is so lame....you HAVE to take a martial art? F.uck that man, I have better things to be doing. REAL MEN DON'T FOLLOW LISTS THAT OTHERS HAVE MADE FOR THEM. Now stop trying to force your ideals onto ppl!!

Oh and PS: You can't choose your sex drive. :rolleyes: Duhhhhh!!
That's a horrible example, reason being KAKA is a superstar.
lookyoung is talking about average joe and your comparing an average joe to a superstar
 

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L777 said:
Laughable at best.

I particularly enjoyed number 17. Have sex with at least 15 women.

Let me give you an example of what I mean sporto. The guy considered by many to be the best football (soccer) player in the world right now is a Brazilian by the name of Kaka. He is a Catholic, and was proud to be a virgin until he was married. He's 26, worth countless millions, idolised by men everywhere, desired by most of the straight female population, models for several high end fashion labels, has founded several charities and has also won every major prize there is to win in the game of football - the world's most popular sport.....but according to you, he ain't a man.

You see what I'm getting at? This list is so lame....you HAVE to take a martial art? F.uck that man, I have better things to be doing. REAL MEN DON'T FOLLOW LISTS THAT OTHERS HAVE MADE FOR THEM. Now stop trying to force your ideals onto ppl!!

Oh and PS: You can't choose your sex drive. :rolleyes: Duhhhhh!!
You don't have to follow the list. You could still be a virgin at 26 also I don't give a fvck. This is what I have done in my life and it has worked out fine for me. You can control your sex drive by living a healthy life and weightlifting by increasing testosterone. Also people who are happy have higher sex drive. Asked the depressed guy on paxil if he could control his sex drive?
 

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Dole said:
That's a horrible example, reason being KAKA is a superstar.
lookyoung is talking about average joe and your comparing an average joe to a superstar
No its an even better example, cos he COULD sleep with X amount of women if he wanted to, but because of his morals he hasn't. Thats a real man.

And I especially like lookyoung's "Treat others as you expect to be treated" Cos when Johnny Soporno posted here, he resorted to personal insults and jibes.....real manly right there. :rolleyes:
 

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Dole said:
That's a horrible example, reason being KAKA is a superstar.
lookyoung is talking about average joe and your comparing an average joe to a superstar
L777 has got to be the biggest retard. He actually is saying its cool to be a virgin at 26. Being a virgin at 26 is not cool. People that are virgins at that age are either social rejects, ugly, or wierd. They are usually very unhappy with there situation. If L777 still wants to stay a virgin for the next 5 years than more power to him.
 

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L777 said:
No its an even better example, cos he COULD sleep with X amount of women if he wanted to, but because of his morals he hasn't. Thats a real man.

And I especially like lookyoung's "Treat others as you expect to be treated" Cos when Johnny Soporno posted here, he resorted to personal insults and jibes.....real manly right there. :rolleyes:
johnny soporno does not give a fvck about you. He charges 2500 dollars for a one day seminar. He is not what the community is all about. If you think a guy who has pictures with pornstars and is going to charge you 2500 to hang with him is a good guy than I can see how your still a virgin.
 

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lookyoung said:
L777 has got to be the biggest retard. He actually is saying its cool to be a virgin at 26. Being a virgin at 26 is not cool. People that are virgins at that age are either social rejects, ugly, or wierd. They are usually very unhappy with there situation. If L777 still wants to stay a virgin for the next 5 years than more power to him.
Maybe you didn't read the example. The guy I'm talking about must have one of the top five best lives in the world and coulda have slept with literally thousands of women if he had wanted to....but he didn't, because of his beliefs.

That's a real man. Can you comprehend?

Oh and PS: I had sex last night. You're wrong AGAIN.
 

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these lists are ridiculous and pointless
 

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SilverSonnet said:
What REALLY defines a man, is not any of this bullsh1t, but his values and morals. If he doesn't give these up for anything(women, money etc) he is a REAL man.
Silver, are you really 14? You seem to have a good head on your shoulder.
 

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Lol, thankyou. I have some good mentors (Rollo, Wescott, Karma:D)
And I read..ALOT. I just tend to be able to speak better with older generations, than my current generation, since they are all idiots right now, with the odd exception, and most cant seem to hold intelligent conversations, so I spend alot of time conversing with older people than myself. :)
 

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L777 said:
No its an even better example, cos he COULD sleep with X amount of women if he wanted to, but because of his morals he hasn't. Thats a real man.
Sounds like he's gay to me, and married ultimately to avoid everyone else's knowing it. His wife, in such cases, would be described as a 'beard' (look it up) and such things are very common in Brazil.

Being gay doesn't stop him from being a real man - but HIDING IT sure does.

And I especially like lookyoung's "Treat others as you expect to be treated" Cos when Johnny Soporno posted here, he resorted to personal insults and jibes.....real manly right there. :rolleyes:
I challenge you to find any 'personal insults or jibes' which I've posted? I went back over every single post I've ever made on here, and found none, excepting where I returned someone to their place after they threw metaphorical mud at me. (This follows with the Golden Rule you're citing above)

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Johnny Soporno said:
Sounds like he's gay to me, and married ultimately to avoid everyone else's knowing it. His wife, in such cases, would be described as a 'beard' (look it up) and such things are very common in Brazil.

Being gay doesn't stop him from being a real man - but HIDING IT sure does.



I challenge you to find any 'personal insults or jibes' which I've posted? I went back over every single post I've ever made on here, and found none, excepting where I returned someone to their place after they threw metaphorical mud at me. (This follows with the Golden Rule you're citing above)

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I actually meant that lookyoung had insulted you....which contradicted the "treat others as you wish to be treated".

Plus Kaka definately isn't gay....he's like really religious and whatnot.
 

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L777 said:
I actually meant that lookyoung had insulted you....which contradicted the "treat others as you wish to be treated".
D'oh! Hahaha thanks for clearing that up!

L777 said:
Plus Kaka definately isn't gay....he's like really religious and whatnot.
Perhaps not - I know nothing about the man... but I DO know that countless pederastic priests are ALSO deeply religious ;)

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Maybe for you, half of that sh!t I disagree with.

Theres already an abundance of tried and tested advice here on what constitutes a "man".

Dont even get me started on this.

And why the hell not?

Literally never? Are you fuggin weird.

A man doesn't "date" to begin with, dating is for chodes and losers. Never underestimate the power of slump busters.

Maybe your not up to speed with current events, it's all equal now mate, sh!t most of the birds I've been with have more $$$ than me.

???

One mans "good" morals are another man's "stfu idiot" , the word "morals" should have no place here in my honest opinion.

Does your chick have such low self worth and void of personality that she can't open her mouth or raise a knee, and sh!t how often do chicks actually get truly groped nowadays with the overwhelming population of submissive faggots we have now. This is not a common thing, and does not even warrant opinion.

Have you actually hung around wealthy guys?

I could go on with more depth but I can't be fvcked.
FUKKING SPOT ON!!! but the femhor matrix has you in its grip you little b!tches.
 

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You should add on to your list a real man isn't a sell out. Real men face their fears.
 
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