There's been plenty of these lists around and you could add to them all day. What really makes a man is not any of these things, these are just side effects.
A real man has a balance of education and real experiance.
A real man has a balance of confidence and well being.
A real man has a balance of ethics and intuation.
It's all about balance. Most of these things you listen just come under 'maturity'. After watching the Blueprint I realize that being a real man basically comes down to have a strong 'reality'. Strong beliefs, experiances, morals and most of all - self-belief.
In my opinion being a real man is all in the mind, it has nothing to do with external factors although these usually come with that mindset, and therefore only serve as signposts to the real man within.