THE MAIN KEY to keeping a girl interested

[DonJuanForever]

Skip, remember, I didn't say that what you were saying was not true. If you fvck her good, like a loyal customer to a good restaurant, she'll come back and order more.

But the problem is skip, is the way you are coming off. Like a used car salesmen, I think the car is nice but I don't trust YOU. There's two things to a "mentor" that makes people listen to him.

1. What he says
2. His character/attitude/behavior.

Skip what you say is basically some things we've all heard before, BUT, we can all agree on as well, it even has the "skip" spin on it as well. But the problem is, your character, your attitude, your behavior.

You don't come off as a mentor, or a experienced guy, or a guy who can come off as a great leader so that men will follow his strategy and advice. When I see that you CANNOT control your emotions and get pissed and blow up easily at guys for just "stating they disagree," I get concerned. I can't disagree with you skip? If I am so wrong for disagreeing and you are so right, then "lets have a discussion about it." Let's talk about it, like men, grow, mature, men. But do you do that, no. You blow up, and get angry because someone disagrees, and instead of having a discussion as to why you stated your strategy so the guy who disagreed (who honestly, probably just didn't understand fully what you said), so the guy who disagreed could see your point of view and see where you are coming from, you blow up and get pissed. That is not a way to handle a "discussion" skip we are having a "discussion."

So this shows a behavior that tells me as a reader, that you are inexperienced with talking to other people and having a proper convo and argument, and you want me to now believe you are an alpha male and a leader? You can't even hold a conversation and discussion!

You blow up, and honestly, lol, that shows another thing that's wrong, insecurity, and that's in the character portion. Why do you on the inside of yourself, get angry when I disagree with you? Why is YOUR inside like that? You know what that shows, lol.....it shows you are not happy. You are not fulfilled. You are angry, you have no peace, no joy. If you did, nothing I could say could destroy that. Nothing. You'll laugh it off.

Lastly, your attitude of "all you guys are flaming" "all you guys are trolls." Because somebody says something nasty to you skip, does not mean you have to say something nasty back, a true leader does not need to do that. If someone says something nasty to him, he says they must be having a bad day, and moves on. He does not get into battles for nothing.

Skip, this is you right here. You are a guy with a couple of friends, not really the "party" type or a type that you could go sarge with but you do have some people to chill with. You have an inner desire to be with a lot of women, because you've gotten hurt in the past by some, and now you feel you have something to prove. You come here to learn tips, you go out and try them, you get some success here and there, but it's not really what you YEARN FOR. You want MORE FROM YOUR LOVE LIFE, then you are currently getting.

Do this, increase your convo skills, increase your attraction (I made a post on it) and change your target. Go for women who are more shy, more introverted, more reserved. Doing this, I believe that you will begin to have more of a satisfication or wholeness as far as your love life goes. Then once this is filled, watch how your peace is hard to be removed by other people. Now I'm not saying SHE completes you and gives you peace, YOU gives your soul peace, because all of our souls yearn for something to COMPLETE IT, learn to listen to it and let it tell you what it needs.

At the end of the day, a man is a man who's searched his soul and lives his life, to make it whole. What do you yearn for? Find out, and get it.

 

[skip2mylou781]

hey donjuan forever,

What you said about finding shy introverted girls, those actually have been 2 of my serious ex's from the past, and yea, i did have a fulfilling love life while with them, but its not wat i currently want right now (gets boring for me).

I feel that when it comes to LOVE, i will be unsatisfied for a while due to loving girls in the past (one-itis) style, and sure i fvcked them all and it was good relationships and everything, but at the end of each one, i still got hurt, thus i dont think love will be coming around knockin on my door for a lil while.

I need to reiterate one big thing for u though.

If you will notice, people on here dont DISAGREE with what I say for the most part - instead they just throw out lines such as "ur fake, u made it up, ur a troll, ur a kjb",.....but very rarely have i seen anyone say "i disagree with ur point, let me tell you why".

djf - just go raed replies to my threads, anyone who u thought "disagreed" with me was actually just throwin random shyt at me that had nothin to do with the actual thread. I CAN have a discussion if someone disagree with me, but dude, nobody actually coherntly has disagreed with my threads, and all that keeps happenin is childish name calling.

it IS possible that all my text is misinterpreted online and comes off wrong, but I really just come here to give back to the discussion forum what it has given to me. I always had girls, but there were certain techniques taht i was never aware of, which after learning, i think now i kno alot more - aka push/pull or gunwitch are just GOLD MINES that i never heard of before.

i HAVE been with many girls, but that doesnt mean ive been GOOD with many girls - but the main key for me has been persistance and take it for wat ist worth, but the onyl reason i fvcked around 55 different girls is cuz i played the #s game.....ive probly talked to/hit on around 1000 girls in the last 4 years, which is a testament that while my techniques werent exactly good (cuz i never knew of sosuave before), i still had my success despite being mostly AFC attitude wise.

So, in the last 8 months, i read alot of good shyt on here, and in those 8 months, ive been applyin some of the things, and ull notice me preaching ALOT abotu GUNWITCH, PUSH/PULL, APPROACHING, thats wat alot of mythreads are about - thats cuz those have been wat i consider the best peices of advice ive read on here, and ive applied those very well ever since finding sosuave, and my threads are to show people that all this shyt works and i hope to show everyone how MY application of those has worked.

I am SHOCKED that instead of reading adn understanding my threads, instead a few select people jsut sit on their lazyasses and call me fake, its just dumb of them to not even take note of sosuave techniques that work in the field.

One last thing - i DO have a lil anger management thing basically meaning lil things piss me off, and yea ive blown it with plenty of girls due to that (after fvckin them tho lol), but 1 thing i cannot stand for is being called FAKE

done

 

[DonJuanForever]

Skip this is the problem, you said:

"I feel that when it comes to LOVE, i will be unsatisfied for a while due to loving girls in the past (one-itis) style, and sure i fvcked them all and it was good relationships and everything, but at the end of each one, i still got hurt, thus i dont think love will be coming around knockin on my door for a lil while."

What I said was, the reason you keep making posts, is that you are looking to get "fulfilled, accepted, and whole." You are NOT whole, because you want love and don't have it. I was the same way. Skip you can fvck 20 girls, but if you are still filling empty afterwards it means nothing. You need to fulfill your love life area. Find love. That's why I suggested changing your market target back to shy introverted girls.

The thing is skip, you are not happy innerly, and you know that. You can't get up here and pretend. What's a guy's insecurity and blowing up but just from him previously crying within but now it's coming out as rage?

I don't disagree with the posts. The problem is not the posts, the problem is not folks replies on here, the problem is not women. I am talking to skip right now. I am saying, what is it that you really yearn for in a relationship? How does she look, how does she act, what do you expect of her? Once you know what you want, then go out and sarge girls like her. If you wanna build up a portfolio of them, maybe 5 of them and you are serious with about one, then fine, or just one is fine. But guys get up here and lie to themselves trying to fulfill a religion and fantasy of being a "don juan" but skip the "being fulfilled part." I can have be rich, with a lot of people knowing me, and sleeping with alot of women, and be unhappy and unpeaceful as hell on the inside. And skip, that's you buddy. I'm trying to tell you how you can be happy, hell if you want, still fvck around with different types of chicks, just make sure your "personal needs" are met, because currently they are not.

It's like, I need water, food, clothes, transportation, and shelter. I just want the new jordans, the expensive car, the big house, etc. But with your situation, it's like you are enjoying your fancy car and fancy clothes but you can't pay your rent and are about to be put out of your house. Does that make sense? Do you see where I am getting?

 

[skip2mylou781]

yes of course i see what you are saying, i know I will find love again eventually no doubt about it

 

[MoscowMusk6969]

to add - when you give her the BEST kiss she ever had, its almost a gaurantee that u'll b fvcking her 30 minutes

i bet you practice kissing your sister, there is no way that you have fvcked 55 girls you are full of it

 

[skip2mylou781]

im an only child......moscowmusk huh??? u kno i had a co-worker who JUST quit who was making moscowmusk references, i wonder if its U LOL