AmsterdamAssassin
Master Don Juan
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Yesterday I was at the vet regarding aftercare for my tomcat (eyelid correction after vicious cat fight), and there was this cute 26 year old woman waiting with a medium-sized dog she had 'rescued' from the dog pound.
The woman and I chatted about several topics while the veterinarian's nurse was dealing with some minor emergency. She asked me for my number, but I gave her my IG, told her she could sent me a PM without the need to follow my account. She contacted me after I left and came over for coffee this morning because 'she had enjoyed our conversation so much'. Part of our conversation was about the 'Lost Art of Conversation', since she observed that most men under 35 couldn't hold a conversation if their lives depended on it.
I'm sure that is more anecdotal than statistic, but do you work on being a good conversationalist and listener? (By the way, I'm not talking about s1mping and agreeing with everything a woman says, that is not a conversation)
The woman and I chatted about several topics while the veterinarian's nurse was dealing with some minor emergency. She asked me for my number, but I gave her my IG, told her she could sent me a PM without the need to follow my account. She contacted me after I left and came over for coffee this morning because 'she had enjoyed our conversation so much'. Part of our conversation was about the 'Lost Art of Conversation', since she observed that most men under 35 couldn't hold a conversation if their lives depended on it.
I'm sure that is more anecdotal than statistic, but do you work on being a good conversationalist and listener? (By the way, I'm not talking about s1mping and agreeing with everything a woman says, that is not a conversation)