The Key Logger: A Forbidden Glimpse into the True Nature of Women

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Desdinova said:
I tried reading it and had to stop. The guy is most certainly an AFC, expecting too much from women in the beginning of the relationship. The biggest and best advice he could use is: To ward off other men, you must be more interesting than them.
The problem with this idea is that "being more interesting" than another man is largely subjective. I may have a certain set of interests and strengths, while another man may have another. Which is more interesting is mostly in the eyes of the beholder. Sometimes you have to let the chips fall where they may, as they say.

I've only read about the first few women. Does he ever talk about having sex with any of them? In any case, his demanding that the girls open his Facebook for him and all that puts off a pretty creepy vibe. He already knew what he would find, so at that point he should have just nexted the girl, or accepted what he knew.

I agree he tends to get too involved, and too AFC with them too quickly. But he says he is good with women, and dates the top 20% lookswise. If he's such an AFC, how is this possible (from a DJ point of view)?
 

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It seems like this book would be better received if it was with a different narrator.
The information is good, but the presentation is bad.
 

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Is this sort of thing legal? Stealing someone's passwords and then using them to log onto their social media to snoop? Just curious. Where are the lawyers we have here?
 

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Im not sure what we can learn from women from this post other than, this is the way they are, they ar emore hypergamous than many men are or will ever be, they have more opportunities now via social media and technology so those options and behaviours will increase.
women always nag on about men trusting them, being less controlling, the fact is, there has never been a time when women have bene so shady or at least have the option to be, should we become more controlling and less trusting? less trusting of women definately, more controlling? not with with the women, have high expectations that if you are in a realtionship, she is faithful, the moment she isnt, cut that fvcker loose and lel her know you will do it, be more in control of your life and yourself. if all else fails, you will have your life and dignity intact
 

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betheman said:
Im not sure what we can learn from women from this post other than, this is the way they are, they ar emore hypergamous than many men are or will ever be, they have more opportunities now via social media and technology so those options and behaviours will increase.
Right, but it's not just hypergamy, they want the attention, they enjoy the attention. They are like "Sally has four men courting her right now, why shouldn't I have four men wanting to take me out? I'm just as attractive as Sally, surely". Men can be like this too, but here's one difference: Girls don't have forums telling them not to seek validation like the men do, they feed off the validation.
 

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zekko said:
Right, but it's not just hypergamy, they want the attention, they enjoy the attention. They are like "Sally has four men courting her right now, why shouldn't I have four men wanting to take me out? I'm just as attractive as Sally, surely". Men can be like this too, but here's one difference: Girls don't have forums telling them not to seek validation like the men do, they feed off the validation.
damn right they do and thats also getting worse
 

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zekko said:
The problem with this idea is that "being more interesting" than another man is largely subjective. I may have a certain set of interests and strengths, while another man may have another. Which is more interesting is mostly in the eyes of the beholder.
I'm not talking about your hobbies and interests, I'm talking about the qualities that women generally find attractive in men. It doesn't matter if you're a car mechanic or a computer programmer; if you're confident, funny, playful and sexual, then you're going to be more interesting than at least 75% of the AFCs out there.
 

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when a woman in sinterested in a man or finds him 'interesting' that is attraction. being more interesting than another guy most likely wont get you laid, being more attarctive is far more likely to get you laid
 

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Wow! This makes me want to write a book...

Being perceived as a beacon of total non-judgement - gets women to tell you their dirtiest secrets.... If not participate with you in them....



I can teach guys a simple way to get this info without key loggers, without passwords: Simply act as if a woman's s!uttiness turns you on...

It's as easy as that...

Try it. I mean REALLY try it.... You'll find out just how much of an illusion most of this courting game is...




I have 2 girls login information on online dating sites. One gave it to me willingly. One indirectly gave it to me when she told me what her password for "everything" was....

Point blank: All both of them do is lie constantly...

When they like a guy - they lie in one direction (they DHV the guy; try to be extra cool)...

When they don't like a guy - they ignore or lie in another direction (such as saying they're only on the site to make friends)...
 

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I'm not one to snoop around, I just assume the worst all the time so it doesn't matter to me at all. This is a tuff topic to talk about because once again women are not like men.

If I am talking to a girl, you know I am trying to hit it plain and simple but, women like to have their orbiters. Women keep dudes around they have no intention of banging, men are not like that the second a girl i'm talking to gets a little sassy i'm engineering the whole day around bedding her. Not only do they keep orbiters, but the nature of the relationship is suggestively sexual, just enough to keep him hanging on right? Just enough to get a couple free meals out of the guy or whatever it is she wants from him.

You wanna know the nature of your woman? Start listening to all the crap she spews out of her mouth she will give herself dead away.

Does she talk too much about posessions?
If she doesn't have a job to support her tastes she's a gold digger. Capable of banging a dude for assets.

Does she talk about sex alot?
You have yourself a bonafied wh0re, don't leave her alone with anyone ever.

Does she fight and fuss alot?
She's a b1tch, she want's her way or the highway. She doesn't respect relationships or you for that matter.

Does she talk about getting farked up all the time? Drinking with buddies?
Grats you have a party girl, blowing dudes in alleys behind parties when she's drunk. Wait for it..... "I was so ****ed up I didn't know what I was doing!" yep... sure.

Basically get her interests and cross reference them to slut behavior and bingo you know your woman!

Unless of course you really think she is incapable of doing this stuff... <smirk>
 

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I was looking at other Kindle books and I came across "The Perfect Conversation: How to Win a Girl with Words". Not free unfortunately, but I was surprised to find that it was by the same author as "The Key Logger". Anyone know anything about this other book? The subject matter is interesting to me.

As for the author (Nicholas Jack), I know some people here are calling him AFC, and I agree he has some insecurities, but he seemed to learn from his experiences, which is the important thing. He took the logger off his computer, realizing it was hurting his relationships. Girl #3 especially, I thought he could have continued on with, considering how well she treated him. But he dumped her because of a picture of a guy in a bar with his hand on her leg? Got to have a tougher crust than that, if you're going to play the dating game.

But I'll say this for him: He didn't seem to have any trouble getting girls, or getting girls to like him. It didn't seem much of a jump for him to be walking down the street one minute to BAM meeting a new girl and spending the next three days with her nonstop the next. He said he was good with girls, so I think he's actually a bit of a natural. A lot of naturals do well with women but still have some AFC tendencies. They just have a winning combination of looks and demeanor.
 

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zekko said:
I was looking at other Kindle books and I came across "The Perfect Conversation: How to Win a Girl with Words". Not free unfortunately, but I was surprised to find that it was by the same author as "The Key Logger". Anyone know anything about this other book? The subject matter is interesting to me.

As for the author (Nicholas Jack), I know some people here are calling him AFC, and I agree he has some insecurities, but he seemed to learn from his experiences, which is the important thing. He took the logger off his computer, realizing it was hurting his relationships. Girl #3 especially, I thought he could have continued on with, considering how well she treated him. But he dumped her because of a picture of a guy in a bar with his hand on her leg? Got to have a tougher crust than that, if you're going to play the dating game.

But I'll say this for him: He didn't seem to have any trouble getting girls, or getting girls to like him. It didn't seem much of a jump for him to be walking down the street one minute to BAM meeting a new girl and spending the next three days with her nonstop the next. He said he was good with girls, so I think he's actually a bit of a natural. A lot of naturals do well with women but still have some AFC tendencies. They just have a winning combination of looks and demeanor.
I was curious about this as well. The man clearly knows how to attract women regardless of his ridiculous behavior once he has them. I've looked at other conversation books and products though and they never did much for me. Besides a few tips I think that conversational skills is something that can only be learned through practice.
 

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JoeMarron said:
I was curious about this as well. The man clearly knows how to attract women regardless of his ridiculous behavior once he has them.
Agreed.

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I've looked at other conversation books and products though and they never did much for me. Besides a few tips I think that conversational skills is something that can only be learned through practice.
True enough, I suppose. There is some difference between making general conversation and making conversation that attracts women, however. I've read a few books on conversation and they mind-numbingly boring.

I also am very reluctant to pay for any PUA-type of product because usually the content is simply not worth it. Usually it's just a rehash of the same old same old with another layer of bullsh!t added in. Not saying there are no good products, but they're few and far between.
 
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