The Hypocrisy Of POF Women

[Young Stallion]

Amongst all the messages on here about POF I decided to test a theory.

I made two profiles, both very similar. With one main difference.

One picture was of this extremely buff shirtless dude who looked like a model that I found on the internet.

The other picture was of me.

Over a course of 2 weeks I sent about 100 emails to 100 different women with both profiles. Alot of these women overlapped.
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Out of the 100 emails I sent with my picture I had 14 unread deletes and 83 read deletes and 3 email responses and none of them responded to second email.

I noticed an extreme difference with the other profile picture of the shirtless buff dude with the model face.

EVERY SINGLE GIRL out of the 100 I emailed responded.
I even had girls who said they wouldnt respond to guys with shirtless pictures emailing me back, I also had girls emailing me first and I even had girls wanting to set up dates and upset when I didnt respond after a day.

So this thing about women not being as superficial as us guys is just BULLCRAP beyond belief. I could not believe how differently I was treated, same person, same personality but different picture.

Its so funny, alot of girls on their profiles said they wouldnt email back shirtless guys or guys who had ego or anything and they were looking for a nice guy. Yet everyone wanted the dude in the one pic.

I think that it is very hard on POF unless you are in the top 10% of the looks grade.

Anyways rant done....my experiment is done, just wanted to check it out to see how tough it was out there for an average looking guy on POF vs a very good looking guy.

 

[sstype]

Guess its time to start hitting the gym.....

 

[Young Stallion]

Well yes...absolutely....although I do work out quite religiously, just not as outrageously buff as the one pic.

 

[Jariel]

Of course. Looks are everything on a dating site and any woman who tells you looks don't matter are clearly lying. But then I think the pick up community also has a lot to answer for by trying to convince guys that game is everything and they can score hot women despite being out of shape and ugly.

Yeah, the hot chick with an ugly guy phenomenon does exist, but it's so rare and there's more to it than saying or doing the right thing.

But then there's nothing stopping you or anyone here from becoming that buff guy women drool over. If you're willing to put in the work, you'll get to reap the rewards. This is why self improvement will always trump PUA tactics and good game.

 

[JohnnyStorm]

Link us up man, let's see how buff we need to be!

 

[Young Stallion]

Link us up man, let's see how buff we need to be!

As you wish good sir.

The first pic is the experiment pic of the really buff and good looking dude who got all the attention on POF. The rest are of me.

http://www.flickr.com/photos/74892745@N05/

 

[JohnnyStorm]

As you wish good sir.

The first pic is the experiment pic of the really buff and good looking dude who got all the attention on POF. The rest are of me.

http://www.flickr.com/photos/74892745@N05/

Looking good my friend!

That first guy looks total bada$$ though. Have to admit, if i were a woman, I'd be wet for him too.

 

[Maximummax]

My observation in general about online dating
women want a hot guy, so that they can carry him to parties and hang out with friends, which makes them feel good when their gf's says he is hot or some girls are jealous of her new bf. So called Eye candy features.

it doesn't matter whether this hot guy is a criminal or jobless or homeless, they are even ready to adopt him.

Its all about pleasure. If you are not good looking your luck will be less.

 

[MisterD]

it's not just the hypocrisy of pof women. it's all women

both sexes put just as much importance on looks. the only difference is men don't hide it

that guy you posted could no doubt get laid being an afc. he may not have as much success as he could be having. but he'd still get his **** wet from time to time. hell, some women may look at his afc behavior as a plus: a nice guy who's super totally hot

being attractive can cover up most other flaws a person has. that's just the way it is

 

[SoldMySoul]

That dude is big... Steroids tend to do that!!! I have a build similar to the guys on Spartacus.. Andy Whitfield to be specific...God rest his soul... Not quite there, but I am bigger, just need more cutting. I digress....

You should send messages back with roid boy's acct and say, "My pee pee is small...oh and another thing..I have issues with it getting up sometime..oh and uh, when It does I **CVM really, really fast. So if you are okay with all this and my small shrinked up nutz.. count me in.

That site is really becoming infamous quick!

Me personally I do NOT DO NOT want an HB9/10--- I consider myself a solid 8 and I want that or a little lower. Yeah woman are superficial, as the brother where I am from would say with their incorrect usage of English, "I been knowed that!"

 

[Young Stallion]

I know I am not reinventing the wheel with this saying but it is truly amazing how differently people get treated just based on what they look like...and that both men an women think the same.

As much as I take away alot from the PUA community and the mentality needed to succeed on the dating scene I do have to say one thing.

I believe they are incorrect when they play down looks in order to sell their systems to people who do not believe they are good looking. You see I believe that you have to pass the physical attraction test first....then your personality counts...she aint gonna like you or care about your attractive personality if she doesnt like what she is looking at to begin with...which is why for most men, online dating is pointless because it is so heavily focused on looks.

 

[MisterD]

I know I am not reinventing the wheel with this saying but it is truly amazing how differently people get treated just based on what they look like...and that both men an women think the same.

As much as I take away alot from the PUA community and the mentality needed to succeed on the dating scene I do have to say one thing.

I believe they are incorrect when they play down looks in order to sell their systems to people who do not believe they are good looking. You see I believe that you have to pass the physical attraction test first....then your personality counts...she aint gonna like you or care about your attractive personality if she doesnt like what she is looking at to begin with...which is why for most men, online dating is pointless because it is so heavily focused on looks.

absolutely.

unattractive guy hits on chick at work: sexual harassment
attractive guy hits on chick at work: flirting

appearance determines whether or not you get your foot in the door. once you pass the looks test then you run your game. the more attractive you are the less game you have to actually run

 

[SgtSplacker]

So many of these females profiles say they are looking for an LTR or something similar. And i'm sorry but you just look more likely to be the kind to settle down and be in a sincere relationship compared to Mr. Jersey Shore. It just proves that what women say and what they want are two totally different things.

Women's intentions are totally driven by the most basic of urges. To get railed by the biggest stud they can find is the underlying motivation to most of their profiles supposedly looking for a nice guy. And they get all fussy about guys asking for sex, when it's obvious it's all they want.

Reading through most of the PUA material it's clear that once a girl has accepted that she likes you the game then becomes all about bedding her without her realizing it's what you're really trying to do. So she never feels slvtty, but actually IS slvtty. And if you fail to bed her she will start thinking you're some kind of homo. If you don't bang her long and hard she will loose interest. The long walks on the beach are only secondary to the animalistic urges they wont admit they have.

Women are just like men, they're just in denial. This is why it's wrong to treat women the way they want to be treated. It's really the LAST thing they want. You have to be an indifferent ahole for them to somehow feel right with you.

 

[cablecow15]

Ill most likely delete my pof after I get my first lay from a club , not only is pof un successful , but its detrimental to your confidence .

you get bored as hit on some lame looking chick and then she blows you off, because she has hotter guys with not balls hitting on her because they would never do it in the real world

 

[Mike32ct]

I agree with all the above.

Just an aside or footnote, when you see a good looking girl with a not so good looking dude, it's quite likely that she got to know him over time through a social circle or work or school, not a looks-critical environment like a club, bar, or online.

Don't get me wrong. Looks are critcal everywhere and anywhere. But sometimes women can lower their looks standards slightly in exchange for familiarity and eventually (after some drinks) sleep a social circle guy who isn't her dream man. Then, if he's decent in the sack, she returns to F several more times because texting him is easier than starting new with another dude. Then, FWB can turn into a "relationship" if she gets attached. Then voilà, you have the mis-matched couple lookswise. Her friends no longer see him as unattractive because he has social proof once their secret relationship becomes "public information."

But if she had to make a fast decision about this guy from a bar, club, or online profile, she would quickly reject him on looks grounds.

 

[SgtSplacker]

I was talking with a girl I know about POF and she told me that as soon as she made her POF profile she was flooded with guys asking her out, or just to screw. And honestly I get no action on that site at all. Not even the girls that are just barely passable reply to my messages. Heck I've even messaged girls I would never ever be seen in public with and got rejected! But in real life I do rather well. Heck just last night I went to a Filter :rockon: concert I went in chatted up a girl at the door and totally felt some IL there. Walked away saw some drunk girl at the bar went over chatted her up she touched my face and told me I was cute. Then I went upstairs and chatted up a bartender that my friend said was totally into me. So yeah POF is a crock of BS to me. It's become just a form of entertainment for me, I don't really expect to meet anyone there.

 

[Trump]

So this thing about women not being as superficial as us guys is just BULLCRAP beyond belief. I could not believe how differently I was treated, same person, same personality but different picture.

I think that it is very hard on POF unless you are in the top 10% of the looks grade.

Anyways rant done....my experiment is done, just wanted to check it out to see how tough it was out there for an average looking guy on POF vs a very good looking guy.

How the heck is a girl suppposed to get to know guy's personality online?
Behind a computer there is no pressure, it's easy to be the most charming guy in the world. Put the same good looking guy in a life or death negotiation and he may crumble.

Women respond to the good looking guy for the same reason you respond to good looking women, it's what emotionally attracts them. You can't get upset at that. It's the same reason you pick to see one movie over another or Coke or Pepsi, its emotional. Whether it makes sense or the choice is good for them is irrelevant.

 

[TNbuckeye]

I was talking with a girl I know about POF and she told me that as soon as she made her POF profile she was flooded with guys asking her out, or just to screw. And honestly I get no action on that site at all. Not even the girls that are just barely passable reply to my messages. Heck I've even messaged girls I would never ever be seen in public with and got rejected! But in real life I do rather well. Heck just last night I went to a Filter :rockon: concert I went in chatted up a girl at the door and totally felt some IL there. Walked away saw some drunk girl at the bar went over chatted her up she touched my face and told me I was cute. Then I went upstairs and chatted up a bartender that my friend said was totally into me. So yeah POF is a crock of BS to me. It's become just a form of entertainment for me, I don't really expect to meet anyone there.

I completely agree. I would rather get rejected by a 8+ in person than a 6- online, but its a numbers game. It's more like fb than a "dating" site

 

[SgtSplacker]

I completely agree. I would rather get rejected by a 8+ in person than a 6- online, but its a numbers game. It's more like fb than a "dating" site

Yeah totally, the girl at the door was an easy 7 with a slim build. The one at the bar was at least an 8 with some fake D cups prolly a 9 if I could see her naked. And the bartender was an easy 7 also. Put these girls on POF and they would NEVER reply to me.

 

[TNbuckeye]

Speaking of hypocrisy of women on pof check out my thread "Hard to get?" It's a situation I'm dealin with currently