The hard truth many of you need to hear: 8 reasons you aren’t successful with women.

[biggoal]

You look like a kid at 38-39? I gotta see pictures.

36 lol. I dont mean a kid but in my 20s. I also dress young still too. Like brand name hog.

 

[EyeBRollin]

LOL, hell no!!

Actually that's another subject though. Due to being skinny and young looking people don't take me as seriously, especially older folks. They think I'm more like 25 or something and it hurts though when trying to pull women your own age when you look like a kid and get IDed for lotto tickets

Gotta gain some weight my friend. 50 lbs would be revolutionary for you.

 

[biggoal]

Gotta gain some weight my friend. 50 lbs would be revolutionary for you.

That would put me over 170lb! Unless I got super thick muscles, meat head I'd be overweight.

 

[Prettyboy Dee]

36 lol. I dont mean a kid but in my 20s. I also dress young still too. Like brand name hog.

That's a good thing dude not a bad thing, facepalm.....

Being 36 and looking like your in your 20s is a bad thing to you? Lol

And if people dont take you serious its because you carry yourself like someone who shouldn't be respected, has nothing to do with your size or looks.

I'm 26 with a baby face and only weigh 140 pounds with clothes on, people take me serious, sure I have had people think I'm soft or weak but its because they say I'm a pretty boy but once they spend some time around they know wassup.

 

[biggoal]

You look like a kid at 38-39? I gotta see pictures.

check your pm

 

[captainsemiobvious]

Once again, your anecdotal study is not true. Average U.S. height is decreasing.

It's strange that so many people can't process the fact that a couple of isolated anecdotes don't disprove a general pattern.

"My cousin Vinnie is Sicilian but he's 7'5", therefore this is proof that Sicilians are a race of giants." No, it's not proof. It's one piece of evidence, namely an outlier, among hundreds of thousands or millions of data points.

 

[EyeBRollin]

That would put me over 170lb! Unless I got super thick muscles, meat head I'd be overweight.

5’9, 170 is not overweight.. especially with muscles.

I’m 5’7, 165-170 lbs and have visible abs and obliques.

 

[biggoal]

5’9, 170 is not overweight.. especially with muscles.

I’m 5’7, 165-170 lbs and have visible abs and obliques.

Yes, with heavy conditioning. I like lean muscle so I don't want to weight that.

 

[Focal core]

Do you think other men and women like the fact that you have it like this?

Yup few minutes ago just get stare from hb8 which was on date with her bf infront of me.. Its crazy.his bf notice it.. I just walk away, Men not so much.. Little bit envy there.. Im a one man means im lonewolf. Other men would like me to teach them how to built up physically. In club its abundance for me.. I grope here and there, just sort of thrown themselves towards me

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Yup few minutes ago just get stare from hb8 which was on date with her bf infront of me.. Its crazy.his bf notice it.. I just walk away, Men not so much.. Little bit envy there.. Im a one man means im lonewolf. Other men would like me to teach them how to built up physically.

Yea when my vibe is on babes mouths will water in front of their man. Its kinda crazy how "out" females are these days.

 

[Focal core]

Yea when my vibe is on babes mouths will water in front of their man. Its kinda crazy how "out" females are these days.

Hahaha yeah it does.. Poor does the cucks.. Most i notice were in their blue pills. Dressed up formally and mr niceguys.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Hahaha yeah it does.. Poor does the cucks.. Most i notice were in their blue pills. Dressed up formally and mr niceguys.

Lol so i need to keep doing that. I mean damn its like she saying the puzzy is yours.

 

[Focal core]

Lol so i need to keep doing that. I mean damn its like she saying the puzzy is yours.

Yeap, im lonewolf but i lead.. Girls and men.. Men were too intimidated to having conversation with me.. Yeah.. I see dermatologist who help a lots, eat healthy,, powerlift and cardio once per week, skin care regimine, retinoic acid aka retinoid (medical grade) are my fountain of youth. And youre good to go. Its easy.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Yes, with heavy conditioning. I like lean muscle so I don't want to weight that.

Not sure what heavy conditioning means. But do you boo boo. Physique matters. A strong body people associate with power and discipline.

 

[17 shots]

Yes, with heavy conditioning. I like lean muscle so I don't want to weight that.

Umm don't you run like 5 miles a day... you already do heavy conditioning. All you have to do is add weight lifting and eat a lot, and you will build lean muscle and not fat because of how much cardio you do

 

[biggoal]

Umm don't you run like 5 miles a day... you already do heavy conditioning. All you have to do is add weight lifting and eat a lot, and you will build lean muscle and not fat because of how much cardio you do

But the right foods right? not the McDonalds and Buger King I eat a few times a week or cookies.

 

[17 shots]

But the right foods right? not the McDonalds and Buger King I eat a few times a week or cookies.

It really doesn't matter with the amount of cardio you do, just make sure it's all protein based. Would it be better for your overall health to stop eating McDonalds, yes, but it's not necessary to have a good looking body if you work out enough

 

[biggoal]

5’9, 170 is not overweight.. especially with muscles.

I’m 5’7, 165-170 lbs and have visible abs and obliques.

I have a 55 year old Chad where I work. Well maybe former Chad since he's 55 now BUT he is in tip top shape for his age and looks healthy for his age and still has women in his 40s on up approach him but he's married.

When he was young like 20 he was super skinny, more thin than me. He is 5-10 so a little taller than me and weighed a bit less too! He said women would reject him left and right at the clubs and even said he was too thin and thought it was a joke how he looked. He even wore fancier clothes and all but didn't work. He decided he needed to bulk up. he got beast mode and said when he became bulked up the women started to talk to him more and were all over him some of the same ones as well. He hardly ever eats fast food though, mostly home cooked, no soda or beer. Mostly water or tea he drinks as well and little sugar.

 

[captainsemiobvious]

When I was in California I saw short Mexican gangsters pull the hottest white chicks daily at the clubs. It was like the more ghetto, tatted up, and belligerent these guys were, the more the hot blonde chicks went for them. Sosuave has a tendency to paint black and white pictures but experience has taught me that meat market game belongs to tall handsome guys and short Mexican gangsters.

Thats literally two different types of guys on opposite ends of the spectrum attracting the same demographic of chicks in the same venues. So how does that fit in to any of these lists?

This guy is completely delusional.

 

[MatureDJ]

Why you aren’t doing well on OLD/Bars/Social Circle:

1.) You are over weight. Being a fat guy puts you right at the bottom. It’s one of the worst things you can be. While there are some chicks who dig fat guys you are severely limiting yourself by being overweight and or having a large stomach. They automatically assume you have a little wiener and are gonna lay on top of them with all your weight and crush them and sweat bacon grease all over them. The thought of sex with you is repulsive.

2.) You dress like sh*t. You can be the top engineer, a home owner, graduated top in your class yea yea, none of that sh*t matters if you dress like a hobo in your down time. Invest in some clothes, nice ones. If you are super casual make sure you sneakers look new/newish, dress shoes are polished. Always iron. Most importantly, more important than designers or brand names, make sure your clothes fit well. The tailor is your friend. All dress pants and jackets should be tailored but you can also do the same for jeans.

3.) You look/smell dirty. Dirty fingernails, chapped lips, bags under your eyes. You just look like you don’t have good personal hygiene. Be a little more metro sexual. Once a month go get a manicure. It’s $20 and feels great. Shower daily. Invest in cologne. I have a 30 bottle cologne collection and can give you safe blind buys if anyone wants.

4.) Your breath smells like it’s a little man in your mouth taking a poo this is the number one overlooked thing in dating. You get close to a woman and your breath smells anything other than minty fresh GAME OVER. Brush twice daily, get your tounge

5,) You have no social skills and say dumb sh*t all the time. There is always that guy who in the social group has to share his controversial view points and go on and on about them. Wants to talk about the “radical left” and why “Marxism is good”.. and how trump is making America great again.
Keep that sh*t to yourself. You are entitled to your own opinion but that **** isn’t gonna get you laid. Just keep things light and funny.

And it wouldn’t be a cola thread without the controversial section:

Things you can’t do anything about and just have to compensate for:

6.) You are below 5’8. I’m sorry. There is a large female population who just isnt going to date you. It sucks, being under 5’8 doesn’t make you less of a man. The strongest kid I know is a 5’5 ex college wrestler. He would slam any 6’2 guy on his neck and ground and pound him till he is in a coma. But it’s just the reality of the dating game.

7.) You are anything other than black or white. It is what it is man, the number one sought after man is white. Even me as a black guy have accepted there is a good amount of women who wouldn’t date me, no matter what I say.. Brown/Asian/Dark Latinos are going to have an even larger segment of the population who just won’t date you. I apologize, is what it is.

8.) You have an ugly face. Again unfortunate, some facial features you just can’t fix. Doesn’t mean you can’t get girls, you just are limited and probably won’t do well on OLD. You have to rely more on personality and status.

2.) Chad can dress like shiit and still slay. Heck, he can even have a hairstyle that looks like a triangle.

4.) Yes, brush & mouthwash. And don't smoke or dip unless you're macking at the Trailer Park.

5.) Chad can say stupid sh!t and still slay.

6.)

8.) An ugly face requires an incredible amount of success in other areas, like $$$ or fame, to make up for it - and lifting doesn't help, as all it results in is a gymcel. It is virtually immediately over for ugcels.