The Great Debate: Can a "DJ" get any girl?

[diplomatic_lies]

it seems that some people are saying those with a DJ mindset can get any girl, irregardless of his Elephant Man rating.

In your opinion, do you believe that Elephant Man with DJ skills can net Cindy Crawford and her twin sister? Or do you see some limitations? Maybe a 4 guy can only get a 8 girl maximum, irregardless of skills? Or a 1 guy can get a 10 girl?

(P.S. for those of you who don't know it, Elephant Man was this guy in the freakshow with a disease which made him the ugliest man in the world)

(P.P.S. ive just realised, out of my 1600+ posts, approx. 1599 of the posts were for useless threads like this)

 

[MrNiceGuy]

I would say its personality not looks that are the limiting factor, some people just aren't gonna get on no matter what. A 1 could get a 10 if the 1 had DJ skills and the right personality for the 10 I reckon.

 

[jakethasnake]

VERY broadly speaking, it is possible. But I'd say the chances get slimmer, the uglier the guy is. I mean, people are human. A 1 will have a hard time finding a woman that will tolerate his chewed-sal****er taffy-face for whatever reason, whether it be his wealth or social standing, his athleticism, his personality, his social skills, or a combination of any of the above. They do exist, but are pretty damn hard to find. The uglier you are, the harder it gets.

 

[MysteryWoman]

No he can't get me, unless I want him because I will be able to see through his games (this board gives me power), as will other girls who come to this site.

It can make you more popular, but ofcourse no one can get any girl. Even the most handsome guys and sometimes richest experience rejection, even the movie stars. And yes, some girls would say no to Brad Pitt. You better believe it.

 

[Dee-Zy]

no

But the better you are - the more chances.

GHOST

 

[HappyHobo]

Many have forgotten the true meaning of the term "Dj" used on this forum, sadly to say

"don juans" do not pursuit women.. women pursuit these "don juans" what the Dj does to make this happen is take control of his life... and take control of himself

taking control of himself can mean takign control of his personality , of his passions and goals, of his appearance, etc..
When this happens it will lead women in becoming attracted to him. That is how it is done.

 

[SLIKKER_THAN_AVG]

I would have to say there is no way in hell

I mean yeah yeah we all complain that there are hot chicks walking around clinging to the arm of some chump whose not as good looking as us...but i have NEVER seen an overweight, ugly ass pimply faced greasy haired mofo walking hand in hand with an HB9.

It just doesnt happen, at least not from what ive seen.

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

No, looks matter. You can't trust the advice of anyone who says otherwise.

 

[diplomatic_lies]

How much of a difference would you believe any person can handle? For example, do you believe a 4 guy can get a 9 girl (difference of 5), or are you in the opinion there is a higher tolerance level?


I haven't seen an ugly-ass guy with a supermodel either. I think the largest gap I've seen was this 4 guy with a 7 girl - a difference only of 3.

 

[Harry Cash]

Personality and looks don't go separated.

He knows he's fat and no matter how skilled he is, he'll face the limitation of the association.

But, like everything in life, it depends on many factors and occasions.

 

[trajhenkhet]

A DJ that is truly at one with himself can do anything short of comming back to life after death.

 

[Bubzeebub]

I say it's possible for a guy to pull a girl that's better looking than he is on his "game." I see it all the time. Part of it is because women can be easily persuaded (to a point).

HOWEVER, I think almost everyone has an idea of what they want. Some Italian chick may be gung ho into Italian dudes. Some guy that's not Italian may try to talk to her but chances are ...he won't get anywhere. Mostly because she's already got in her mind what she wants.

Why do you think it is that when 2 people walk into a room their eyes immediately lock..."love at first sight" they call it. B.S.!! ...what it is ..is that the two already have an idea of what they find attractive....so when they see it....va-voom...they are drawn.

If a guy is a "MAYBE" on a girl's list then his "game" ..his personality and sauve can win her over.


-Bub

 

[Jay26]

I think you can, but you gotta have mad skillz, i've seen 4 guys with 9 chicks, course they had loads of cash

 

[Dee-Zy]

Originally posted by HappyHobo
Many have forgotten the true meaning of the term "Dj" used on this forum, sadly to say

"don juans" do not pursuit women.. women pursuit these "don juans" what the Dj does to make this happen is take control of his life... and take control of himself

taking control of himself can mean takign control of his personality , of his passions and goals, of his appearance, etc..
When this happens it will lead women in becoming attracted to him. That is how it is done.

That was actually a HUGE mistake I did in my first years on this board. I believed so much in this 'attract'N' girls N girls pursue'N me that I became idle.

A DJ prusues what he wants - so yeah, a DJ DOES chase women because a DJ is a man and initiative is the man's job. DJ pursue females, just not desperately.

 

[Donjuanpablo]

To say a 1 can get a "10" is like trying to find the fattest, ugliest mutantly deformed guy and putting him up with Charlize Theron. All the seduction skills in the world couldnt make that happen unofrtunately. However a guy with average looks can just about pull any bird, but there is no such think as a 100% strike rate for this either.

 

[Jay_VCU]

Originally posted by Bubzeebub


Why do you think it is that when 2 people walk into a room their eyes immediately lock..."love at first sight" they call it. B.S.!! ...what it is ..is that the two already have an idea of what they find attractive....so when they see it....va-voom...they are drawn.

-Bub

That just happened to me yesterday. Now I know what happened. I think I made too much of it at first.

 

[ismo]

french DJs should remember Serge Gainsbourg . he is probably the ugliest man ever lived, but he made love with Bridgitte Bardot, Jane Birkin and many more.. he was also awarded the DJ of France[/SIZE]

being ugly or handsome is b*ll****... the question is how self-confident you are..

By the way, i am not French, i am Turk.

 

[FlyGuy]

being ugly or handsome is b*ll****... the question is how self-confident you are..

Amazing how many people are in denial. Looks aren't EVERYTHING, but they definitely are important.

The wider the gap in looks, the more difficult it will be. If a guy is a 5 and is on top of his "game" he will be able to pull 5's fairly regularly, 6's a little less often, 7's less often still, etc. As long as you are average you have a chance though, there are always exceptions to the rule. Also if you have some other strong value (you are famous, rich, etc.) it can make things easier, but the drawback is that you don't know if she likes you for who you are or because of your lifestyle.

 

[MysteryWoman]

Rich guys can get away with being ugly. Usually when are see hot women with not so great looking guys, I don't think it is to do with confidence (if he hasn't money), I think it is because she chose to. Some good looking women are intimidated by handsom guys, so choose ugly ones which they can easily dominate. However I have never seen a hot woman looking really happy on the arm of an ugly guy.

But good looking women dramatically outnumber goodlooking guys (well they do in England), so a lot have to settle for less. Because it is not always easy to meet the good looking guy.

However I have seen many handsome guys with average looking girls, and they seem just as happy as if they were with a hot women.

Women are more into look than they admit
Guys are more into personality than they admit.
So things balance out.

 

[drZaius09]

Originally posted by ismo
being ugly or handsome is b*ll****... the question is how self-confident you are..

By the way, i am not French, i am Turk.

By the way, you're also WRONG.

MysteryWoman, it's about time you started making some sense around here, good post.